I dated this girl for 2months who claimed she cared about me. She told me that she was done with her ex whom she's dated for a year. While she and I dated, she kept telling me that her ex was begging to come back to her life.She must have resolved to seeing me exclusively if she is telling me this, I said to myself. Anyways, she recently told me that she had give her ex another chance to see if she could work things out. She also claimed that we had some diffferences that could conflict with our relationship. I asked myself why didn't she say this earlier? Why go back to ex after claiming closures? I really want to move on, but I must confess, I am hurt. Someone pleae take this pain away. What can I do now? I am placed in a situation in which I have to see this girl every day or at least once a week. Help!! Please help me
2007-03-24 18:58:34 · 8 answers · asked by Michael O 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Sounds like she used you to make her ex jealous & get him back, it worked so bye bye to you. I say pretend she doesn't exist, & learn to hate her. She was letting you know he was begging so you wouldn't be surprised when she went back to him.
2007-03-24 19:26:39 · answer #1 · answered by love_um_or_leave_um 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So she picked the other guy over you? well if she was really a big *** to you here get ur guards up chances r she will think the grass is greener on the other side and try to get back with you again. if u have to see her a lot after she picked the other guy just act casual liek u dont even care. if u get all upset and crying she iwll get the satisfaction of knowing that you aalll wanted her and she was able to break ur heart. good luck
2007-03-24 19:06:48 · answer #2 · answered by lady26 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Michael, this girl was confused or something. It must be a complicated situation. I am sorry that you are hurting. Breaking up can hurt very much. Hang in there and keep doing things to make your life better every day. Praying can help too if you believe in it.
2007-03-24 19:03:35 · answer #3 · answered by Mom 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If this girl truely hurt you then you should tell her and not take this laying down. If any girl could do that to you then she isnt worth being hurt over. and if you have to see her alot then try to put on a brave face, if that doesnt work then just try to be nice dont turn sour and be rude to her then your as bad as she is but say hi you dont have to talk to her or be close to her all the time just see her, and it's okay to be hurt but you will get over it in time. You will meet another girl that'll like you for you dont worry.
2007-03-24 19:06:50 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can relate to your feelings. You must have someone or something in which you can focus your attention to, make you yourself busy as much as possible. Making yourself idle would only make you remember her. Focus yourself on something else, something that would make you grow and achieve, an objective that would bring you to greater heights and prove something for yourself and maybe for your community as well. You will never regret this but in time when you're done, you have already regreted the times that you spent with her. And there are lots of better women to come to you, and when it does, you will think of regretting if ever you stayed with her.
2007-03-24 19:43:12 · answer #5 · answered by magaling_daw 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i am sorry to hear that, but to be honest with u, what happened between u and her is called a relationship on the rebound... she just used u to compensate the hurt she was feeling thinking that it was the better way, jumping to a new relationship after the break up... and now, she realized that her past still weighs more than what u have, she dumped u like a hot potato... it is not worth it my friend,.. try to move on... god bless u....
2007-03-24 19:21:25 · answer #6 · answered by kish-kish 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh im sorry to hear that!! i know it must hurt, i can't say i know this from experince, i don't know why she had to play with your emotions like that, that was cruel, you have to move on. let other girls have a chance with you. you seem very sweet. there are other girls out there that deserves you, not her!! once you move on, she may change her mind and want you back, but be strong! like i said give other girls a chance to get with you, you'll find that right person.
2007-03-24 19:06:35 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Relationships are no exact science! I'm 41 and I still get hurt again and again. Just follow your intuition and try to read between the lines. I wish you strength.
2007-03-24 19:13:50 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋