me and my now exboyfriend have been together for 2yrs. and i broke up with him which is long overdue. i love him but there's so much that i can't deal with. i want to get over him but he keeps making me feel bad, what can i do?
2007-03-24 23:32:30 · 8 answers · asked by goodnight_melody 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
this is a hard one, and i'm sorry you're going through so much pain right now. but you've made a strong decision, so you should give yourself more credit. if he continues to make you feel bad, completely cut him out of your life. you don't need the negative energy, do you?
i'd say, first, stick with the shallow things that make you happy. watch a good movie, read a good book, go to your favorite coffee shop. see your friends, they are there for you and will do anything to make you feel better.
for the short term solution: force yourself to smile. look in the mirror, and force it. it will feel awful at first, and it will be fake. but smile often enough, and you'll start really feeling it. stick with it, it works!
and finally, give yourself time. time will make all things better, really! someday, you'll look back at this time with wiser eyes.
good luck!
2007-03-24 23:47:32 · answer #1 · answered by jammi 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u sounds so scared of him.Hv he ever hit or beat u during the past 2 yrs together.I sugguest u find someone u can really trust,like yr mom or close friend and talk abt it.In case if he do u harm,then at least ppl can help u out asap.U may be confused but if u cant deal with him anymore u really need to move on and get a better life for yrself.Yr parents will feel hurt if sanything happens to you.MOVE ON WITH YR LIFE
2007-03-24 23:42:37 · answer #2 · answered by chasen54 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not sure but I have a gf going thorugh the same thing she was going out with him for almost 4 years and they just broke up cause he's been cheating~
2007-03-24 23:35:52 · answer #3 · answered by duuh 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
a person who make you look bad is not a right person for you.
find some one who make like top of the world then that person will be the right one for you
leave that guy
2007-03-24 23:37:14 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have reasonable complaints and you have discussed this with him, how much does he love you? If you accept whatever you are given then you deserve what you get. Dont you deserve someone who uplifts you?
2007-03-24 23:55:55 · answer #5 · answered by Denise N 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
move on. you only feel bad when you choose to.
Don't give him the power. you sound like a rescuer. Don't do it.
2007-03-24 23:35:57 · answer #6 · answered by A Military Veteran 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get out and date girl--dont look back
2007-03-24 23:37:17 · answer #7 · answered by imneiflim 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i must say leave him
2007-03-24 23:36:38 · answer #8 · answered by halflimit 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋