Family & Relationships - 24 March 2007

I have been married for 20 years now. In the past year or so I have seen a definate change in my wife's attitude toward me. It now seems that her friends are more important than me. She has had a huge change in lifestyle, one which I don't fit into. We have 6 kids and she says she loves me, but really doesn't act like it. I have tried to talk to her about this but she just gets nasty and says I am paranoid. However, she can't seem to get home before 2:00am.

I have also found chats that she saved to men where she was being more than friendly with online. She denies it and says it was her friends doing the chatting using her yahoo account but can I believe that?

I am sick of all the wispering behind my back when she is around her friends and I am in the other room. I don't know what to do. I don't know how to move on because of the kids. I do love her but I am sick of the pain she makes me feel.

Can you give me some advice?

2007-03-24 20:47:52 · 10 answers · asked by aloneamongstall 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-03-24 20:47:10 · 7 answers · asked by purplechic1982 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

If one guy tells another guy...there is no way she likes you more than she likes me is he trying to stake out territory around this girl?...


Since he knows it, is he trying to make the other guy not date me?


BTW, he happens to be right! I like one of them, but I love the one who said I like him best.


Someone mentioned he might be cocky, but it was said as a matter of fact. I wouldn't call it cocky. That's one of those things...if you knew him, he's not cocky.

But the question is still concerning if Is he trying to show the other guy that he is interested in me or is he only stating how I feel about him and there's no reflection on his feelings for me???

2007-03-24 20:46:52 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

It happened to me that's why I am asking.

2007-03-24 20:45:04 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-03-24 20:44:02 · 10 answers · asked by kenski 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-24 20:43:12 · 10 answers · asked by sparky_younger 1 in Singles & Dating

Short version of story: I liked a girl, she lead me on then said she didn't like me. We talked only for four months. After the fourth month I told a friend about how she told me about her falling in love with someone else and not me. She found out and never talked to me again. 11 months later, I've missed her and it seemed like she missed me too because she was always looking at me and sometimes she would say hi back to me. I thought maybe she'll talk to me since that was so long ago and we can be friends again. So I went to talk to her but she completely ignored me and I left her. Two days later (today) I looked at her page where she had changed her headline to simply "wondering why..." I think it may not be anything to do with me and it's not such a big deal or it could be about something else. If it has to do with me it's probably about why did I even try to talk to her. I don't know, what could it mean if it does have to do with me?

2007-03-24 20:42:25 · 4 answers · asked by Icebox -0: Never Again 5 in Singles & Dating

She picks a fight with me over some of the most smallest things and then begs me to slap her, or punch her..
She is really a sweet girl and I love her but I'm afraid of what this can lead to.
I never could figure out why some women do this and I've heard this from other guys too...

2007-03-24 20:40:45 · 9 answers · asked by VINCENT 1 in Singles & Dating

i love one girl and she also love me . now she asked me that if she married to other person , will i break friendship with her ? so i m confused but i said that it alll depend on her . if he wants then i but i will never want to hurt her , she is my best friend .

2007-03-24 20:40:28 · 17 answers · asked by samy s 1 in Friends

Do you tell them your sorrows or your life story?Say to them what you wan't to say to a friend?

2007-03-24 20:39:14 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-03-24 20:38:51 · 11 answers · asked by Direktor 5 in Family

i am 14 and a freshmen in high school and i haven't had my first kiss yet and my bff got her first kiss 2-night......i am hella jealous and i am told that i am cute by ppl.....guys and girls......what is wrong with me? how should i get my first kiss?

2007-03-24 20:37:51 · 20 answers · asked by alyssa d 1 in Singles & Dating

I am the black sheep of the family. I am the second child from four siblings, and I am also the only girl in the family. Although some people thought that I might be the favorite one in the family because I am the only girl, I actually felt left out almost every day. It hurts my feeling a lot, when we are all together, and I am the quiet one, each time I open up a conversation, every member neglected me. This causes me not to hang out with them anymore, it's not that I'm not trying at all to please every member of my family, I already did, but still, I felt like the odd one out. My mom also always praise other girls she met on tv, or when we are out together in the mall, she made me feel that I am not attractive at all. To make matter worse, my parents adopt a little girl, whom is cute, and (sigh...), praised her everyday too. This made me feel that I am not good enough for them, and I started to feel that way too with every other people in my life like friends, and boyfriends.

2007-03-24 20:37:49 · 4 answers · asked by faridah s 1 in Family

ok girls...i need help on whether this is a turn off or not...but i just wanted to kno if it is not attractive if my nipples are smaller then the average man's nipples, even if i am in very good shape like im 175 pounds with 12% body fat and im 5' 11" . i justt need help girls, and also sometimes when i wear a shirt that is kind of tight, my nipples kinda poke out and it makes me angry so i cant buy the shirt. just post what u think i should do!

2007-03-24 20:37:44 · 7 answers · asked by HAPPYMANFROMRAMADAN 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-24 20:36:58 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

e.g looks, personality, size, weight, height, friendly, quiet, outgoing, fun etc...

2007-03-24 20:36:40 · 7 answers · asked by Michelle 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-24 20:36:37 · 10 answers · asked by E R 1 in Weddings

i like mastarbuting becoz i am seeing daly naked womens in front of my office but i dint get chance to **** so when i went to my room at that time i am intersting to do mastarbuting so plz tell me what i have to take for good energy for masturbuting i am male 23 age so plz help me bye

2007-03-24 20:36:14 · 2 answers · asked by vaseeq r 1 in Singles & Dating

Why did I blush? How do I stop that?

2007-03-24 20:35:19 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have a mad crush on this guy at my work and I can't stop thinking about him. I know he is totally wrong for me. He is VERY taken and has a lot of baggage. You can say that we are pretty much from 2 different worlds. Anyways I really don't want to like him, hes just not right for me. My friends told me to not pursue anything with him and just forget him; they also said he is way below my standards. But, I guess that saying is true: "You can't help who you fall for." Anyways, my question is how do I even start to forget about him when I see him practically everyday and whenever I speak to him, he sends shivers up and down my spine. I know I sound like a complete idiot, but I'd rather take a stranger's advice than my friends' because you guys don't know anything about me.

2007-03-24 20:34:04 · 10 answers · asked by Alana 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-24 20:33:16 · 16 answers · asked by Johan 4 in Singles & Dating

Every night I have noticed that on my bf's computer which is next to mine, that the cursor is ALWAYS in the top right corner out of the screen. I thought that was weird. You actually have to PUT it there, it's not accidental. I was on his computer a week or so ago trying to get something from my website to work in IE, so my computer didn't show it right so I used his and found porn. The porn didn't upset me, it was that I think it was on a day that I initiated sex and he said he wasn't in the mood. Then there was porn on there after I left the house. We talked about that and how I accidently found it. Do you think he is putting the cursor there purposely everynight to see if I am looking through his computer? Geez I didn't the first time.

2007-03-24 20:32:03 · 2 answers · asked by Secret Bubblegum Agent 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

im 13 and i really like this girl tht i am currently friends with. we talk all the time. but the twist is shes going out with another guy and im not going to make them break up just so i can have her tht just is to cruel for me. i wanna tell her but i dont think i should. any ideas i really need to know.

2007-03-24 20:31:08 · 16 answers · asked by mtk 1 in Singles & Dating

We went out for a month and he said he only wants to be friends so I was dumped. But we still hang out a lot. He IM and texts me often to ask me how i've been or telll private jokes.

FRiends tell me it is a good thing we are still great friends that hang out and talk. But now I wonder if he is just using me as a fall back whenever he needs compnay and his friends are away. I enjoy his company and he's practically an orphan. I have many friends but he knows I hate them and always want to get away from them. I never look for him only he does.

Am I thinking too much that he is using me as a fallback company for hanging out? Is he playing me?

2007-03-24 20:29:26 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i had a hard time making friends in high school, did anybody else have this problem. I didn't really fit in at i thought high school wasn't that fun. Tell me what you think..

2007-03-24 20:29:20 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

im married for 6yrs still im so much inlove w/ my husband.im very lucky for having him,we have3kids.before im not that overweight but as the days goes by and giving birth,i gained 15lbs.no matter how i want to lose weight and look okay,i cant.my husband is so handsome.im beginning to think that he'll left me coz im ugly and fat.i love him very much, i dont know what will i do if ever he'll left me..

2007-03-24 20:28:53 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-03-24 20:28:51 · 1 answers · asked by tim s 1 in Singles & Dating

OK I'll try to make this short. I dated my ex for a short time then HE ended it. He's 26, I'm 21. He has lots of experience with dating, while he was my first kiss & first bf. Our relationship was so innocent, cuddling in his room, holding hands, kissing. We never had sex cuz he knew I wanna save sex for marriage. He would still say hi to me on msn even though HE ended it. It has been over for more than ONE YEAR. 2 months ago, he called me, after one yr. & wanted to make plans together so we could see a movie sometime. We set a date, he picked me up & after the movie he took me home. On the drive home, when I asked him why he wanted to see me, he said that he wants to "see me every once in awhile". I felt disrespected so when I got home I said "bye forever" to him on msn. Then I felt badso a week later I said sorry to him on msn. Sincethen I have said hi to him 2 on msn.Then a few days ago he said hi to me on msn & he wanted to know what I had been up to Does he feel guilty or miss me?

2007-03-24 20:28:43 · 13 answers · asked by Hottie 1 in Singles & Dating

Short version of story: I liked a girl, she lead me on then said she didn't like me. We talked only for four months. After the fourth month I told a friend about how she told me about her falling in love with someone else and not me. She found out and never talked to me again. 11 months later, I've missed her and it seemed like she missed me too because she was always looking at me and sometimes she would say hi back to me. I thought maybe she'll talk to me since that was so long ago and we can be friends again. So I went to talk to her but she completely ignored me and I left her. Two days later (today) I looked at her page where she had changed her headline to simply "wondering why..." I think it may not be anything to do with me and it's not such a big deal or it could be about something else. If it has to do with me it's probably about why did I even try to talk to her. I don't know, what could it mean if it does have to do with me?

2007-03-24 20:28:32 · 1 answers · asked by Icebox -0: Never Again 5 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-24 20:28:23 · 8 answers · asked by butthead007 1 in Singles & Dating