what can u do with a bad tempered, moaning and shouting husband. when he gets it wrong its no bother and no one makes a fuss. when anyone else gets it wrong their is a hurl of abuse and the house collapses. the end of the world as we know it. does my head in and stress me out no end. is there any getting through to a numb nut like this.
2007-03-24 23:53:56 · 5 answers · asked by julie z 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
numb nuts is nothing to what gets thrown at me in every way so i think i was being quite tame on that one
2007-03-26 04:59:17 · update #1
i have the same problem but its frustration at myself i know this is not the apporiate behavior tell him his bad behavior is putting a strain on your relationship i he needs to go to a anger management course
2007-03-25 00:07:16 · answer #1 · answered by outrun 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
are we married to the same man?
my guy is the same; I don't let him do anything, he wants to control any DIY that's going on; knows nothing about it, gets it wrong most of the time,and everyone else is out of step except him. It's a huge inferiority thing with my guy; he's afraid of being seen as not in control. Insecure doesn't even begin to describe it.
i just let him rant. I leave the room so he doesn't have an audience.If no- one is listening they'll run out of steam
2007-03-25 09:06:32 · answer #2 · answered by marie m 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For a start do not use abusive terms about him (Viewing him as a numb nut is not going to win friends and influence people)
Spaek to him quietly...not just after a row...and say how you feel. But make sure that you speak rationally, too.
2007-03-25 10:55:03 · answer #3 · answered by alan h 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ground glass in his diet ...works every time
2007-03-25 06:57:01 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
why do you married a *** like that, dump him or you will forever miserable
2007-03-25 06:59:28 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋