Feel like he is using me? do you think i am worrying too much?

Question

We went out for a month and he said he only wants to be friends so I was dumped. But we still hang out a lot. He IM and texts me often to ask me how i've been or telll private jokes.

FRiends tell me it is a good thing we are still great friends that hang out and talk. But now I wonder if he is just using me as a fall back whenever he needs compnay and his friends are away. I enjoy his company and he's practically an orphan. I have many friends but he knows I hate them and always want to get away from them. I never look for him only he does.

Am I thinking too much that he is using me as a fallback company for hanging out? Is he playing me?

Answer 1

I think you deserve a lot much than this... And if you have noticed that you are used it means that's the truth.. maybe you both should have a conversation ot at least keep the distance for a while to see how he reacts....

Answer 2

Hi,
I think you are reading WAY too much into this.
He's a guy, be grateful that he rings you & wants to hang out & tell jokes without wanting anything in return.

Question though- You say you have lots of friends, but you said you hate them!

Well, you shouldnt hate friends, & if you do, I would find a more suitable word for them,then friends, maybe enemies perhaps.

Enjoy your friendship, & if it's still bothering you, confront him & get on with it

Answer 3

Probably not "intentionally" playing you. If you don't need another friend then find someone else to date, and don't spend a lot of effort staying friends.

Answer 4

as long as you are doing what you want to do - stop stressing over it. if you are not happy hanging out with him or you are trying to get more from him than you get, then you should be honest and not wait for him to figure out how great you are, etc.