i became friends with this girl and her mum was single, and ivd been living with my dad just me and him for about 5 years and i was so happy everyday! untill i met her and our parnents got together and ever since then my life change i felt like my dad hated me and left me out all the time! and so i began to make choices and so i decided to move to my mums:( not noing after i did this i left my frens (miss youz so much) my dad drove me to my mums 800kms and wen we said our goodbyes i just couldnt stop crying noing that i made the most fuked up choice eva!!! about 3 wks after i got a invertation for my dads wedding i went but after the wedding finished i neva got to say cya to my dad!!! i miss him so much !!! after living with him for 6 yrs it waz all over coz of that B*****!!! :'( wat do i do im so depressed!!! i hate my new skool miss my frens so much!!! i hate life and i hate myself
2007-03-24 23:22:14 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
alright listen,
1st: let your mom know your thinkin of goin back and that u miss ur dad that much
2nd: let your dad know about how u feel and why
3rd: let that lady know how u feel and why, but do it calmly and dnt burst out. be respectful so that she listens to you.
4th: let him know you still love him
5th: let him know ur sorry and that u want back in
6th: slow things down, dont get stressed and dont get nervous, dont think "negative thoughts"
7th: think like this, u still have time, ur dad is still around to know and u still have time to make it better not worse. basically look at the positive side.
Hope i was of help and let me know wat happens if you chose to do this. Hope it works out.
2007-03-25 00:59:44 · answer #1 · answered by tumachiavelli11 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Disconnect yourself from your parents business ...not your parents. You are their daughter not up for the decisions of intimate relationships that belong only to husband and wife. The world would have many to believe parents aren't people....don't fall for it look at it as a total insult to family and kick it to the curb. You can love both your parents for the rest of your life....and live your life as well full of true friendships. Change your attitude...new school=more friends it's an adjustment not a funeral and doesn't it make sense that people can choose to make it or break it? Some people...even adults waste their time getting into their parents marital status imagine all that wasted time and wasted lives. Some people live in the past using their parents divorce as an excuse to be depressed even after their parents are no longer divorced. One day marriage may be on your list....you will find one day that your married to your spouse not your children. The best that can come from this is to learn from your parents marital faults the same way you learn from things modeled to you that was sound advice. Take you for example...
"i miss my dad so much :( and i think its my own fault? "
They raised a daughter that can communicate thus far. Imagine that, having the freedom to admit your faults and admit you love someone. You now have another parent....imagine if someone hated you for loving your dad. Don't cut off your nose to spite your face because calling your extended mother names is showing her you don't give a rip for your father ...the man she loves. It will put her on the defense and since marriage comes before a child(no matter the age) better turn this into something good instead making all about you...ok? Do you feel it's not ok for your father to be loved? What if that were you....what if is wasn't ok for you to be loved or even say you have faults? That would be a nightmare. So, consider love conquers all and things will get better for all involved.
2007-03-25 07:52:28 · answer #2 · answered by GoodQuestion 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to realise that your dad is happy and that he stills loves you.What would happen to your dad when you grew up and moved out?He would be alone.And probably sad.
Be happy for him and at least try to accept your step-mum or it could cause you and your dad to drift apart.
Why can't you move back?You didn't say he wouldn't let you.
Just remember that if you do,you will have to show her respect and not cause dramas.Your dad will appreciate that from you.
Good luck and cheer up!!
2007-03-25 07:19:39 · answer #3 · answered by Jane Doe 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Aww! I feel for you! OK first thing first, Deep breaths. HAve you maybe tried speaking to your mum about this? Just sit her down and try to be adult about it and tell her why your upset etc... Remeber maybe your dad misses you! He might need his little girl back not just his new wife!
Do u talk to the old friend? maybe ring her and ask how is it going? does my dad miss me etc..
Remeber be stong it YOUR life and do wahtever you want (just don't get caught!)
And as for if its your fault? its really really not!
go with peace
GOOD LUCK!
X
2007-03-25 06:47:24 · answer #4 · answered by thereisnoiineye 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
1st:--grow up.
2nd:--if you play, you got to pay.
3rd:--this is a grown up world
4th:--sooner you realize it the better
5th:--great language skills
6th:--tell him, not us what you feel
7th:--great language skills
8th:--grow up
9th:--life is not a Rose Garden
10th:--pick a Rose & you are going to get stuck
11th:--great Morals,Values, & Attitude
12th:--great language skills
2007-03-25 07:04:35 · answer #5 · answered by Ex Head 6 · 0⤊ 2⤋