We dated for three weeks and she said she justs wants to be friends. She says that she really wants me around (she says she loves hanging out with me) and would feel bad if I cut her out of my life...I got drunk the other night and told her I love her. But she didn't cut me out, she still wants to be friends. What do I do?
2007-03-24 23:49:35 · 11 answers · asked by siyafrica 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
just be her friend. she isn't interested in you romantically.
2007-03-24 23:54:28 · answer #1 · answered by barb 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well now what should I do!?!?!?!.,
To be honest with you you have 2 options 1 hang around have someone who likes you s a fiend or 2 find a girl who really likes you and wants to be friends and become more then friends I went down that path before ending up she just wanted a guy around so she wasn't alone could spend $ on her and it wouldnt help the issue she still wanted to be friends she asked if I wanted to move in with her and all it was, was stress.......have her as a friend treat her as a friend and go out with females and have a great time she will sway one way or the other.......or maybe not
2007-03-25 00:01:23 · answer #2 · answered by Keith M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
find someone else, she'snot ment for you.
or
make her feel special, bieng drunk is the stupidist thing. IT'S a NO,NO.. youve got zero point's in there bud. minus the style.
dont act like a wasted fool, stand up and prove your self worthy!
2007-03-24 23:56:44 · answer #3 · answered by Dwill 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you said the 3 words that killed it...I L Y....be friends, it could get better if you just be the guy you always are, dont take any crap and dont WUSS out on them...and not ever tell a girl your feelings till you know shes the one you're gonna marry
now go, and say "we are gonna b great friends, thanks for letting me know..and thats all you have to say..now go do something real fun that she likes, maybe even something completely different and see what happens..
2007-03-24 23:55:44 · answer #4 · answered by Gary G 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She thinks of you as a gay big brother. You have no shot, you never will. Find a nice man to settle down with and move to the philippines. Women are just not for you. Get out of your closet and get away from the rest of us that dont have this problem
See ya.
2007-03-24 23:54:02 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
she wants to be with u but i Think she is attracted towards some guy its not u and tell her every time when u met her 'I LOVE u' and let her know about the true love that u have in ur heart.
2007-03-24 23:56:33 · answer #6 · answered by kats 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's ok u behave like friend if she wants true friend.then she will gradually understand u n love u.
ok my dear
2007-03-24 23:54:59 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Odds are she met someone hotter but she wants to keep you as a backup, or just to stroke her ego. Sorry hun.
2007-03-24 23:52:11 · answer #8 · answered by Marion K 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Continue be her friend. She is being cautious about the relationship. So should you!
2007-03-24 23:52:30 · answer #9 · answered by AdultMale 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
tell her how your feeling dude. she will never know until she hears it from you.
2007-03-24 23:54:51 · answer #10 · answered by Chelsea L 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋