i have 4 best friends, i love them all so very much, but lately i feel like smth has changed, its jst as if they're pushing me away. they do stuff tht really bug me and i jst kept saying "maybe they didnt mean it.......bla bla bla" but now it really is pushing me over the edge..........they way they talk to me or the way they take each other aside to talk or smth its jst unbearable........wut the hell could've changed all of a sudden, its jst like am not their friend anymore ??!!
2007-03-24 23:14:14 · 8 answers · asked by Noosha 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
How old are you? When young, friends can be really mean and spiteful to each other. You are the 5th friend, perhaps they have decided to pair up and you are the odd one out. This happens a lot in friendship, believe me
2007-03-24 23:18:20 · answer #1 · answered by Ya-sai 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It';s not you girlfriend, It's them..By the sounds of it you have grown up and they still have not. I'm guessing but you all are still in school? You must remember that (if you still are in school) that up until ... well actually forever, that your mind in still developing new skills and wisdom. My daughter is 11 almost 12 and she has always been ahead of most kids her age because of the way I talked to her as she was growing. I wanted her to know certain things and understand them at a young age just for the fact that is anything ever happened to me that she would always be smart enough to know right from wrong or what to do in case of an emergancy (things like that) but it makes her wiser and inreturn smarter. So maybe thats your case maybe your finially grown up to understand those things and perhaps they still are playing those silly little girl games thats all, don't worry the'll come around but until then just hand in there. Remember, you have the upper hand...
2007-03-24 23:22:55 · answer #2 · answered by sunnydays 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Did you interfere in something personal involving their boyfriends/husbands or anything personal like that? I know women can get pretty catty,even with their friends when boys/men are involved. Friend that give you that kind of drama,you don't need to have around you. But if I were you,I'd sit them down and have a talk with them about their recent behavior towards you. To me it seems you have angered them in some way. That's just what I think though. I'm a guy,so what I say may not carry much weight.
2007-03-24 23:18:44 · answer #3 · answered by theterrorofdeath 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the problem with you women is you talk to many guys as if you are cats whiskers. You get pride in it. But guys dont like the girl they like to talk to anyone else. At the same time if a guy wants to approach a girl, at that time he accepts the fact that the girl talks to other guys as this is an open invitation about teh fact that "you are the type who likes to freak out with guys". But after some time when the poor guys who have wasted their time and money on you realise you are treatingthem "just a friend", they get frustarted. Guys just want to feel girls thats it. Nothing else
2007-03-24 23:39:35 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi......have you tried to talk to them about it?.....you should....
you should talk to them and try to tell them what bothers you and from their way in listening to you and the answers and excuses that they will give you, you will be able to say if they are still your friends or not......sometimes people change just like that, no reason, no explanation.....
just try and if they keep doing it then you leave them....I'm sure you are a cool person so what makes you take all that, you don't have to......but you need to try to work it out with them first for the sake of your friendship
Good Luck
2007-03-24 23:54:29 · answer #5 · answered by Princess 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't ask us, ask them. If they are your friends you should be able to talk to them.
2007-03-24 23:19:06 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe u did somthin to piss them off?
2007-03-24 23:17:07 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why don't you ask them???
2007-03-24 23:17:09 · answer #8 · answered by AdultMale 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋