she hits you and she thinks it is fun and it is actually suposed to be a joke btu its not that funny only to her.
what do you do?
2007-03-24 18:59:08 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
you tell her. confront her. tell her that it's not funny and it actually hurts, and ask her how it would feel if you did the same thing to her?
2007-03-24 19:02:30 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let's get a few things straight in your mind here:
1. This person is not a friend. She is an abuser.
2. She is not only an abuser, she is a pathetic excuse for an abuser, as she cannot even be honest about her abusive tendencies, but has to hide behind ridiculous excuses such as "it's only a joke".
3. You deserve friends who act like friends, i.e. who do NOT abuse you.
Tell this ex-friend that she is just that - an ex-friend - and that thanks to her abusive nature, her presence in your life is no longer required. Then walk away and ignore her from then on.
2007-03-24 19:03:57 · answer #2 · answered by Liz 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is this Joey from FRIENDS and is the girl really tiny and cute. Just kidding Next time she does it slug her back. If she doesn't like it then tell her thats how u feel also.
2007-03-24 19:06:03 · answer #3 · answered by nik573 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When people REALLY are your friend they do not take pleasure in seeing you hurt. Unless you are laughing up a storm everytime she does it, she knows its not funny to you. This girl has issues, and you don't know where to draw the line. Please remember: Love is not pain. When people care for you they do not hurt you.
2007-03-24 19:07:08 · answer #4 · answered by tlbrown42000 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be as honest and clear as possible. Explain why you don't like it and ask them to stop. If they don't I would look for a new friend. You don't deserve that!
2007-03-24 23:05:58 · answer #5 · answered by Gia M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd tell her the truth. If she's truly your friend, she will apologize and leave you alone. If she doesn't stop, find a new friend. Good luck.
2007-03-24 19:03:08 · answer #6 · answered by MJ MCK 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I guess i would say stop and if she didn't maybe-- I might strike back. Maybe or give up the friendship.
2007-03-24 19:03:17 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just kindly tell her that it hurts when she it’s you and that it is not funny.
2007-03-24 19:05:09 · answer #8 · answered by wish 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell your friend that you're hurt, just be honest. that will be the key.
2007-03-24 19:01:57 · answer #9 · answered by <fish_me> 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her on her face...frankly but gently...if she is really ur friend she would understand...
2007-03-24 19:02:44 · answer #10 · answered by kariz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋