Why do you think relationships are hard?
I never realized it was hard before. I'm in my first long-term relationship with my boyfriend of over 13 months and we plan on getting married someday.
I think the reason why relationships are hard is because we are all different... and each have our own different characteristics and ways in handling situations. If we all handled everything the exact same way and had the exact same personality, it would be really easy... boring, but easy.
2007-03-24 21:30:51 · 7 answers · asked by Rita 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
That's the color of Love... Think about all the same colours or the same clothing or all the same attitudes.
It's is not hard. It's just, you thinking too much your relationship with the guy in your own way. And He has his own idea. To work out positive in all things, and make no errors.
Differences can lead you to trust to your partner, differences will lead to you both much happier moments, differences can strengthen your connections with him.
We are made unique. That's why we are special.
2007-03-24 21:50:08 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Relationships have an upkeep.
They aren't just made and then somehow stay okay after you've initially made it. It has it's wear and tear thanks to life's contributions. Instead, they take constant work - whether it be romantic, friendship, or a work relationship.
Both parties have to want to contribute, be willing to compromise, mutually respect the other, honestly communicate, and listen. It's not exactly the most natural thing for us to do at the end of a long, stressful day.
2007-03-25 04:41:16 · answer #2 · answered by Squeak 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
They're hard for everyone obviously. There are no perfect relationships. Each relationship will have it's ups and downs but at times its health to have downs. We are all different for a reason. If we were all the same then it would be boring and lame. Being different helps you to understand each other better and discover each others qualities.
2007-03-25 04:37:04 · answer #3 · answered by PWD 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Because people is becoming more materialistic day after day. People are becoming more independent on very early ages and that's bad, because they don't learn to make sacrifices to love one in the family, since they are financial capable to leave their home sooner.All this materialism makes people become selfish and think only about themselves, they can't think about 2 or we are on the same boat, they only think me, me and me. There is no relationship with only one person... It takes at least 2.
2007-03-25 04:38:43 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's a very mature view.. a rarity on Answers, unfortunetely, at least for questions.
-AOS
2007-03-25 04:36:02 · answer #5 · answered by Atrophy OS 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
wen someone's attitude doesnt meet my expectation of that person, that relationship becomes hard coz he couldnt give what i expect.
but that''s relationship, we cant expect someone to become what we want them to be..^_^ 'coz nobody's perfect
juz accept the differences between you and your bf ^_^
2007-03-25 04:36:35 · answer #6 · answered by wEnNy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
God intended young people to stay home on weekends studying trigonometry, not thinking about sex!
2007-03-25 04:35:56 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋