I was with her for a year and today she told me she couldnt be in my life anymore cuz it hurts to see me with someone else i just let her go. the truth is i still love her i want to be with her but she ended us cuz she thought it was for the best. what should i do?
2007-03-24 19:03:34 · 15 answers · asked by spayhappy 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Let her go.
2007-03-24 19:06:03 · answer #1 · answered by Emily 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
My best advice is to go back to her and beg her to part of your life again. Tell her that she's the main component and that there is no way you could ever not want her more than anything and anyone. Also, stay away from ex's. They're the reason behind some of the best kept relationships that went sour. They are the weapons of mass relationship destruction. Unless your ex is with somebody else, you will have to pick between these two.
As it seems, you've already chosen this sweetheart. Go back to her, and play Romeo. Make her feel she's the ONE! And forget about your ex. Secretly, you can chat over MSN, but make sure that if your logs come out in public, there's no trace of emotion coming from you or anything that spells more than neutrality or friendship at most!
Good luck bro, hope it works out!
2007-03-25 02:12:42 · answer #2 · answered by lycan_footballer 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well it sounds like you have a problem your heart says what are you doing an your mind said see ya when you where with someone else can't have your cake and eat it too if you really want to be with her and you are willing to make the trip last then all I can say to you is be strong walk up to her and ask her if she would wait till after school and walk with her home or what ever and tell her whats in your mind what you feel dont beg thats the worst thing you want to show her your honest about making a commitment about your love with her if she comes up with lam excuses why she thinks it wouldnt work turn the light off and be a man about it and tell her ok if this is really what you heart feels inside and you understand that you think that it looks better with someone else thats your on you if you feel that you where wrong you call me and we4 will talk and see i we can work things out just talk as you would talk to a friend but without the f this and b that but in the mean time im not going to let this hurt me I'm going out with friends......... girls are very funny and if you dis them or hurt them they find a way to hurt you back or if they get tired of you they just find another guy and go on with life......... peace
2007-03-25 02:21:39 · answer #3 · answered by Keith M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I believe you mean she ended the friendship you two had and that it hurts her too much to see you with a new gal only because you two did have a romantic relationship once, well if that is so then you need to respect her decision and let her go, but what is confusing to me is, you still love her?then why did you two brake up in the first place? it's very rare for two ex's to stay friends after a brakeup it does happend but very seldom.
2007-03-25 02:13:25 · answer #4 · answered by wildfl0wer66 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ummm, if she now wants to be back with you then and you "love" her then make it happen. But beware, she may have thought it for the best because she wanted some strange and now that he got what he wanted he probably dropped her like a bad habit. Give it maybe one more shot but if she pulls the stunt again, best not to waste your time.
2007-03-25 02:09:16 · answer #5 · answered by Tainted 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on for good already. All that stuff about "we won't date anymore, but we'll still stay friends" never works. Better to make a clean break and stop living in the past.
2007-03-25 02:06:49 · answer #6 · answered by Liz 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you are with someone else then you are not with her. Are you trying to just be a heart breaker? If so prepare to be alone-with no love to call your own. Not the old love nor the new one. Women catch on to those who play games- sooner or later.
2007-03-25 02:10:57 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you really like her, and want to be together, than sit down and talk, tell her how you reall feel, and if she doesn't feel the same way then let her go. There are many more fish in the sea!!!! Good luck!
2007-03-25 02:12:19 · answer #8 · answered by jamebot 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that sux i did the same thing... right now i'm still with the guy i left for and i love him he is amazing but i never stopped loving the other guy... i'm planning on not going back because we arnt the same people anymore... but its hard just who do you love more who will last? I love guy 1 more but I know guy 2 will last n always love me... you'll figure it out... i hope i can
2007-03-25 02:14:06 · answer #9 · answered by sailorloo 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Kick the jealous self centered wench to the curb. She doesn't have issue, she has a lifetime subscription.
2007-03-25 02:10:11 · answer #10 · answered by stlbibabe 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to her let her know how you feel, then decide together what is best for the both of u.
2007-03-25 02:08:22 · answer #11 · answered by krazyinchicago 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋