Family & Relationships - 24 March 2007

I'm a lesbian who has a crush on my online friend who is straight. She said if a woman was attracted to her and she felt the same, she 'd go ahead with a relationship, but she doubts it will ever happen. Now, she don't know how I feel and we never met face to face. Plus, she's from Canada and I'm from the USA. What shall I do? Should I tell her of my online attraction or wait until we meet in person to tell her. She did tell me she's open minded also! Thanks!

2007-03-24 23:26:12 · 5 answers · asked by sugarbear 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Truth be told, I havnt cheated on her recently.. and when I did cheat on her she was probably cheating on me.. however.. anyone could probably see that we're hardly madly in love.. and I have been sick and tired of her lately..

Today she tells me she dreamt she had to fight off a dozen women in her dreams and even murdered a few.. she said it was a bloody and gory masacre throughout her dream.. I was a bit shocked by that.. I'm thinking cheating might not be the best way to go and will likely dump her soon..

Who tihnks ESP is involved here?? Maybe i've given off some signals which have activated her sublime.. it could be my open perving of other women.. which i never used to do.. and she has yet ot comment about.. ?

2007-03-24 23:24:15 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

please explain me i don't know

2007-03-24 23:23:01 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-03-24 23:22:48 · 8 answers · asked by H M 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

i became friends with this girl and her mum was single, and ivd been living with my dad just me and him for about 5 years and i was so happy everyday! untill i met her and our parnents got together and ever since then my life change i felt like my dad hated me and left me out all the time! and so i began to make choices and so i decided to move to my mums:( not noing after i did this i left my frens (miss youz so much) my dad drove me to my mums 800kms and wen we said our goodbyes i just couldnt stop crying noing that i made the most fuked up choice eva!!! about 3 wks after i got a invertation for my dads wedding i went but after the wedding finished i neva got to say cya to my dad!!! i miss him so much !!! after living with him for 6 yrs it waz all over coz of that B*****!!! :'( wat do i do im so depressed!!! i hate my new skool miss my frens so much!!! i hate life and i hate myself

2007-03-24 23:22:14 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I'm thinking a trip away to a big city, not a spa weekend or a trashy stripper show... so hopefully this will be good for guys/gals as well as different friends who have not met. But:

1) I have close male friends, straight and gay - is a hen night exclusively for girls?
2) Different friends will all get on I'm sure, but is there something that could be said for sticking with a group of close mates who all know each other? I have heard of plenty of hen nights where it is a weekend of introductions rather than catching up and getting on... what do you think is best?

2007-03-24 23:21:56 · 17 answers · asked by starry eyed 2 in Weddings

I'm only speaking from experience with the January Aquarius..

2007-03-24 23:20:48 · 11 answers · asked by Boulos 2 in Singles & Dating

I am 24 6ft and black hair and dark blue eyes. And i love to flirt.

2007-03-24 23:20:09 · 13 answers · asked by ? 6 in Singles & Dating

So heres the situation:
A guyfriend who i dont care about to the extreme, who i am not dating but who i hook up with frequently when ive been drinking likes me more than i like him. He wants to have sex with me but i Know id be his first time(its not mine), and he knows the situation (as in he knows i dont want to go out with him or anything) The only reason i wont do it is because i dont want it to be akward between us afterwards or for him(or even me) to become attached. But those are the only reasons that hold me back because I do want to. Since he assures me that none of this will happen I think about doing it. But I still dont know..i mean were 18 and i guess its not as big as deal for guys at this age to lose their virginity but Im not sure if me being his first (and not wanting to go out with him etc) will make it all akward or if i should listen to what he tells me. I dont know what to do??

2007-03-24 23:18:19 · 9 answers · asked by Vanillachilla 2 in Singles & Dating

do guys find it a turn off when a girl has bad acne? i'm 15 years old and i think that if it wasn't for all the acne i'd be quite pretty as many of my friends have told me. i just started taking a medicine to clear it up. but it will take about 6 months until its all clear... what should i do until then?

2007-03-24 23:18:11 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-03-24 23:15:54 · 11 answers · asked by yasir 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Im a normal guy but i just hate company. I feel its stupid that say for example when you want to go for say lunch, you have to call a friend. Rather Id like to go where i want and when i want than be dependednt on anyone else. But in society this is looked upon as 'not normal". I simply hate to talk to people and i consider it a waste of time. Your comments and response please

2007-03-24 23:15:20 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Ok so now wat do i do?HI have been seeing my brothers friend for the past few weeks and hes kind of my friend too coz we all grew up on the same street! I have never felt like this about any one before and everything is soo perfect! I wouldnt be with him otherwise coz losing my brother is not something i would risk we're close! So my brother knows about it n is against it and he wont talk to either of us! I thought he might come round to the idea eventually n so did my brothers girlfriend!But he texted me n my boyfriend lastnight saying he's a piece of '***#' n he loved him like a brother n that we are both dead to him and he never wants to speak to us again! I dont want to give up my boyfriend or brother n i dont want to chose either!I love my brother n dont know how its gona turn out with my boyfriend but I know him well enough to know its for Real! Im 24 and my brother n boyfriend are 20 so we're not kidz but he wont talk about it and everyone is going to lose something here!Help!

2007-03-24 23:15:13 · 7 answers · asked by zara 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

i have 4 best friends, i love them all so very much, but lately i feel like smth has changed, its jst as if they're pushing me away. they do stuff tht really bug me and i jst kept saying "maybe they didnt mean it.......bla bla bla" but now it really is pushing me over the edge..........they way they talk to me or the way they take each other aside to talk or smth its jst unbearable........wut the hell could've changed all of a sudden, its jst like am not their friend anymore ??!!

2007-03-24 23:14:14 · 8 answers · asked by Noosha 2 in Friends

As a person that has been single for quite some time I'm curious to see how long others have gone without being in a relationship and why they have gone so long.

2007-03-24 23:13:14 · 4 answers · asked by heroicpomegranate 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

This is about my best friend, A. She's been dating this guy, T for about a week and i,as her best friend know bout their relationship. But, one day, my friends told me bout T's background and he's the one who loves to flirt with other girl. I ask A to tell me bout T but i didnt tell her bout what i've heard. It sounds that A knows little bout T's activities which is to flirt with other girl and on the other hands, T told me that althought he loves to flirt with other girl, he loves A dearly and inform her his every day routine though A didnt ask for. The question is how should i tell A about T activities without hurting her feelings and if she ask me what to do bout her relationship with T, what should i tell her??

2007-03-24 23:13:07 · 3 answers · asked by denise 1 in Singles & Dating

i had long waited for my childhood friend to ask me out on a date but he didnt, not until i finally started dating someother guy i met on the phone, i am madly in love with both of them. i kissed my childhood friend while dating the other and i told he abt it, he was furious abt it but then got over it, what do i do.

2007-03-24 23:10:24 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

plzzz help me i am 12 and i like sum1 hu is 11 but i think he likes me aswell help wat do i do??

2007-03-24 23:09:13 · 5 answers · asked by helen o 1 in Singles & Dating

I dont have friends in my socail life as well as in the office.Are there many people like me who dont have friends at the workplace or i am the onyl person.i dont have friends becoz i am not abe to talk like a normal person.life is really hard for me.?

2007-03-24 23:08:28 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

A regular face, etc.

2007-03-24 23:08:17 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i like this girl in my class. i want to know for sertain if she likes me. what are some sighns?

2007-03-24 23:06:03 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Do you think guitar playing guys are hot?
Do you like it when a guy cooks for you?
Or mows the lawn?
Prehaps paints or does the lawndry?

I think that the one thing in common here is a guys hands. If he is using his hands in some way, then he is appealing. Military guys hold guns, dancing guys guide you with their hands(and feet.) But a guy standing around is not attractive. Do you see what I mean?

2007-03-24 23:05:30 · 1 answers · asked by TheSilverBeetles 4 in Singles & Dating

I am a woman age 55. My husband of 4 years is 30 years of age. I was a widow when we met 10 years ago. Our friendship has always been valuable to us, and it was no ones business, of course. But once we moved in together, and later married, it seems like we are everyones concern. We have marvellous relationship, in all kinds of ways, and my son and daughter, who are a few years older than he is,love him. When my son says; dad, what do you thik about this or that??and bursts out in a laughter, It makes me laugh too, and feel good about our lives together. Bu all the questions we get by strangers sometimes, is anoying. What do people here feel about such a love story? Excuse my poor english. We live in Norway

2007-03-24 23:05:23 · 11 answers · asked by unanski 2 in Marriage & Divorce

im just really curious to find out if it is a gud or bad thing!

2007-03-24 23:04:49 · 3 answers · asked by lollipop222000 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I've been involved with a girl for over a year, She's a great companion, sexy, smart, and beautiful. Yet, as a VERY giving guy sexually, I find her to be just the opposite. Once she's satisfied, I've got a 50/50 shot at my own satisfaction. I've read other threads similar to this and do see that this is not the only way she's selfish. Do I run as fast as I can?

2007-03-24 23:02:11 · 14 answers · asked by slert1985 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-24 22:59:02 · 13 answers · asked by Phillip 4 in Singles & Dating

love making technics

2007-03-24 22:58:31 · 1 answers · asked by kuye o 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-03-24 22:58:22 · 5 answers · asked by mobi 2 in Friends

2007-03-24 22:58:12 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

My boyfriend has become distant with me. He has been like this since he hasn't got his promotion at work. He works full-time and he is now looking for a new job as he is unhappy with his current one. He goes to interviews almost every week, he even went to interview near my city. He has been quite stressed about all this and he told me last weekend he is fed up of loosing as he has had some negative replies from his interviewers. I took his distnacing personally and have been questioning him, worried he has lost interest in me. He was trying to explain that it's all due to his job stress but I still became very needy and accusatory. He pulled away even more and became angry with me. He said I am loosing him this way as I don't support him. I don't know what to do as he is now even more distant with me than before. I asked him to meet but he says he is not sure now. Please help, I love him very much but I am worried I am loosing him.

2007-03-24 22:58:03 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce