She picks a fight with me over some of the most smallest things and then begs me to slap her, or punch her..
She is really a sweet girl and I love her but I'm afraid of what this can lead to.
I never could figure out why some women do this and I've heard this from other guys too...
2007-03-24 20:40:45 · 9 answers · asked by VINCENT 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Don't ever think about hitting her. Get out of this relationship now.
She probably has a bad home life. Run away. Seriously, this is not healthy.
2007-03-24 20:44:12 · answer #1 · answered by tigerdave2 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Dude it sounds like she is psycho.
No really dont think that. It really sounds like she was abused in her childhood. Like from a male in her family or from an ex that she used to be with. So she automatically thinks that if you raise your voice, say something rude, smartellic, etc.......then she automatically thinks that she would get the same reaction from her past people, family, friends or just mainly males that hit her or slapped her.
You might want to ask her why she wants you to hit or slap her. Ask her if she has been abused in any way in her past. If she also picks the smallest fights, that leads to drama. & drama you do NOT want in a relationship no matter what. It just leads downhill. Plus if she is wanting you to hit her or slap her, picks the smallest fights and all then that should raise more than a few red flags for you. IF you THINK it can lead to something bad, just let her know that yall should be friends till she changes her attitude towards you or opens up to you about her past.
2007-03-25 03:52:56 · answer #2 · answered by fryeindustries2002 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its some deeper issues behind this. As abnormal as it may seem, alot of people try to equate pain with love.
If you really love her, try to find a way to help her deal with the issue(s) at hand. I would recommend counseling or some type of support group that emphasizes on abuse. If she isn't willing to do that, you may want to decide whats in your best interest.
2007-03-25 03:48:37 · answer #3 · answered by Willy Wonka 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had a girl who told me that she could not get used to me not hitting her like other men had done to her. I dumped her and ran and never looked back, man.
2007-03-25 03:44:45 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
She may have been abused when she was a child or her parents could have been in many many arguments in front of her......
I suggest to see a councellor...not that she is wierd or anything....but to help her....
Talk to her and ask her about why she likes this and its making you feel uncomfortable.....
2007-03-25 03:45:48 · answer #5 · answered by chaminda l 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Begs you to slap her? crazy woman. just say no. its as simple as that. never hit a girl!!!!!
2007-03-25 03:45:13 · answer #6 · answered by fayS 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
hey man she wants a beating and then some good hard sex,some are like that,you either go with it or you don't.
2007-03-25 04:02:44 · answer #7 · answered by TOM 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
that's strange.
maybe she loves you too much that anything wouldn't hurt her and want to get close to you...she try to get ur attention only on her...she's playfull.
2007-03-25 03:53:25 · answer #8 · answered by ceec 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
iT MEANS SHE THINKS YOU'RE A WUSS AND SHE CAN KICK UR AZZ
2007-03-25 03:50:03 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋