2007-03-24 21:54:48 · 6 answers · asked by girlani 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Well, maybe you should spend sometime trying to find yourself, and learning how to gain your self-esteem, and confidence, becuase thats very important about meeting new friends. U probably have alot on your mind, and is tensed. Or you may go way and beyond the real you. You have to be yourself, and stay relaxed. Don't act like something your not, and if your shy, I can help you become unshy.
Take control of yourself, and speak up more. Volunteer, and keep a smile on your face. That helps me all the time. I hope I helped you. have a nice Day!! :)
2007-03-24 22:47:09 · answer #1 · answered by Ebby♥♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
perhaps you meant to say when you meet new people, bc they aren't your friends yet, right?
just be calm, and mosly listen to what they are saying and how they talk and speak and ask questions of one another if it is a group, then if you want to get a little involved in the subject or start a new one when that one is finished, ask interesting questions and maybe their opinions on anything in the world bc people like to give their opinions on everything. If one on one, then think of what they are or might be interested in or doing or what's happening around you in any direction and maybe ask if they watched the TV show you watched last night..and so on...compliment their ctothes and shoes and hair if you like them. Maybe make a list at home of stuff you find interesting and others might too.
2007-03-24 22:08:34 · answer #2 · answered by Gary G 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Are you sure you know yourself? It takes lots of experiences to know one's self. Mistakes, problems, and how you handle them makes you who you are.
Anyway, my best advice is, try to remember that first impressions can be everything. If you know who you are, you know who they should get to know and not someone you're not.
2007-03-24 22:04:59 · answer #3 · answered by Honesty 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You need a map
2007-03-24 21:58:49 · answer #4 · answered by skcs11 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
YEAH KEEP YA MASK AT HOME AND STOP TRYING TO BE SO IMPRESSIVE IF YOU CAN'T KEEP IT REAL TO YOURSELF THEN MAYBE YOU NEED TO STAY HOME AND ASK YA SELF OVER AND OVER IN THE MIRROR WHO AM I
2007-03-24 21:59:17 · answer #5 · answered by BUBBLES 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
---i like the idea of getting a map-----
2007-03-24 22:02:44 · answer #6 · answered by mike h 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋