Need some help!!?

Question

Ok so my ex fiance of 6 months recently broke up with me. She told me that the reason was because she felt bored to me and din't feel happy to me and didn't want to hurt me more in the future because she felt like she never had fun with me. I'm a very shy guy and she knows this but after being with her for 6 months I'm still shy and I think she feels like she knows who I am when she really doesn't. The question I have is why did she end it? What was going through her mind when she ended it?? I know she loved me and I think she still does.

Answer 1

Sometimes, unfortunately, one person doesn't feel what the other does. You should be glad that she was at least mature enough to tell you her feelings instead of just continuing with a lie, or, even worse, just disappearing.

It's difficult, I know, to have strong feelings for another and not have them reciprocated. Just remember, you'll know when the relationship is right when you don't have to lose who you are to keep it. Take some time to be single, as much time as you need to sort yourself out. You don't want to bring your issues into the next relationship or it'll be doomed to fail from the get-go. Good luck to you. :)

Answer 2

It's too bad but probably better 6 months into an engagement instead of six months, six years or six kids down the road. You are who you are and she is who she is. You both need different things. Sorry but it's time to move on.

Answer 3

you need to talk to her and say what you wrote. tell her what you are feeling and show her that the two of you CAN have fun.

and be brave, even if you are shy, because if there is one time when you should be really brave - it would be now.

Answer 4

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