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i had loved a person & we have physical relation & when my parents came to know they became violent & then mme & my parents went to meet him & to discuss the solution on 7th jan & there he said he will accept me in the futur after 3yrs.
He also said that he will call me on mid of march but he has not contacted me yet from past three months. Even his contact no. & everything is disconnected.
So should i wait for him for three years or not as i don't have any mode of communication with him.

2007-03-24 21:36:49 · 32 answers · asked by Freinds forever 2 in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

32 answers

No he will not come back forget him. Move on in your life

2007-03-30 00:07:49 · answer #1 · answered by sony 4 · 0 0

A woman having physical relation with man must be careful and should not wait. Get confirmation that you are not carrying any unwanted thing. If you are a woman to be married and your family is strict about your life, go with the suggestions of elders. With friend, try to get communicated to your lover and clarify and then take a correct decision.

2007-03-26 23:02:19 · answer #2 · answered by sr50kandala 3 · 0 0

dont wait for him anymore. move on girl! there so many boys out there who can treat you as a girl and respect you. But next time, try to control yourself when it comes to physical contact. you know what i mean, you've done a mistake once so dont do it again. A guy loves you if really respect your decision. A guy loves you if he really cares about you, and i mean everything and anything about you! Cause you know what? That's a kind of guy i had now! My boyfriend and soon to be husband, but im not thinking of it yet.

2007-04-01 21:23:22 · answer #3 · answered by margareth g 1 · 0 0

Seems to me he has let go of his relationship with you. Shame really. He was happy to take what he could get until you decided to bring your parents into the equation. That probably made what you had appear more serious to him - perhaps something he wasn't ready for. Having your parents confront him about the seriousness of your relationship has certainly scared him and maybe reality has hit home and he realises he only wants to have fun and not settle down. Think twice before giving everthing you have to another man.

2007-03-30 08:00:30 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

In these type of circumstances you should listen to your heart & soul plus faith on others. Just give him a chance for 3 years and then accept the things the way it will come. In this type of situation best policy is to keeping faith, which will make you a good human being, rather than taking decision in upset mood.

2007-03-30 22:06:07 · answer #5 · answered by k_sudhirnayak 2 · 0 0

my solution let him sign an agreement on a stamp paper that he is going to accept you in presence of his and your parents and register that document in court..another way get engaged.but you have mentioned he is not answering your call!!!be pursasive and focus on your relationship. you said you had physical relationship?how you can give your body to someone without the concern of marriage? If you are in India this is not permissable according to our culture. but in gullible manner even you have made this error do not leave him and stick firmly and commit yourself to keep him in your hook whatever situation you face 3 years is a long time to wait..Is he a qualified individual if not he is just a conman played with you and freaking out with someone else and extracting or wasting your precious time!!! god bless you and your future.

2007-03-24 22:26:29 · answer #6 · answered by sweet papa 2 · 0 0

U should not wait 4 him as he was interested in having sex with u. If he would have loved u then certainly he would have contacted u. So u should understand ur self. It is better to move on...

2007-03-25 02:29:42 · answer #7 · answered by peacock 1 · 0 0

Like others have wisely said, don't wait around for him. Experience the dating world, it's ups and downs, and learn what you truly want and need before diving into a serious relationship. Most importantly, don't just settle for any man who shows you attention. Make sure the one you choose meets all your emotional needs as well as you meet his. :)

2007-03-24 21:48:14 · answer #8 · answered by VHagerty 5 · 0 0

No mode of communication and you have been waiting for three months and he said it would be three years. My answer would definitely no. That is the oddest thing I have heard of

2007-03-24 21:40:49 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

sorry love, but he has dumped you. There is no reason to wait for him..Now u have to move on and find someone else. This is life...
This is guy is like a sand and remember you cannot hold the sand in your hand...

2007-03-30 02:40:40 · answer #10 · answered by karan 2 · 0 0

I don't think you should wait as he probably will not wait for. I don't think that he is going to stay without a girl for three years to wait for you.

2007-04-01 21:36:33 · answer #11 · answered by trendy_girl 1 · 0 0

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