My boyfriend doesn't want it. He has 4 kids, 1 with me already and I have 2 kids. I felt the baby move and really want the baby because I love him, but this baby will be 8 months younger than the one he just had. please help!!!!
2007-03-24 19:39:14 · 22 answers · asked by Candace D 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Month One
Mommy
I am only 1 inches long
but I have all my organs.
I love the sound of your voice.
Every time I hear it
I wave my arms and legs.
The sound of your heart beat
is my favorite lullaby.
Month Two
Mommy
today I learned how to suck my thumb.
If you could see me
you could definitely tell that I am a baby.
I'm not big enough to survive outside my home though.
It is so nice and warm in here.
Month Three
You know what Mommy
I'm a boy!!
I hope that makes you happy.
I always want you to be happy.
I don't like it when you cry.
You sound so sad.
It makes me sad too
and I cry with you even though
you can't hear me.
Month Four
Mommy
my hair is starting to grow.
It is very short and fine
but I will have a lot of it.
I spend a lot of my time exercising.
I can turn my head and curl my fingers and toes
and stretch my arms and legs.
I am becoming quite good at it too.
Month Five
You went to the doctor today.
Mommy, he lied to you.
He said that I'm not a baby.
I am a baby Mommy, your baby.
I think and feel.
Mommy, what's abortion?
Month Six
I can hear that doctor again.
I don't like him.
He seems cold and heartless.
Something is intruding my home.
The doctor called it a needle.
Mommy what is it? It burns!
Please make him stop!
I can't get away from it!
Mommy! HELP me!
Month Seven
Mommy
I am okay.
I am in Jesus's arms.
He is holding me.
He told me about abortion.
Why didn't you want me Mommy?
Every Abortion Is Just . . .
One more heart that was stopped.
Two more eyes that will never see.
Two more hands that will never touch.
Two more legs that will never run.
One more mouth that will never speak
2007-03-24 21:37:16 · answer #1 · answered by Mom to Isobelle 2, & Gavyn 8mths 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You can't decide through someone's advice. But you can enlighten yourself with it.
If you're religious at all, the bible says that a baby in your womb is merely a parasite to you until it is capable to live outside your womb. So it is not a smite against the Man or anything if you decide to get rid of it.
There are also laws, i don't think you can abort the baby after a certain amount of months.
You also have to put in mind that if you do get rid of it, you end something that could have been.
I'd lean more towards adoption if you do not want the baby or if you cannot afford it.
2007-03-25 02:49:43 · answer #2 · answered by Lucio M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Please keep the kid. PLEASE. Abortion sucks, man. It's murdering someone who never got a chance. It's taking all of the options away. It's not right. And I'm democrat! So don't go thinking I'm all Jesus-Jr. and whatever. Plus, you said you want to keep the kid. This baby is a PART of you! Doesn't it matter just a little that something depends on you? If things don't work out and your boyfriend doesn't want another baby, at least find it a nice home.
best wishes.
2007-03-25 02:50:22 · answer #3 · answered by blueJay 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you want the baby you should keep it. It shouldn't matter if he has other kids. You have to do what's right for you and what you want. Your baby is a human being. It's wrong to get rid of it because of a guy, especially since you love the baby.
2007-03-25 02:44:59 · answer #4 · answered by amanduh20_03 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Can you afford it? I don't think it's a matter of love if when your baby is crying for food and you have nothing to feed him or her. This is a very tough question to answer but to give you the truth: no. You're not married, you have two kids already, and by the sound of it, he has enough kids to pay for already. Unless you have a lot of time, effort, and much love in you, then I would not reccomend keeping this baby.
2007-03-25 02:43:39 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
if you were the baby, what would you want?
God ,not your bf gave you a gift. there will be lots of heartaches till that kid grows up, but so much more love and memories to off set the bad.
kids will change your life for the better. but you gotta think of the kid more than just your fun.
lose the b.f. a girl as good looking as you can find another,
keep the baby and thank Jesus for his wonderful gift.
congratulations mom.
2007-03-25 02:45:43 · answer #6 · answered by frankiechocolate 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
to be perfectly honest, once you've had two...finance is really no longer an issue. wow that is a lot of kids though. and if you felt the baby move..it's too late for an abortion anyway. you may want to consider adoption. sometimes with the right agency and if the two of you are healthy a couple will pay for expenses during your pregnancy. two birds with one stone.
2007-03-25 02:52:05 · answer #7 · answered by Bella 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have children already and you're asking a question like this?
GROW UP! And what do you mean "8 months younger than the one he just had"? Did he have a child with another woman than with you?
This guy has a serious problem keeping it 'zipped up' and so do you as far as it sounds.
EVERY child is a gift that is on loan to us from Jehovah God Himself so YES!!!...keep the child and give it as good a life as you can...it DESERVES it and has a God given RIGHT to it.
2007-03-25 03:06:04 · answer #8 · answered by krazykritik 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That really shouldn't be an issue. You should at least have the baby, if you don't want it, you should put it up for adoption. There are a lot of couples who can't have children that would love your baby as their own.
2007-03-25 02:43:54 · answer #9 · answered by darkpoet3000 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, if you can feel it moving, then it's too late for an abortion. It sounds like you already have a bunch of kids, so it's up to you. Can you really afford another kid?
2007-03-25 02:43:13 · answer #10 · answered by Moral Orel 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋