Im a normal guy but i just hate company. I feel its stupid that say for example when you want to go for say lunch, you have to call a friend. Rather Id like to go where i want and when i want than be dependednt on anyone else. But in society this is looked upon as 'not normal". I simply hate to talk to people and i consider it a waste of time. Your comments and response please
2007-03-24 23:15:20 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
You can be as you want to be and still have friends, maybe loners like you. But, when you treat other people with attitude you will have no option but to be by yourself. This seems cool now but wait until the years go by and you see yourself....alone, this will not be very pleasant. Make it your option, not theirs because of your treatment to them.
2007-03-24 23:47:34 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I use to be the same way and yet i still am in a way, i do however have a best friend and that is my husband whom i love very much but he is at work 10 hours a day, 4 days a week but i still do things on my own. I don't feel like its abnormal alot of times friends can talk you into things you wouldn't normally do and when i did have friends they were 2 faced so i stopped trusting them but thats another story so just do what you have to do, i do and i still do.
2007-03-25 06:25:39 · answer #2 · answered by Mary O 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well this isnt a problem at all buddy ..
Its all about choice .. you choose to be stay aloof .. thats the way you are .. and if thats keeping you happy .. go ahead .. be your way man ..
just cause SOCIETY thinks its NOT NORMAL to be unsocial and introvert with people .. it isnt your fault at all .. neither your problem.. . am not saying you should completely cut off with interacting with other people .. to an extent you need company .. but like you said if you feel tied- up by these things then break free .. go ahead do what you want.. many do that . not everybody waits for somebody to come join them so they can finish a task .. but doesnt mean you gotta be unfriendly and all aloof .. your friends will slowly accept the way u r .. keep cool .. and dont be rude ..
BEing yourself is the way to go !
2007-03-25 06:45:34 · answer #3 · answered by tarantula_stings 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I feel ya guy. I don't actually hate people but they are mostly phony and mostly self absorbed it seems. Around this town in my experiences with almost everyone I have met over the last 23+ years, if they cant get in your pockets (money) or you don't' have something they want, then they will have nothing to do with you. Also, if you try to be friendly and nice and polite and all, they get very suspicious it "seems" and act all weird like "why are you being all nice and talking to me and all" Weird people these days, so I mostly keep to myself anymore. I have never met a woman i wanted to get o really know or date in this town either, but thats another story for another time I guess. Again, the kind of women I run into and meet in and around town...
Just my experiences and opinions from Ohio
2007-03-25 06:25:22 · answer #4 · answered by simon07 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree with what others have said - the positives of intraversion are not fully embraced in our society. Probably because extraverts make up 75% of the population. In time, you will probably feel very comfortable in your own skin and get to know people who feel very much like you do.
(As an extrovert, I actually envy you in a way. No matter what happens in my friendships, I still crave human companionship. I'm quite sensitive and withdrawal easily - and then end up feeling lonely and isolated. Sometimes I would love to opt out of this "friendship" stuff and be a hermit, but I'm not wired that way; to do so happily).
Enjoy and accept yourself as you are - we are all so very different and that is what makes us all so interesting:).
2007-03-25 07:16:28 · answer #5 · answered by Sir V 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree, society looks at this as "not normal" but da truth is society sucks. I know alot of people but only consider 1 or 2 true friends. I like 2 chill by myself sometimes too if not most of da time & most people seemed to be offended by that. Don't feel alone, there are alot of people just like u in this big world including me.
2007-03-25 06:32:15 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
All I can say is at one time I had the same mindset for several years and it went away.I don't understand it myself even now.
2007-03-25 07:31:05 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
some people are independent.
A lot of my friends are like that, lone wolves. Hang out sometimes, mostly by themselves though.
Good luck.
2007-03-25 06:20:14 · answer #8 · answered by A Military Veteran 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are happy in this way don't worry about it. Some people need other people, some don't. We are all different.
2007-03-25 06:27:11 · answer #9 · answered by Debi 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋