I've been missing a girl for 11 months. I hadn't been bugging her since she didn't want to talk to me anymore. We said hi occasionally, I thought things would be cool between us. I tried to talk to her. I said Hey how are you? She said nothing. I tried to talk about how she was helping with something (she was inactive at the moment). Still nothing. I told her I know we haven't talked in the longest time (I liked her, then fell in love with her, but she never liked me back), but I only wanted us to be friends again. I couldn't bring myself to say I missed her because it seemed like she wasn't hearing me. She kept her back turned towards me, unlike when I saw her sneak so many glances at me this past year. She texted on her phone. She never even looked at me, never said a word. I wanted to say what I felt about her, but all my feelings about her besides "I love you" wouldn't come up. I wanted to say I love you. I just said "ok, I get the point, you don't have to say anything else.
2007-03-24 19:43:43 · 8 answers · asked by Icebox -0: Never Again 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I guess I'll just see you around." She talked to everyone in the hall but me. I left her. I'm wondering what should I do for her birthday next week? I'm going to ask her friends what kind of gifts she likes. I think I probably should just tell her happy birthday to show that I remember. Maybe I shouldn't even say that. After that, I'm forgetting all about her because ain't nothin ever gon change.
2007-03-24 19:43:57 · update #1
I'll ask this in the form of a poll. Should I-
#1-Buy her a birthday gift and hand it to her
#2-Just say happy birthday to her (she's turning 17 and I'm 17)
#3-Completely ignore her
2007-03-24 19:44:22 · update #2
EXTRA NOTE NOT REQUIRED FOR ANSWERING QUESTION: I've been hurt before by crushes every single time, but this is the first time I've fallen in love. I learned something though; just because a girl seems like she has everything I've been looking for, doesn't mean she's the girl for me. She could change up anytime. I'm never leaving myself open for getting hurt by falling in love again, because I'm not giving her my heart until she earns it. This is the first time I've fallen in love but it's the last straw, the last time I try to be someone for somebody. Like my name says from this song, I got this Icebox where my heart used to be.
2007-03-24 19:45:47 · update #3
EXTRA NOTE/DETAIL NOT REQUIRED FOR ANSWERING QUESTION: When I liked her, she said she had liked me first. Then I asked her how she liked me the next day and she said she didn't know. It wasn't until a month later she said she didn't like me, but I really liked her. The girl I fell in love with was a really shy, sweet, funny, beautiful girl. At least, I always felt she was beautiful even though everyone around me said she's just alright and she's no one special. I have this false, ridiculous small ray of hope that maybe one day she'll talk to me but I just don't want to try anymore.
2007-03-24 19:46:26 · update #4
I guess I tried to be the man of her dreams by asking her why she didn't like me and what I needed to change, but she would never tell me.
2007-03-24 20:01:07 · update #5
completely ignore her. im going to do the same for my exs birthday which is nothing. when its over its over. she doesnt want to even speak to you. my ex doesnt want to speak to me. even though he was the one who did me wrong. strange huh? well let it go , i know its hard and im going thru it also but maybe me telling you this will help me. dont ever kiss anyones you know what to be their friend. i have a ice box also. ill never let anyone get close to me again. it really hurts when someone drags you thru the mud like that. next time when you do meet someone just be friends first and get to know them. thats what im going to do. life is to short to be begging people to act right. get it?
2007-03-24 19:49:33 · answer #1 · answered by eaglestraces123 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Buddy..I'm not going to read this book you typed but I'm gonna go with my gut instinct on this..
I want to say your'e a youngster. Friend, you have the rest of your life to live, and you need to start living it. Stop worrying about the girl who done you wrong, and wonder about the girl whose going to love you all your life..
Alot of people get life twisted man! They don't understand that generally the first choice is not usually the right choice. Also, they go in looking for the girl of thier dreams. Wrong concept..Examine yourself. Why not be the man of her (hypethetically speaking) dreams. Obviously your'e not half the man you thought you were anyway. So, make some adjustments on your end. Get yourself together.
I'm never falling in love again..Who are you fooling, besides yourself? Get yourself together, man!
2007-03-25 02:58:14 · answer #2 · answered by stlouis4urunowut 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like your being too pushy. Just let her come to you if she wants and don't even count on that. Find someone else. There are better women out there that will appreciate your love and kindness. I think that you should tell her happy birthday to know that you remembered and to be nice but don't go any further than that. Watch out because she might try to use your kindness.
2007-03-25 02:52:44 · answer #3 · answered by Ellen 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sweetie, im sorry, i know you like her and maybe she led you on at one time. but since then she has told you she doesnt want to talk to you. "Hi" in the hall means that you are not enemies not that she secretly loves you.
SAVE YOUR MONEY for something you want or want to buy for someone who will appreciate it. thats what her friends should tell you, at least i hope they will be honest with you... good luck! next year you wont even remember her!
2007-03-25 03:39:06 · answer #4 · answered by sunshine 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
buy her something to show that u still have feelings for her.... when it's her birthday, give her a surprise thing that will show how u feel abt her like a kiss or something that shows u love her by giving her ur heart.... if she doesn't feel the same way, move on...
2007-03-25 02:50:48 · answer #5 · answered by RaghdaSweet 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
damn dude.. shes shadyyyy.... but yeah.. i think u should jus greet her wit a happy bday.. atleast be nice yanno.. but dont give her a gift she dont deserve nothin... n forget her.. u can proly do better
2007-03-25 02:50:54 · answer #6 · answered by MiK3 =D 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would judt forget about her if i were you your 17 many many more beautiful girls out there
2007-03-25 02:50:20 · answer #7 · answered by ♥ Mae ♥ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't!!!
2007-03-25 02:46:24 · answer #8 · answered by h-sum 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋