Ok its me again I asked something earlier, but the relationship has changed, well here it goes, Me and this girl met at a bar last week have been talking alot since then, even made, ok well last night I hung out at her place we ended up cuddling, and then went to bed together, didnt have sex, we kissed a couple of times, I know she thinks Im hot but she seems kinda stand offish, what should I do girls, what is going on?
2007-03-24 20:49:45 · 8 answers · asked by Paul D 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It sounds like she likes you a lot..but needs some time to get to know you...if you think she is worth it ...let her set the pace..... and she will let you know how to proceed......the fact she wasn't all over you from the get go is actually a good sign...she don't sound wild and loose.....
2007-03-24 21:37:35 · answer #1 · answered by LeftField360 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First you met her at a bar. Thats bad.
Second, sounds like she is a little afraid of where it might lead to.
Third, If she is stand offish then it sounds like she feels like you are too good for her. Like you are better looking than her and that you dont deserve a great girl like her. Just for her actions and with her not going to bed with you, THAT is actually for the GOOD girls out there. Honestly i think you caught a good catch. But let her have her space first and see where it goes. Just go with the flow.
2007-03-24 20:56:42 · answer #2 · answered by fryeindustries2002 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well she has to like you to let you hang out at her place and cuddle. She could be stand offish because she is afraid you may be out just for sex and to use her.
If she thinks you are really hot she could also be shy and feel intimidated.
She could also have a boyfriend...who knows???
Talk to her and ask her why.
2007-03-24 20:59:53 · answer #3 · answered by Intelfem7 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
if shes 'stand offish' its just because shes not easy, she seems like a nice girl, and if your a nice guy youll stay around. just wait, girls like taking things slow, because there are too many jerks out there who will break out heart if we jump right in.
GoodLuck with it all =D
2007-03-25 02:41:23 · answer #4 · answered by Lil Missae 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She probably doesn't want you to think she's moving too fast. She probably wants you to open up and share your life with her. It's the only way girls will move forward physically. She wants to feel she is close to you so tell her something personal about yourself, tell her what you think about her, ask her questions about her life and see what you two have in common. I hope that helps.
2007-03-24 20:56:24 · answer #5 · answered by Lily Rose 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
girls are raised different than guys. most girls are told to wait, and all the horror stories about sex , or afraid they will be called names, or seem too easy.....if you like her, give her time and dont pressure her. unless thats all you want from you, doesnt sound like your going to get it. respect her !
2007-03-24 20:54:57 · answer #6 · answered by ICEBOX 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
She's just taking her time thats all, I mean you've only known eachother for a week...
2007-03-24 20:55:57 · answer #7 · answered by Alana 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
believe me if you didnt get any she dont think u hot maybe your breath stink something wrong
2007-03-24 21:00:14 · answer #8 · answered by tuname 1 · 0⤊ 2⤋