Short version of story: I liked a girl, she lead me on then said she didn't like me. We talked only for four months. After the fourth month I told a friend about how she told me about her falling in love with someone else and not me. She found out and never talked to me again. 11 months later, I've missed her and it seemed like she missed me too because she was always looking at me and sometimes she would say hi back to me. I thought maybe she'll talk to me since that was so long ago and we can be friends again. So I went to talk to her but she completely ignored me and I left her. Two days later (today) I looked at her page where she had changed her headline to simply "wondering why..." I think it may not be anything to do with me and it's not such a big deal or it could be about something else. If it has to do with me it's probably about why did I even try to talk to her. I don't know, what could it mean if it does have to do with me?
2007-03-24 20:42:25 · 4 answers · asked by Icebox -0: Never Again 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
How old are you guys? Chances are it has nothing to do with you. It might have nothing to do with guys. Just because someone says hi back to you doesn't mean she misses you. She might just want to be curteous. I dont know how old you are, but if you haven't kissed this girl or slept with her and four months passed, you're probably just a friend. You might think it's more, but sorry to break it to you.
It might seem difficult, but you should talk to other girls. Let her see you talking to other girls. If she missed you she will tell you when she sees that someone else has your attention. If she doesn't do anything, at least you'll be moving on. Either way, focus on you and not her. Talk to other girls and stop worrying about what she's thinking.
2007-03-24 20:55:28 · answer #1 · answered by mmatthews000 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That sort of relates to my own current situation, although I'm from the girl's point of view and before the "eleven months later" stage.
Personally, I think you're right.
She could still have some leftover feelings [from the first time ... if she wasn't lying about falling in love with someone else], and seeing you not only reminds her of them, but replenishes them.
It could be a good thing.
You mentioned a headline--you mean MySpace?
If so, check her Status.
Sucks that they don't have the option of "Crushing."
2007-03-24 21:00:49 · answer #2 · answered by Alex 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her how you feel and brace yourself for rejection. IF you don't want to play games. Tell her hey I have a lot of feelings for you and I need to know how you feel so if it's not mutual I can move on. Then move on or wait.
2007-03-24 20:50:14 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i don't really think that has to do with you. don't worry about that. you need to find away to tell her you have liked her since the beginning, tell her friends to tell her, a note, something...good luck..
2007-03-24 21:03:54 · answer #4 · answered by owwwlalaaaaaaaa 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋