Family & Relationships - 24 March 2007

i'm a female, 18, i'm from Malaysia, but i'm Malaysia-chinese,would like to have some western friends online,is there anybody from the west would like to have some chat online? please IM me or email me, anybody?

2007-03-24 21:10:49 · 1 answers · asked by jane 2 in Singles & Dating

should i tell them the truth,
or just tell them that i'm having a bad day?

they have their own stresses to worry about
and i don't want them to see me as afraid.

2007-03-24 21:10:31 · 19 answers · asked by soren 6 in Other - Family & Relationships

I'd like to know your worst blind date stories (or regular date stories) EVER.

2007-03-24 21:10:16 · 3 answers · asked by LuvUrGirl 3 in Singles & Dating

i mean when times get hard is it just me or do things always have to get even worse before theres even a tiny glimpse of light at the end of the tunnel?

2007-03-24 21:09:30 · 9 answers · asked by bundy ball bag 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

when a guy says " i wanna do you" or.. " i could do you right now?"

i never really got it

okay thnx

2007-03-24 21:08:31 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

We were married for 5 years at the time he was diagnosed with an advanced stage of cancer.It wasn't terminal but we were told the journey to get him better was going to be a very lond one.When I found out I totally lost it and I know it was extremely wrong of me but I left him because I didn't think I could deal with the disease and how it'd affect my life.He didn't have any other family so I did feel very guilty but I didn't feel like I had a choice but to leave him.It's been 2 years and he's in remission.I want a second chance so badly.He treated me like a queen throughout the whole time we've been together and I still love him as much as ever.He won't even look me in the eye let alone consider getting back together.What do I do?

2007-03-24 21:08:20 · 54 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Is My Fiancee telling the truth or did she CHEAT ON ME???
She Sleep over her friends house last week because she was very drunk, after going out with her friends, this is a guy that likes her for the past 2 years, but she reasured me that she has no feelings for him, she told me that she sleep in his bed and he sleep in the couch, NOT for anything but theres no way i will sleep in the couch of my own house while a girl that i liked is on my bed a little drunk, she got back home at 1pm the next day, and she went out to lunch with him 2 days later and shes been acting cold to me on the phone, she told me everything, and i asked her if something happened but she said no, Shes been hanging out with him daily till yesterday, Im 29 shes 27 were very mature and we have good careers we have great communication, and great sex, could it be that she knows shes leaving everything for me to move to me, and maybe she did it and she regrets, or did she CHEAT on me, what do u think happen???

2007-03-24 21:08:10 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Ok, I dunno why. My boyfriend's best friend really seem to take good care of me that it makes me wonder if he likes me. He's really loyal to his best friend so is it possible he's covering up his feelings?

So many times he's offered me to ride on his bike with him. In which I've accepted, until my boyfriend started saying no to his idea. It's either my boyfriend and I on his bike now, or the three of us on his bike with me in the middle. When it's the three of us together, it's always his idea.

He'll keep telling my boyfriend to take good care of me, and never betray me or he won't spare my boyfriend.

He told my boyfriend he's jealous my boyfriend ("ex gangster") got someone like me who's decent, funny, pretty, and cute.

He'll always ask me to write his stuffs for him.

He loves to disturb me, and chat with me.

He even asked us out next week saying he'll have a half-day.

He asked when was my birthday, and asked my boyfriend what he's going to do for me.

2007-03-24 21:07:58 · 3 answers · asked by IamherewhenIhavenothingtodo 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-24 21:07:50 · 16 answers · asked by laisha 3 in Friends

Should I harass you women here or cook up some of that greeaat curry!

Maybe I'll take a smoke or two.

What do you do when you are done with your chores?

2007-03-24 21:05:37 · 10 answers · asked by Joe B 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Ok so my ex fiance of 6 months recently broke up with me. She told me that the reason was because she felt bored to me and din't feel happy to me and didn't want to hurt me more in the future because she felt like she never had fun with me. I'm a very shy guy and she knows this but after being with her for 6 months I'm still shy and I think she feels like she knows who I am when she really doesn't. The question I have is why did she end it? What was going through her mind when she ended it?? I know she loved me and I think she still does.

2007-03-24 21:04:48 · 4 answers · asked by wish I knew 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-24 21:03:35 · 9 answers · asked by Steven A 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I have liked many different guys but the ones I really like my friends end up going out with them. Is there something wrong with me? Am I jinxed and forever doomed to live a life of being single?

2007-03-24 21:03:15 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

the parents of your husband always mentioned your overweight while the exes of their son are all sexy and beautifuls.they always make you feel down.they keep telling stories of the past relationship of your husband even in your own kids..

2007-03-24 21:02:16 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

well im new on myspace and i wnt lots of friends and i dont kno how to find them!!

2007-03-24 21:01:39 · 7 answers · asked by First L 1 in Friends

We broke up today (my decision) and he says I can't have my things until my attitude changes? All I said was that I didn't want to be with him because I wasn't happy. I have always treated him like a king and he has been verbally and emotionally abusive- check my past posts. Do I need to get the cops to go with me to get it?

2007-03-24 21:00:32 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Why do some guys not want the title of being in a relationship, but that act and do everything that a bf and a gf do? Are men just playing the field, don't know what they want or playing games.

***MY SITUATION: i've been friend with a great guy for 5 months. In the beginning he wanted to be with me, because i had just got out of a relationship i told him i wasn't ready to get into another one. He respected that and stated that he would be patient with me. Now, 5 mo. later i want to be with him, and he said he doesn't want a relationship. But we act like we are in a serious relationship.

2007-03-24 21:00:01 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

1. No man(woman) is worth your tears, but the one who is, won't make you cry.

2. I've never learned anything from someone who agreed with me.

3. Speak without offending, listen without defending.

4. If i try to be like him(her), who will be like me???

5. The secret of getting ahead is getting started.

6. Give pepole more then they expect and do cheerfully.

7. Respect everyone, but fear no one!

8. Let us not look back in anger, nor forward in fear, but around in awareness.

9. Don't cry because it's over, smile because it happened!!!

10. Life is easy, it's the us who make it difficult!!!

11. Keep your words, soft and sweet just in case you have to eat them.

12. Do not think I'm 50 years old. think I'm 18 years old with 32 years of experience.

13. Look may capture the eyes but it's the personality that captures the heart!!!

14. Advice is what you ask when you already know the answer but wished you didn't .

Have a great life and be happy...

2007-03-24 20:58:31 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

My husbands sister (along with most of his family) seem to think that it's quite alright for her to be living with the ex wives of my husband and one of her other brothers.

What does everyone else think about this?

2007-03-24 20:56:42 · 9 answers · asked by Krystin 2 in Marriage & Divorce

He is always there for me. I know he loves me but as we grow older the sex gets less and less and I seem to want it more and more. Wondering if maybe I am loosing my looks or is it something else. Don't think he is cheating. I usually know where he is and I really can't picture a man like him cheating. Please no mean comments. I am ready to cry already.

2007-03-24 20:56:22 · 19 answers · asked by ? 4 in Marriage & Divorce

how should a woman determine, what a guy whom she is talking to, thinks or is thinking about her.what are the special things to look for in order to read his mind

2007-03-24 20:54:51 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Several years ago I was traveling by bus. While stopped at a depot, a young man that looked to be in his 20's boarded the bus and sat in the back by himself. A young woman on board approached him and struck up a conversation with him. She was laughing and giggling and acting really weird. At the next stop, this young man followed the bus driver into the restroom and told the driver that this woman on board had dope, showed it to him and had offered him some which he declined.
Afterwards the bus continued down a highway and was stopped by the police who secured the bus. The police entered the bus, approached the woman, confiscated the drugs and hauled her off in handcuffs. This young man was visibly shaken and in tears. I asked him if he would like to sit by me and he did. He told me he was on his way to his brother's funeral, his brother had died from a drug overdose. I held his hand as he said he hoped he did the right thing in reporting this woman. I told him he did the right thing

2007-03-24 20:54:07 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I am recently engaged, and I have split custody of my 7 year old son from a previous marriage. The issue of his last name came up. What usually happens to a child's last name when the mother remarries? My fiance will not be adopting him or assuming any custody, the custody will remain split (50/50) with my son's father and I. I will be changing my last name to my fiance's.

2007-03-24 20:54:04 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

They seem to never know what I'm talking about. I talk about literature, economics, politics, philosophy, theories, math, diplomacy, psychology, etc., and they don't know what I'm even talking about.

2007-03-24 20:53:12 · 12 answers · asked by Wisdom Guru 3 in Singles & Dating

we were going out and he doesnt have hes ears peariced but in my dream he did and he had in girl earings it was weird.

2007-03-24 20:51:55 · 11 answers · asked by number1hilaryfan 1 in Singles & Dating

My girlfriend is great, but theirs one problem, her body is so stubborn, i just cant get her to have an orgasm!!!

iv tried everything, licked her for ages, fingered her etc etc but nothing seems to work for me HELP!!!!!!!!!

2007-03-24 20:51:33 · 13 answers · asked by Chicken Feet 1 in Singles & Dating

thus making me more confident and not care about the girl i am with since i can pretty much get other girls? then i would dump her and become big headed and shallow and start turning into a player who doesnt care about women?


and isnt this the type of guy that women want, the jerks that dont care about them? and dont pay them any attention? oh but hes confident...

2007-03-24 20:51:28 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

What are they keys to get 2 women that despise each other to not, for family harmony

2007-03-24 20:50:07 · 9 answers · asked by ? 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My dad offered to fix me up with a woman he sees at the gym. She is 29 and I'm 35. What do you think? Should I let him?

2007-03-24 20:49:58 · 9 answers · asked by Phillip 4 in Singles & Dating

Ok its me again I asked something earlier, but the relationship has changed, well here it goes, Me and this girl met at a bar last week have been talking alot since then, even made, ok well last night I hung out at her place we ended up cuddling, and then went to bed together, didnt have sex, we kissed a couple of times, I know she thinks Im hot but she seems kinda stand offish, what should I do girls, what is going on?

2007-03-24 20:49:45 · 8 answers · asked by Paul D 2 in Singles & Dating