Family & Relationships - 24 March 2007

Who can honestly say they have never cheated on their boy/girl friend . But a serious one. not a 3 month relationship. And if ur guilty explain how and why. everyone cheats right?

2007-03-24 21:59:06 · 5 answers · asked by Abraham 1 in Singles & Dating

me and this girl sarah has been best friends since we both whent to the same primary school.in primary school she was always mean to me and bullyed me and i have forgiven her cause we was still very young.well we both whent to diffrent secondary school and she moved to another house,and i still whent to visit her and we was still best friends.well she carryed on been bossy to me and not very nice.well i just took it and well at hers 16th birthday she inived me over to her house to sleep over and she had over friends over from her school.well she let one of her m8s bully me and wasnt that nice to me.i didnt talk to her for 1 year and recently she phoned me saying she has changed.
im not sure if to give her another chance.

2007-03-24 21:58:52 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I dont hate black women-not at all. But i just dont find them sexually attractive. I have gotten alot of hate over yahoo answers from saying this. In questions regarding would you date people of other races and such. I am being honest-now why does that make me a racist?
Am i suppose to force myself to be sexually attracted to black women-even though i am not?

2007-03-24 21:58:00 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

6 years i love him..i know all about him..his mother and my mother are friends..my mother is his teacher before..i never talk to him..he and i always went to the same tuition class..

2007-03-24 21:57:52 · 11 answers · asked by amalina 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-24 21:54:48 · 6 answers · asked by girlani 1 in Friends

2007-03-24 21:54:35 · 6 answers · asked by u'r friend 2 in Singles & Dating

My husband has diabetes and doesnt seem to take it seriously he basically takes his insulin only when he decides to not when hes suppose to and tonight hes been having to pee like every 10 min and so i was worried and asked him if he was ok and he got mad and told me that my worrying is starting to sound like nagging, what can i do to make me feel better and not sound like a nag?

2007-03-24 21:54:13 · 10 answers · asked by renee_0102 1 in Marriage & Divorce

i am meeting a girl but she thinks i am meeting and texting some other girl but im not so what do i do to make her believe that im not i am just meeting the girl from the start

2007-03-24 21:53:49 · 10 answers · asked by stefan_mufc_1991 1 in Singles & Dating

I keep reading on there that 18 is the age when you reach your peak. I don't think so. At 18 sex was a real quicke. Now I last as long as I want. I pretty much have mastered the rhythm enough to make sure my woman gets hers plenty of times before I get mine.

So why is it again that a dude peaks at 18?

2007-03-24 21:51:42 · 16 answers · asked by Joe B 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I sometimes ask myself, "What are friends? Why do they exist? Why do you need friends?", but never truly reach a conclusion. Today, for example, my friend, S.N., asked me out to watch a movie with her and another friend. I wanted to go, of course, to watch the movie, but I have some family issues that prevent me from going. I knew my family wouldn't let me go, and asking them will only adulterate our relationship. I didn't want to explicitly reject S.N.'s query, so instead I uttered, "Umm, I don't know...I don't think I can go..." Her tone suddenly changed after my indecisive answer, and she professed, with a critical attitude, that I don't care about her, etc, etc. I do like her, of course as a friend, but sometimes I just feel that friends are obstructive, or antagonistic to one's life; after all, everybody is self-centered, in a way. But without friends, one will feel lonely, and, as a matter of fact, that person will be teased and abused. I know friends are significant, but what role do they play in our lives? Do we have to say "yes" to whatever your friend asks you to do? I don't know, but sometimes, I feel like friends use me for nothing.

2007-03-24 21:50:59 · 9 answers · asked by Aiuta 1 in Friends

My husband and I have been married for one year and we have three young children. I am 20 and he is 29 he is a soldier in the United States Army and works alot I stay at home with the kids. I want to do something that I can do every day special for him..... any ideas

2007-03-24 21:50:13 · 8 answers · asked by erica p 1 in Marriage & Divorce

So a friend of mine likes me--alot. She's not bad looking and is a great person, but I just never felt attracted to her. She seems to REALLY like me. Should I date her, because that is what she would want(even if I wasn't drawn to her) or should I just leave things as is and remain friends?

2007-03-24 21:45:11 · 11 answers · asked by TheSilverBeetles 4 in Singles & Dating

Well, I've got a gift for you.
You should can that deadbeat pansy excuse-for-a-boy that doesn't please you and try ridin' it with a real man like me.

2007-03-24 21:45:03 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

ok there was this guy who was 220 pounds overweight 5'7, i kept on hearing th5ings like dont worry there is someone for everyone and just be urself and stay clean and respectfull girls arent that shallow as guys are ummmm ok ladies who are u kidding this guy needs to loose some weight to pick up girls the beter u are in shape the more woman ull end up with i can be a nice guy and be 220 pounds 5'7 at that shape i wont be very picky about my woman ill be in desprate mode,because there are guys out there who are a lean 5'7 150 pounds so what i am trying to say ladies stop giving bad awnsers on personality and tell these people to loose some pounds please do u agree with what i said why or why not

2007-03-24 21:42:37 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i've made the mistake of letting my ex (long distance, met in college) back into my life. things were good for a while, then the same crap is back again. he expects me to make all the effort to see him yet he doesn't feel like he should because of his "unemployment" situation. he says he's broke and focused on his job search, yet he goes to the casino and golfing with his buddies. i'm fed up with him. i feel sorry for him so i feel like i can't cut him off completely, yet i'm sick of being stepped all over. what should i do?

2007-03-24 21:40:39 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

and when I walk in, he glances over to his coworker and then he smiles to himself.

What the hell does that mean? His behavior is very confusing to me.

2007-03-24 21:40:27 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

ok i think its stupid and i always fight with my dad cuz of this.... all of my friends have cell phones as u know. Actually everyone at my age have cell phones and maybe younger than me has cellphones too... but the problem is that my dad dont get this point... and i always argue with him about it... well my dad doesnt really care about money... but he just dont want to get me cell phone and its really botherin me cuz all of my friends and people around me has cell phone exccept me!!... so here is my question how can i convince my dad to get me cellphone??and how should i start conversation with him about this problem?? thanx soo much for helping..

2007-03-24 21:40:23 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

does any body out there can help me find this person that i really care about.

2007-03-24 21:40:18 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I am 20 and have been with the same guy, Z, for 5 years now off and on. We have gone through a lot, and during times of not speaking, I have met guys, and talked to them, b/c I wasn't receiving any attention from Z, but I never did anything with them. Z always found out I was talking to them, and every time he accused me of cheating. I did these things when I was younger and not very mature, but I have learned from my mistakes and I have changed my attitude and my actions so I can be a better g/f. But now, Z says he doesn't want to be with me, even though we are still intimate, he says he loves me, and we we are secluded to each other. He says its b/c he doesn't think I have changed, he thinks that I am the same person, and that I am gonna hurt him again. I can understand that b/c of our past, but I am getting hurt b/c he won't let me show him that I have changed for him. I don't know if I should stay and keep trying, or if it would be better for me to leave, before my heart breaks.

2007-03-24 21:40:09 · 5 answers · asked by Francesca O 1 in Singles & Dating

A Girl said this beautiful line to a mild natured Boy . . .

2007-03-24 21:39:07 · 8 answers · asked by Shree 1 in Singles & Dating

I never got an Action Man from Santa, again this year, for the fortieth year in a row, do you think I have grounds for divorcing my parents for not being very nice.

I'm 49years old, this grudge has been around along time, since 1966 in fact.

2007-03-24 21:39:06 · 11 answers · asked by stephen g 3 in Marriage & Divorce

Okay. Heres the deal. My boyfriend and I have sex. He LOVES having sex and will take it anytime. I, have yet to find the joy of sex. Why does everyone say its so great? How can I make it so great I that I am the initiator?

It doesnt hurt, it isnt 'boring' or anything, its just...eh. I could take it or leave it.

We are both in good shape, he is definately hung, and its not like I cant relax or anything, I even orgasm 90% of the time. But still, its like...all that work....for an orgasm? I'd really rather go do something else...like get a massage. Now THAT feels great. Actually, that is how he gets me on the bed with no clothes on....tricky tricky!!

Anyway, Id just like to know why YOU Love sex so much, and maybe some tips on how I can make it great for me too.
Do you think I just have a low sex drive? How can I increase it? I Do love him a lot, I love spending time with him and being sweet on him. THat is why we continue to have sex. I just dont NEED it, ya know?

2007-03-24 21:38:12 · 10 answers · asked by makeawish 1 in Singles & Dating

i had loved a person & we have physical relation & when my parents came to know they became violent & then mme & my parents went to meet him & to discuss the solution on 7th jan & there he said he will accept me in the futur after 3yrs.
He also said that he will call me on mid of march but he has not contacted me yet from past three months. Even his contact no. & everything is disconnected.
So should i wait for him for three years or not as i don't have any mode of communication with him.

2007-03-24 21:36:49 · 32 answers · asked by Freinds forever 2 in Singles & Dating

I have recently lost a baby and feel alone. But that isnt my question my husband does something to irritate me. he is a good man he works hard and provides but when it comes to affection he just isnt there. he is ten years older than me. and i sound like a jerk for saying this. not a jealous person. but he is nicer to other women. him and my mom are the same age by 5 years.i am not saying he likes my mom...but he is alot nicer. tonite when we visited he watched her sweep the whole time and when i mentioned it he said yes i watched but i was watching her. and when i told him i could feel a problem between you he said yes your right there is a problem i need to be more attracted to you then he said opps i mean attentive. and he said i didnt mean that wrong choice of words. how do i fix this problem without seeming like a jerk.

2007-03-24 21:34:34 · 4 answers · asked by jerry w 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-24 21:32:02 · 35 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

ma boyfriends parents dont like me because of what i did in the past. Recently they even tried to make up a lie that i was riding around with some boys when i had spend the whole day wit him in ma boyfriend almost belived them. To get it straight the so say boys were ma sister in her friend we had went to go pick up ma lil sister from her school. The reason i dont get an apartment with him to get away is because im 17 about to be 18 in 4 months.What should i do????

2007-03-24 21:31:53 · 8 answers · asked by Melissa M 1 in Singles & Dating

C'mon now tell the truth. There are a whole bunch of you on here that must not have a life. Its 12 am here on Pacific Time. And if its this late here, its gotta be later in the rest of the U.S.

So my question, are you getting any tonight or are you going to sit here miserable on yahoo answers?

I know I'm getting some in about 2 hours.

See, I haven't harassed you women because I'm in a good mood.

Peace!

2007-03-24 21:30:55 · 14 answers · asked by Joe B 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Why do you think relationships are hard?

I never realized it was hard before. I'm in my first long-term relationship with my boyfriend of over 13 months and we plan on getting married someday.

I think the reason why relationships are hard is because we are all different... and each have our own different characteristics and ways in handling situations. If we all handled everything the exact same way and had the exact same personality, it would be really easy... boring, but easy.

2007-03-24 21:30:51 · 7 answers · asked by Rita 3 in Singles & Dating

My husband lost his father today and lashed out at me and said something hurtful, but instead of letting it go, knowing it was the grief talking, I let it turn into an argument. I even let him think I would leave him over it. I feel like such a thoughtless jerk. He's already hurting, and instead of being supportive and understanding, I let my feelings get in the way of just being a decent human being. Why do I have to be so reactionary? How can I undo this? How could he ever forgive me?

2007-03-24 21:30:41 · 9 answers · asked by Lesley M 5 in Marriage & Divorce

He looks at hardcore porn single everyday (movies, internet). He found out that I sent a male friend (in another state) nude pictures of me. He was very angry and hurt. Do you think this is a double standard or do you think I was totally wrong?

2007-03-24 21:29:54 · 3 answers · asked by Truth Hurts 5 in Singles & Dating