Family & Relationships - 24 March 2007

I've been missing a girl for 11 months. I hadn't been bugging her since she didn't want to talk to me anymore. We said hi occasionally, I thought things would be cool between us. I tried to talk to her. I said Hey how are you? She said nothing. I tried to talk about how she was helping with something (she was inactive at the moment). Still nothing. I told her I know we haven't talked in the longest time (I liked her, then fell in love with her, but she never liked me back), but I only wanted us to be friends again. I couldn't bring myself to say I missed her because it seemed like she wasn't hearing me. She kept her back turned towards me, unlike when I saw her sneak so many glances at me this past year. She texted on her phone. She never even looked at me, never said a word. I wanted to say what I felt about her, but all my feelings about her besides "I love you" wouldn't come up. I wanted to say I love you. I just said "ok, I get the point, you don't have to say anything else.

2007-03-24 19:43:43 · 8 answers · asked by Icebox -0: Never Again 5 in Singles & Dating

i keep on seeing questions with that sometimes....what is that?

2007-03-24 19:43:12 · 14 answers · asked by randy oliver 1 in Marriage & Divorce

If one guy tells another guy...there is no way she likes you more than she likes me is he trying to stake out territory around this girl?...

BTW, he happens to be right! I like one of them, but I love the one who said I like him best.

Since he knows it, is he trying to make the other guy not date me?


Someone mentioned he might be cocky, but it was said as a matter of fact. I wouldn't call it cocky. That's one of those things...if you knew him, he's not cocky.

But the question is still concerning if Is he trying to show the other guy that he is interested in me or is he only stating how I feel about him and there's no reflection on his feelings for me???

2007-03-24 19:40:11 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have been dating the same guy for about 10 months now and I really like him. Thing is, theres another guy I met while I was doing this play, and he's a lot of fun to be around and he has a great personality and we've become good friends, and I kind of like him too. All of my friends think that he is like obsessed with me but I'm not really sure. He keeps on begging me to call him everyday but I don't cause I don't want to make my b/f mad. He's a really cool person and I hope we can be friends for a long time, and I'm afraid that if I tell him my feelings for him, it would ruin our friendship, andobviously my current relationship. I am just so confused. Please help..

2007-03-24 19:39:48 · 8 answers · asked by jessiPhS2010 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

If so what about them do you miss?
And would you ever consider getting back with them?

2007-03-24 19:39:27 · 14 answers · asked by Jazz 3 in Friends

My boyfriend doesn't want it. He has 4 kids, 1 with me already and I have 2 kids. I felt the baby move and really want the baby because I love him, but this baby will be 8 months younger than the one he just had. please help!!!!

2007-03-24 19:39:14 · 22 answers · asked by Candace D 1 in Marriage & Divorce

When my husband and I(then boyfriend) first started dating, he use to play with my son on his lap. On a few occasions, I would notice that when he was done playing with him, he would have a semi-erection. Also at times when I worked late, he would give my son baths, and I noticed one night that he had oiled my son's whole body with some type of bath oil, which made me feel uncomfortable but I figured maybe I was being too paranoid. My son was about two or three at the time. Also he would get semi erections when our one year old daughter would play in his lap. One one occasion, he had a full erection but he stated that whenever she slightly kicks him there or nudges him too hard down there, he would get an erection. What do yall think because this has been bothering me for years!!

2007-03-24 19:38:43 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Why did I just give this guy a lengthy explanation why I couldn't date him?

I see him around, he's very cute and very nice. I'm seeing someone, and when he asked me out...I could have just said, "Thanks, but I'm seeing someone"...

Instead, I told him I lost his number and that's why I was out of contact (he asked me out months before) then I decided to be upfront and I told him I was seeing someone for a while now, and yacked on about how I'm off limits and taken.

Now I feel dumb, but I'm wondering if there's anything subconcious to my reaction.

2007-03-24 19:38:33 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

To the funeral of your mother in law?
MY Mother in law died on friday morning and already my wifes sister and boyfreind are arguing with us.
They are saying that we never looked after her.
it is not true,my wife had to take her to the doctors all the time because her sister was ashamed to walk on the street with her!
ITS WAR
And ive just arrived back from Iraq
and the war there is nothing compared to this!
Should we go?

2007-03-24 19:38:04 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I have been sleeping with her fiance for the last 6 weeks. I am 18 and my sister is 30 and her fiance is 33, we have never really gotten along so I don't feel too guilty about betraying my ***** sister but although he says that we can keep doing this forever if we want to, and I want to - but what if we're found out?

2007-03-24 19:37:37 · 12 answers · asked by Paige 1 in Marriage & Divorce

She doesn't want to do anything at all besides kissing / making out. I talked to her about it and it's simply that she wants to save everything until marriage. When I say everything - it means everything. Personally, I can't handle it. I can handle no sex I suppose for the period of this relationship - I do love her but the rate it's going sexual wise, it's killing me. Everything is perfect besides the sexual aspect of the relationship. Now, though, she's going to school - 1200 miles away. We have talked about staying together and she is sincere about it but I don't know about myself. I know she loves me but it feels like she doesn't because of the way she acts. She's not scared about doing anything; she just plain and simply doesn't want to do anything. So we love each other, we snuggle, we kiss, we make out - but everything stays on - I'm not allowed to touch her intimately - anywhere. It's been almost a year and I'm losing my interest fast - suggestions?

2007-03-24 19:37:05 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-03-24 19:36:59 · 18 answers · asked by melody C 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-24 19:36:18 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I had a set of tapes I think was called no more stinking thinking and the tapes case was orange and a male motivational speaker would talk about no more stinking thinking and encourage young children I want to say his name was bob something, cannot find any info on these I was about 8 so that puts it about 20-25 yrs ago, I am from Southern Oregon and Northern California these tapes could have been purchased for me somewhere around these areas. Ok, Thanks

2007-03-24 19:36:07 · 3 answers · asked by Ty 1 in Family

well my dad is always doing stuff with my brother and never with me.

2007-03-24 19:35:39 · 20 answers · asked by ellabella0110 1 in Family

If so what about them do you miss?
And would you ever consider getting back with them?

2007-03-24 19:35:06 · 7 answers · asked by Jazz 3 in Singles & Dating

by dirty I mean those boys who only shower about once every 4 days

2007-03-24 19:35:01 · 14 answers · asked by J 4 in Singles & Dating

my mun drives me crazy! Whenevr I have a assinment she always wants to help and I tell her I want to do it on my own but she keeps going past me and lookng over my sholder to see what I'm doing.

When ever I ask he to CHECH a assinment she always has a red pen in her pocket and starts scribbling away and shouts at me for what I can't do

Help Me How can I make this stop i'm going crazy.

2007-03-24 19:34:31 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I NEED ADVICE IM GOING NUTS HERE, Im a 29 male engage to a 27 year female, were getting married next year, she lives in another state, shes moving here to my house in 3 weeks forever last week she went for the weekend for her birthday and i couldnt make it because i had to go to another country for a business meeting, so she went out till 6am, and her roomate had her purse so she couldnt get back in her apartment, and she went out with some friends for breakfast while my girl had no way of getting in her house she sleep over a guys house, whos a friend of hers that always
had the hots for her, but she reasured me that she doesnt like him like that she got back home at 1pm that sunday, she went out for lunch with him 2 days later, and shes been acting weird on the phone the past week,
is she sleeping with him, or is it just me being paranoid, ( DOnt forget she told me everything that she was doing and who she was with.

2007-03-24 19:34:09 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Hey Im curious which sounds funner...kissing with starburst or kissing with jolly ranchers? Both are sweet but which one would make it more um...interesting?

Lol....this is all for fun.

2007-03-24 19:33:03 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i was debating whether or not i should get a pair of plaid shorts along with a light blue polo from hollister. i think it'll look good, but i didn't know if girls like those kinds of shorts. i believe they're a light color, like a light brown or something

2007-03-24 19:32:33 · 9 answers · asked by youngjeezy 1 in Singles & Dating

My husband doesnt pay as much attention to me as I would like but I am greatful for when he does. We have three children so I dont expect him to be with me all the time. We have been together for three years. I know relationships get old and have herd that I should spice things up but I want to know how to do that in all other areas other than our sex life. I guess what I am saying is I think we lost our connection and I want to know how to get it back. I love him so much but I feel like my heart breaks a little more each day. I crave his touch so bad not only in a sexual way. I dont understand why I feel this way. If anyone knows how I feel let me know what you do to feel better.

2007-03-24 19:32:11 · 13 answers · asked by QTforlife 2 in Marriage & Divorce

My husband went back and told his mom about problems we were having in our marriage and she sent me a rude email telling me off and saying that everything was my fault. I am not close to her. She doesn't have my cell number and when we visit we hardly say ten words to each other. I told my husband that I want nothing else to do with her and I don't want her to have anything to do with our daughter (1 year old) because I am afraid she would bad mouth me. This isn't the first time she has bad mouthed me. Am I wrong for not wanting her to be a part of my daughter's life?

2007-03-24 19:31:32 · 17 answers · asked by Mom of Three 5 in Family

2007-03-24 19:31:03 · 7 answers · asked by Sprittle Racer 1 in Singles & Dating

My husband loves looking at other women on the net. I even found out he tried to find one of his ex-girlfriends using a search engine. He claims they were only friends and kissed once. When we are in public, I see him looking at other women. What gives? I tried talking to him about it for years and nothing has changed. I don't want to imagin how he acts around his friends.

2007-03-24 19:31:01 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

he shows me no love what so ever and believes we need no counseling what should i do i feel like having someone at the side is that the answer .....at least till i can make it on my own

2007-03-24 19:29:22 · 7 answers · asked by shycat 1 in Marriage & Divorce

anyone ever tell the person you liked how much you loved them? what came out of it, good or bad.

2007-03-24 19:29:16 · 4 answers · asked by BruceNasty 5 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-24 19:29:06 · 6 answers · asked by divinemadness 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

In the judgement was awarded house. She could not pay or refi. After JOD I had 45 days to refi. I filled out all the paper work and a few months latter received a new payment book (manft'd home) with only my name and no co-borrower (different bank) even though I sent the paperwork to the original bank. I thought nothing of it thinking that now my loan was sold off to a new bank like it often does in high risk mort's. Well when I went to move it on to private land, the constr'n loan bank wanted a copy of the title. The title still had her name on it as well as the loan. When I asked why she was not listed as a co-borrower in the new book, they lied and said there is only room for 1 name (it has a space listed co-borrower, left blank) 45 days went way past fighting banks. 2 1/2 years. I contact the ex tell'g her the problem and tried to come to some solution till new husband threatnz. Lost job. Out of options. She filed br. I cant bcuz JOD says so. foreclosure iminent. Help PZ!

2007-03-24 19:28:12 · 3 answers · asked by moe 1 in Marriage & Divorce

what do you really look for in a girl. No lying!!

2007-03-24 19:27:43 · 20 answers · asked by kimberly 2 in Singles & Dating