im married for 6yrs still im so much inlove w/ my husband.im very lucky for having him,we have3kids.before im not that overweight but as the days goes by and giving birth,i gained 15lbs.no matter how i want to lose weight and look okay,i cant.my husband is so handsome.im beginning to think that he'll left me coz im ugly and fat.i love him very much, i dont know what will i do if ever he'll left me..
2007-03-24 20:28:53 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
i forgot to mention hes working in uae.everytime im looking to his picture i felt strange and afraid..he forgot my birthday.
2007-03-24 22:06:26 · update #1
You are not viewing the whole package, girlfriend.
You are not what you have ontop of you. You are what is INSIDE yourself...and if he's been with you for six years, he sees the inside, and not so much of the outside.
With 3 kids...this man LOVES you. He's not leaving you or wandering...if he was, he'd have done that a long time ago.
Big important note, however...don't forget that the moment you begin worrying about your appearance, and talking about it is when he will take notice. Things he never noticed before, mentioned by you will now be noticed.
So, don't make a big deal about it. Instead, cut out dinner, cut meals down to half size and begin walking around more. 15 lbs isn't anything. That's a 2 week diet.
Honey, if after 6 years I could say I only gained 15 lbs, I'd be the happiest woman on earth. Lol...I've put that on PER CHEEK and my man still loves me.
It doesn't matter how beautiful the present is wrapped, when it comes time to open the gift. What matters most is what's inside. Nobody gives a darn abot the wrapping paper...it's just a wrapper.
Got the analogy? You deserve this man and you are fine. :)
Good luck!
2007-03-24 20:39:02 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know exactly how u feel . I have been trying 2 lose weight for such a long time , i also have 3 kids and find it really hard 2 find time 2 get on the treadmill for 30 min . But thank god i have a little confidence about my self that keeps me going when i do feel down i just do my self up some make up some sexy clothes and a great song u can dance 2 helps a lot .
2007-03-24 20:50:32 · answer #2 · answered by eyatnesrine 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
first of all stop putting yourself down,he married you.Beauty comes from within.try to lose some weight there many healthy diets out there that can help you.Get yourself a new hairdo and start to feel good about yourself. There are many things you can do to make yourself attractive to your husband. Put a smile on your face and thank god you still have your husband and your children. Work on you and i am sure you can be as beautiful as the next lady.Good luck to you.
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2007-03-30 03:25:51 · answer #4 · answered by jessehowell2002 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
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2016-10-01 11:07:17 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why you have low selfsteem ? that is not good , there is no ugly and beautiful when it turns to love. Yeah it's realy hard to understand and pass your time while ur love one is away by years .Be strong and pray for both of you u are lucky to have a husband but remind him that it's ur birthday thats all!
Don't talk to much for sure he will be nervous.
Just always thinks that you have 3 beautiful kids. Don't drag yourslef into pain and it will not happen , God is watching.
I will pray for you..
2007-03-30 03:54:03 · answer #6 · answered by amwid-u:) 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry yourself so much. If you love him and he love's you what is the problem. Look how many skinny people have problem's in their relationship's. But if you want to feel better about yourself for yourself then get out there and exercise with your kid's. They can be your best fitness machine's. 6 year's is a long time you have to have something going on there girlfriend.
2007-04-01 08:26:01 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's great that you think so highly of your husband, but you don't need to put yourself down in that process!!! I don't know who you are or what you're like, but if your husband stuck it through with you for 6 years and had three kids with you and was there even when you were all cranky and moody from being pregnant with those kids...you don't need to worry about losing him! And he obviously sees alot more in you that you don't see. And if it really matters that much to you about an extra fifteen pounds....you have the information so...time to take action!
2007-03-24 20:40:39 · answer #8 · answered by blueJay 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You can't expect him to want to be with you if you don't want to be with your self. I'm speaking from experience I'm over weight if you can't loose it at least keep it looking nice and attractive for him. Don't be afraid to talk to him about this and ask him what would turn him on. Make him wanna stay home if you look frumpy and have that attitude your sure to run him away I promise you that much so talk to him and see if you can rectify the situation to make you both feel better.
2007-04-01 17:41:37 · answer #9 · answered by mz.Tori 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I understand you. My husband is so sexy and I am overweight also. He could have anyone he wants but he stays with me. I love him more than I ever thought was possible. We have been married for almost 3 years and I don't know what I would ever do without him. Good luck to you. I think that if they love you they will love you no matter what weight you are.
2007-03-24 20:38:44 · answer #10 · answered by sexyladyinak 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋