2007-03-24 21:03:35 · 9 answers · asked by Steven A 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Talk to them. Address the real issue for the argument, and how it can be resolved. Be sure you're both open for the discussion and not confrontational. Don't discuss other topics.
And then have great make-up sex (both that night and in the morning).
2007-03-24 21:07:40 · answer #1 · answered by tigerdave2 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Reflecting about all that was said by both of you. Pay attention to what she said and her needs. Admit to be wrong if that is the case and make things right. If you are sure, you have been fair and she is being unreasonable with you, talk to her about it. Tell her the conversation will only be over after you both reach a solution.
I don't believe in relationships without conversation. It is normal people gets upset and shouts, but after everyone calms down, the mind come clear and things can be easier evaluated. Take your time to think about the problems and ask her to do the same in order of you both resolve the problem.
2007-03-25 04:13:12 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't shout but when we had an arguments. I will let myself cool down for 10 or 15 minutes, and I look at my b.f face an see how hurt and sad he is, and I say to myself he is the person i want to spend the rest of my life with, i will go over and hug him, ever though he still mad or angry or pull me aways but after hugging him few minutes, he will get soft and i will hold his hands and---- important thing is you do not say one words otherwise it will start arguments again. good luck.
2007-03-25 04:18:01 · answer #3 · answered by ubon 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thats called make up sex. Get ready for a long and wild night. Best kind of sex there is.
2007-03-25 04:06:48 · answer #4 · answered by Joe B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give plenty of time to cool off, and try talking agian. See if you can compromise. And do a lot of butt kissing. LOL.
2007-03-25 04:08:42 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
That's what makeup sex is for! Seriously though, an apology from you is in order, even if you feel like it wasn't your fault.
2007-03-25 04:06:52 · answer #6 · answered by lunesca 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
let both side COOL down first..... have a chat later over a drink and slowly explain you are you going thro this..that you are about her and her health.....
2007-03-25 05:35:33 · answer #7 · answered by jast s 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
buy her something new like flowers or jewels
2007-03-25 04:07:42 · answer #8 · answered by laurie k 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
apologize ( even if YOU THINK you are right) have fantastic sex.
Works for me every time.
2007-03-25 04:07:36 · answer #9 · answered by Lolipop 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋