I have been sleeping with her fiance for the last 6 weeks. I am 18 and my sister is 30 and her fiance is 33, we have never really gotten along so I don't feel too guilty about betraying my ***** sister but although he says that we can keep doing this forever if we want to, and I want to - but what if we're found out?
2007-03-24 19:37:37 · 12 answers · asked by Paige 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
You are 18, so you get no slack for your age. Stop sleeping with this guy. Tell your parents and your sister about the affair. Yes, that will be bad, and may destroy your family. But, you can't let your sister marry a guy so low that he'd sleep with her sister. I don't care how bitchy she is. Nobody deserves that. If you have a shred of feeling for your sister, your parents, or any poor kids brought into this relationship, you will speak up. Just human decency should be enough, if you have no feelings for your family.
2007-03-24 20:30:09 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not the question of "if"... it's "when". All I can say is... when you screw up (no pun intended), you have to face the consequences sooner or later. That is sad that you would do that. You can't hide it forever. You should either come clean and tell her (both of you) ... or just move away and let them get married and never see her fiance or husband (after they get married??). However, they are always two sides to every coin - If he'll do it with you - he's being unfaithful to your sister. He obviously doesn't love her or he is using you. Either way, he's no good for you or your sister.
2007-03-29 01:19:53 · answer #2 · answered by DotRMe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all I like to go back in and read people other questions before I jump into an answer I might offend someone with.. My first question is.. Does YOUR Fiance know you are screwing around on him.. And does he know that if you were to get pregnant right now it could possibly not be his? What you are doing is ruining not one but 3 lifes, if you care about your sister at all just a little bit you will call of the screwing around, if you care about your man the same, and if you care about yourself you would not be doing this.. You are treating yourself like poop, disrespecting yourself and the others around you.. SO for me I would think you need to sit everyone down and tell them the lies you are living.. and I would do if before she got married so it is not something that comes up in the future.. As far as your man you need to come clean with him to, he dont need to be drug down the road you are heading...
2007-03-25 03:23:57 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First off, no matter if it's your sister your next door neighbor or whatever...what your doing is wrong. You should have more respect for yourself. What if you get pregnant by him? Then your sisters kids and your kids will be cousins and brothers and or sisters. You have to think of the consequences. Think. Also, if he's having sex with you on the side think of who else he could be sleeping with. You're just asking for trouble. He doesn't love or respect you or your sister. If he did, he wouldn't want to screw the both of you.
2007-03-25 02:52:34 · answer #4 · answered by amanduh20_03 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sisters, even ***** sisters you keep forever. loser fiances and loser husband come and go.
if this man cheat with you, he will cheat with others and betray both of you. then what choo got? nada.
tell your sis, Hey, this guy is not right for you. she'll be mad, but in the end, you'll still have your sis.
keep it up and you're gonna lose both. I guess you gotta decide what choo really want.
you can find sex with almost anybody, but sisters are harder to get.
peace out girl
2007-03-25 02:49:47 · answer #5 · answered by frankiechocolate 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call Jerry Springer
2007-03-25 02:41:43 · answer #6 · answered by dawggonerite 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why don't you just join the party and you can have 3somes..
I don't know about your sister, I'll have to take your word for her.
I do know that you and her fiance are two rotten peas in a pod.
2007-03-25 02:46:34 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
So what if your found out?! You and he don't care anyway....or do you? Is that the peeking out of a guilty conscious? That may be a healthy dose of reality.
2007-03-25 03:05:22 · answer #8 · answered by Poppet 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The problem here is, you are too young and an older man is taking advantage of you. There is no future for you. You are doomed!
2007-03-25 02:42:51 · answer #9 · answered by mari 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you're as young as i am...go get other guys you're age...as for you're sister, give her a life...stop now and just forget everything...before the situation gets even worst
2007-03-25 02:44:41 · answer #10 · answered by Antigone 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋