2007-03-24 22:58:12 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
i believe ur from one of those homely background.. and i cant really say wht u did was right or not? but surely.. saying no to sex b4 marriage was a good decision.. maybe he loves u, jus coz he asked for sumthing u dont want to give doesn't necessaryly end up in a break up.. your seem to be one of those wid strong family ties.. so better not to fall into any such relationships which u wont be able to continue.. think practical..
2007-03-25 22:35:21 · answer #1 · answered by $~~BrOKeN~~$ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well Prachi,
Its totally upto you... if u have broken up with him then there is no point thinking about such things!!
And if he wants a sexual relationship with u, then its ur decision, if u think that it is morally right to have sexual relation with a man before ur marriage then go for it. but if u think its wrong to have such relations b4 marriage u better break up with him bcz ultimately ur gonna be in trouble if u get pregnant or something. And if he is so much into sex that he is ready to end ur relationship then i guess its better to move on rather than fulfilling his sexual lust!!
A guy b4 marriage wants to end a relationship just for the sake of sex.. not worth it honey.. leave him!!
But still you have to take the decision..
wish u luck...
u can keep in touch if u want..
Deeps
2007-03-25 01:17:33 · answer #2 · answered by Deeps 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, ultimately it is upto you. However, you should know that Sex and love are two separate things. Sex is a way to show your love. Marriage is a socially accepted way to do this.
If your boyfriend can wake up in the morning and can love you for who you are... be in love with everything you are without wanting to have sex, that is true love. Thats what you should strive to have.
Give it a lot of thought, if you do give in, and you break up someday, you will most probably regret it. Think long and hard.
God bless you :)
2007-03-25 01:02:33 · answer #3 · answered by mushucheeks 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is debatable. You haven't mentioned, your age, profession.... how long you have known each other, what you feel his intentions are about you....... so on and so forth.
If he wants to break the relationship just because you are not willing to sleep with him, I think it is good for you. He obviously wants sex, and may (may be not) dump you after using you.
So think over it, and take your own sensible decision.
2007-03-25 00:04:05 · answer #4 · answered by glad 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Break up or not, It really depends on the reason you have to break up with him is it because your not ready to have sex or is it because you found another guy or his pressuring you into having sex if its being pressured into having sex then you have 2 options 1 tell him your not ready to have that kind of relationship with him right now but it could change in the future. its really hard to tell with little info
2007-03-24 23:10:59 · answer #5 · answered by Keith M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he cheats on his spouse with then you definitely be arranged for him to cheat on you interior the destiny. there is ethical concern in touch in having a sexual relationship with a married guy. flow on and locate somebody who's single and available.
2016-10-20 10:02:56 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No,you should discountinue the relationship,because he
is more interested in having sexual fun in place of friendship.
2007-03-25 01:44:39 · answer #7 · answered by pranay 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do not confuse between love & sex
I think your BF is lusting after you, if you do not want to have a sexual relationship with him then tell him if he wants to break up then break up dont hang around
2007-03-25 19:33:54 · answer #8 · answered by jay 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you have some self respect? If yes then by now you would have made the decision not to lick something u have spat.
2007-03-25 01:10:26 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes better u did break . Love is not something depends on sex. Love is care . this is careless decision . so if he doesnt care ur diginity than why u also .
2007-03-24 23:19:04 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋