So heres the situation:
A guyfriend who i dont care about to the extreme, who i am not dating but who i hook up with frequently when ive been drinking likes me more than i like him. He wants to have sex with me but i Know id be his first time(its not mine), and he knows the situation (as in he knows i dont want to go out with him or anything) The only reason i wont do it is because i dont want it to be akward between us afterwards or for him(or even me) to become attached. But those are the only reasons that hold me back because I do want to. Since he assures me that none of this will happen I think about doing it. But I still dont know..i mean were 18 and i guess its not as big as deal for guys at this age to lose their virginity but Im not sure if me being his first (and not wanting to go out with him etc) will make it all akward or if i should listen to what he tells me. I dont know what to do??
2007-03-24 23:18:19 · 9 answers · asked by Vanillachilla 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I know it makes me sound bad..but be realistic. I am not asking to be critisized for drinking and partying a year before the age limit(im from canada!) and I did first have sex with someone who i really cared about and had been going out with for months. The attraction in this situation is almost purely physical and the guy has assured me it will not change. I just dont know whether or not to beleive him..
2007-03-24 23:34:12 · update #1
I think he'll follow you around like a lost puppy if you do. If he's still a virgin at that age, and as you said, likes you more than you like him, he'll have a tough time not getting emotionally attached to you.
2007-03-24 23:23:58 · answer #1 · answered by slert1985 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Go on and do it, sex should be fun not full of regrets and doubts. Tell him yes and have a good time while u do it, don't worry about anything cause when ur older most people wish they would have enjoyed life a little more.
US A CONDOM!
2007-03-25 06:29:12 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
nothing will be awkward i ve seen many of my frnds affairs but take care dont pick out the topic of tht night after u both ve done it bcoz it ll mess things up n ya best of luck in whatever u do
2007-03-25 06:35:52 · answer #3 · answered by Mimoh 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Please don't.. With your current way of thinking about the situation, your act will psychologically affect him.. Sex should be between 2 people who love and care for each other!!!
2007-03-25 06:23:32 · answer #4 · answered by AdultMale 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You "don't care about him to the extreme", but you want to have sex with him?
Geez, can't you find a guy you care about slightly to have sex with?
2007-03-25 06:25:21 · answer #5 · answered by abrunger 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
a. you are too young to be drinking
b. you should not unless you are interested in a relationship bc he is going to get attached
2007-03-25 06:22:23 · answer #6 · answered by alexandria1_1999 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sex ruins freindships hun
2007-03-25 06:29:29 · answer #7 · answered by imneiflim 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
quit being so slutty and try to be mature and quit slinging your stuff around like it doesn't mean anything.
2007-03-25 06:28:56 · answer #8 · answered by j_mang 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try him out. lol.
if he can't handle it you can end it.
If he work out you are good to go.
2007-03-25 06:21:47 · answer #9 · answered by A Military Veteran 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋