Family & Relationships - 24 March 2007

2007-03-24 19:11:03 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Need some suggestions (serious, funny, whatever is helpful) at how to stop being bitter and angry at my ex. In a nutshell this is why I am bitter: For the past 4 months while I sat at home watching our son,and taking care of the house, my ex has been going out every other night, staying out all night, flirting with co workers, spending our money, acting like a 30something teenage girl, and generally treated me like trash. Now I know I am not perfect and I had my own stuff to contribute to the status of my relationship--but she kicked me out, so now I sit here 1 week later feeling bitter and angry as hell, with no home, and a child to take care of!

2007-03-24 19:10:51 · 8 answers · asked by zombiez8me 2 in Marriage & Divorce

i finally decided after 400 yahoo questions to leave the guy i was seeing alone. i kept taking him back and listening to his broken promises. getting the same result each time. hoping for a change but it never came. now i feel i wasted 2 1/2 yrs of my life crying and being sad for nothing and i feel like an idiot for taking a guy back that could care less. he treats me with no respect and i allowed him to keep coming back. he was no good for me and i kept taking him back. cuz he did at one time and different occasions acted like he cared. can anyone tell me something positive cuz i keep beating myself up. one minute im strong and the next minute i feel like im meaningless. cuz why would someone treat me that way when i was only good to them. i told him off in the end and i just need something positive in my life. i wish the pain would just go away. im so tired mentally. i wasted 2 1/2 yrs on this guy. i knew deep down i should have left him alone. so what was i thinking?

2007-03-24 19:10:29 · 7 answers · asked by eaglestraces123 4 in Singles & Dating

on the weekend he rather be out at house party without you you are thinking about moving on but his name and your name on lease for a year then what someone help me

2007-03-24 19:09:57 · 6 answers · asked by jennifer s 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-03-24 19:09:48 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Come on... answer this... no explanation necessary.

2007-03-24 19:08:53 · 13 answers · asked by Marc G 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I've been missing a girl for 11 months. I hadn't been bugging her since she didn't want to talk to me anymore. We said hi occasionally, I thought things would be cool between us. I tried to talk to her. I said Hey how are you? She said nothing. I tried to talk about how she was helping with something (she was inactive at the moment). Still nothing. I told her I know we haven't talked in the longest time (I liked her, then fell in love with her, but she never liked me back), but I only wanted us to be friends again. I couldn't bring myself to say I missed her because it seemed like she wasn't hearing me. She kept her back turned towards me, unlike when I saw her sneak so many glances at me this past year. She texted on her phone. She never even looked at me, never said a word. I wanted to say what I felt about her, but all my feelings about her besides "I love you" wouldn't come up. I wanted to say I love you. I just said "ok, I get the point, you don't have to say anything else.

2007-03-24 19:08:10 · 5 answers · asked by Icebox -0: Never Again 5 in Singles & Dating

We dated for about a year and a half and everything was perfect. we had a few arguments but nothing out the ordinary. Then my family started having issues when my grandfather died and I broke up with the intentions of getting back together until I re found myself again. We still saw each other and had dinner and movies, but without the title. Then I had to move and I went to san diego and while down there for about three weeks I realized that I couldnt and didnt want to spend another minute without him. when I told him he had found someone else. I told him that I loved him and wanted him. he confessed that he knew he should of waited. Well theyre still together and its been eight months. How do I get over someone that I have ever truly loved. Im not my normal self, my eating habits arent the same, and im always depressed. How can I be the old me and get him out of my head. everything reminds me of him. there isnt a day where he isnt in my head. please help I need some advice.

2007-03-24 19:08:02 · 8 answers · asked by surfingbeanpole 2 in Singles & Dating

iheres the deal i have this crusk on this guy and his girlfriend said i cant talk to him or she will kick my a** and his girlfriend is my bestfriends cuz so what do i do epl p.s. and me and him are friends to

2007-03-24 19:07:44 · 4 answers · asked by Nikki101 1 in Friends

so i dated this great guy for about 7 months and he broke things off because he said it felt like we were more "buddies" then bf/gf......this was ok with me, we decided to be "friends" (with benis)......so we have been hanging out alot more the normal here in the last 2 weeks, last week he told me he loved me.......not as a friend, we were both a little drunk so I played it off...but the other night the conversation came up again and he told me again......he knows I love him and I know he is not saying these things to get me in the sack because of our "arrangement".......not sure what to think or what to do!!!!! Help please!!

2007-03-24 19:07:43 · 2 answers · asked by foxyhdgrl 4 in Singles & Dating

I feel that me and my best friend are so close - we've been cool for 3 years and i feel like he trusts me ALOT. He's the "shy boy" type when it comes to girls but outgoing with friends. He doesn't like to gossip, talk bad about people and usually keeps his mouth shut. But with me, he'll tell me things that no one's even supposed to know - stuff about him and his guy friends and their little secrets. He'll only talk to me about his family (he doesn't talk much about them usually) and he posted this about me:

"this girl - i can talk to her about anything and EVERYTHING. She understands and gets me - we can talk on the phone for hours and it only seems like 5 minutes..."

It's a good thing, right? Seems like the guy gives me a high amount of respect and admiration, right?

2007-03-24 19:06:56 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have this friend who likes this girl. He asked her out but she rejected him so now he's really hurt. And lately she's been avoiding him, which is making him even more depressed. So obviously he still likes her. I don't know what kind of advice to give except for the typical "move on". Any tips?

2007-03-24 19:06:16 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My boyfreind and I have been together for eight months. Throughout our relationship we have discussed babies, parenting, etc. I have voiced my desire to become a mother on many occasions. You see, for the past two years, I have been yearning to start a family of my own. My heart aches when I see my freinds with their children. I became divorced shortly before my boyfriend and I got togther (from an abusive relationship) and although I wanted a baby, I subconsciencly knew I didn't want one with my ex-husband. My BF is the first man I've wanted to have a child / start a family with. Ok, so here is the problem. Yesterday he blurted out that he does not want children and does not want to get married. This is a desicion he'd made many years ago, he says. Events in his past can make me understand his opinion. I do love him greatly, but this hurt me deeply. I will not leave him because of this, but how can I cope or maybe make him somehow see things my way? I feel as if my dreams have died...

2007-03-24 19:05:46 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-03-24 19:05:35 · 6 answers · asked by stanncolt11 1 in Singles & Dating

You DO expect a guy to look, right? I mean, I can ALMOST get the argument of "just because I wear a low-cut top, doesn't mean you can stare," but when someone's strolling down the street in "Juicy" short-shorts, she's expecting a little second glancing (assuming she fills them out well). Be honest!

2007-03-24 19:05:15 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

All right, so we're going to move to a different class a few days later, but how do I tell the teacher I want to sit next to a girl? WE HAVE ASSIGNED SEATS EVERYTIME AND YOU CAN'T TALK OR MOVE ANYWHERE FURTHER THAN LIKE 5 METERS. Please tell me. I need a good reason.

2007-03-24 19:05:07 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

knowing that they are already attached, due to get married, a family man and so on.... Why??? and by doing so, you are hurting the innocent party.

2007-03-24 19:04:57 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

this guys likes me and he thicks i like him but i like his best friend...what should i do??? help!!!

2007-03-24 19:04:34 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

When one of my friends are picking on this guy in italian (which is the only calss that we have together) i always say things like "please stop that Becky" or "stop would ya Becky?" he always says thanx to me. but this is new because he has only started to do this since Wednesday (21/03/07)
how should i respond to this???

2007-03-24 19:03:53 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I was with her for a year and today she told me she couldnt be in my life anymore cuz it hurts to see me with someone else i just let her go. the truth is i still love her i want to be with her but she ended us cuz she thought it was for the best. what should i do?

2007-03-24 19:03:34 · 15 answers · asked by spayhappy 4 in Singles & Dating

i have a crush on a girl. She is an 4th yr student. Im an 3rd yr student. We were studying on a same school. Pls give me some simple tips!! thanks...

2007-03-24 19:03:19 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

The man I have been in love with for the last five years has recently told me he loves me like crazy and then the next week tells me he is marrying someone else. You see while we were in a relationship he got another woman pregnant. He says he needs to marry this woman because of this kid who is now almost 3. He says he needs to do what is right for his son. What do I do? Do I try and break up this marriage that is happening in two months or walk away from this mess? I feel at a loss. I told him he made his decision and chose her because he obviously doesn't love me. He says its not true but that he is stuck in this situation and has no other choice. I feel like I am losing my best friend. We have continued having a sexual relationship while he lives with his baby's mama. She knows that we have a relationship and thinks it is long over but it never stopped. We have this connection and it cannot be broken. I am devasted by this recent news. I want him to leave her and be with me.

2007-03-24 18:59:41 · 15 answers · asked by Alison S 1 in Singles & Dating

she hits you and she thinks it is fun and it is actually suposed to be a joke btu its not that funny only to her.

what do you do?

2007-03-24 18:59:08 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I dated this girl for 2months who claimed she cared about me. She told me that she was done with her ex whom she's dated for a year. While she and I dated, she kept telling me that her ex was begging to come back to her life.She must have resolved to seeing me exclusively if she is telling me this, I said to myself. Anyways, she recently told me that she had give her ex another chance to see if she could work things out. She also claimed that we had some diffferences that could conflict with our relationship. I asked myself why didn't she say this earlier? Why go back to ex after claiming closures? I really want to move on, but I must confess, I am hurt. Someone pleae take this pain away. What can I do now? I am placed in a situation in which I have to see this girl every day or at least once a week. Help!! Please help me

2007-03-24 18:58:34 · 8 answers · asked by Michael O 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Husband has wife grossly over withholding for taxes allowing him to under withhold and increase his take home pay. Can she charge him with theft? What are her recovery options, if any?

2007-03-24 18:58:03 · 4 answers · asked by Roger C 5 in Marriage & Divorce

my bf doesnt like do anything ever. not even hold my hand, and im annoyed, he's also outgoing around all of my friends . is he shy around me or does he just not like me

2007-03-24 18:57:08 · 5 answers · asked by Ali 2 in Singles & Dating

hosted by there employer. Spouses or S.O.'s are invited! The day of the event, your better -half tells you everyone from work has decided to leave their better- half home. Are you "OK" with that response, or, "I'm not hearing that"!!

2007-03-24 18:56:34 · 14 answers · asked by Kenner 3 in Marriage & Divorce

Both of us have been hurt by past relationships. I understand his resistance....but I am willing to risk, but he isn't? How can I prove to him that I am different than the other women out there?

2007-03-24 18:56:12 · 11 answers · asked by sugarsweetsweetiepie 2 in Marriage & Divorce

when you make out?

2007-03-24 18:56:07 · 5 answers · asked by breanna 2 in Singles & Dating

you but you still love him but he is a good provider what should you do

2007-03-24 18:55:27 · 13 answers · asked by jennifer s 1 in Marriage & Divorce