There's this guy I have known for almost 1 1/2 yrs. He was the first person I met when I moved here. In the beginning he had told me that he still had feelings for his ex-gf. Which I was fine with since we were only friends. Well after a little while it turned into a little more and sometimes I would spend the night. After 5 months he had told me that he and the ex had started talking and were gonna try to work things out. He was honest from the beginning so I knew I couldn't be mad. I was hurt though, because I got attached. I decided to just wish him the best of luck and I would move on. We talked a few times after that and he told they moved in together and got married. It didn't last and he moved out. Well we started talking again about a month ago. I saw him last night and I realized that I still had feelings for him. I asked if they might try working things out again. He said I had nothing to worry about. Would it be crazy to think there might still be a chancefor me and him??
2007-03-24 23:57:58 · 5 answers · asked by BLAHBLAHBLAH 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I don't think it'd be crazy at all. You should always give it a shot. Turning back now could be something you'd kick yourself for later. We guys do really stupid things sometimes. Like chasing after an ex. Generally though, if it doesn't work out the second time we finally get it through our heads. I would suggest making sure that there's a bit of a time barrier between them splitting and you making a move. Otherwise you could end up being thought of as a rebound. (Trust me, I just made that mistake recently) I'd say go back to hanging out with him again like you used to, and if something develops, persue it.
2007-03-25 00:08:53 · answer #1 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The only hesitation you might think about is that all that happened in a very short time. Relationships take time to develop--some LOTS of time. And he's hopped out of one, into one with you, out of that and back into another with his ex in a very short time. "Quick" and "good, sound choices" don't go into the same sentence very well when the subject is love and long term commitment.
2007-03-25 00:13:35 · answer #2 · answered by DelK 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, it wouldn't be crazy. He went back to her, didn't he? Just be careful about the ex, though. He's got a history with her and there may still be feelings.
2007-03-25 00:03:12 · answer #3 · answered by slert1985 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
never do it. For me personally, i won't...
Think about it, how much memories do u two have in the past? Do u think the guy would impress by what u done with him in the past?...
2007-03-25 00:05:31 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
u hav a chance but the ex will always feature in ur future conversations even if he commits to you!! its up to you to know if you can handle it
2007-03-25 00:22:55 · answer #5 · answered by Deepest Blue 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋