I know my bf's voicemail password (he doesn't know that i know it)...and so i check it from time to time...tonight he said he was staying home, but i went into his voicemail around like 1:00am, and there was a message from his friend saying "hey man, there is a big line up here too, let me know when you guys leave the bar to come here" ... obviously he went out....so i went crazy and i started calling him and he never picked up, and when he picked up at like 2:30am, he said he was playing poker with his roommates......Liar?? I really care about him I LOVE HIM, and i know he loves me too, and this sh** is really bad....what do i do...
2007-03-24 23:59:31 · 12 answers · asked by prettybella 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i just wanna add that i don't wanna tell him i have his password....and when i told him u lied to me he insisted and said NO!!!
2007-03-25 00:06:15 · update #1
o girl ! dont think too much .. maybe he just wanted to have some fun with his friends .. not that he couldnt have wanted to go out with you .. but guess he just wanted to have fun with his friends .. thats it ! guys do this all the time .. whtas wrong ..
well about the thing that he lied to you .. maybe he dint tell you cause it wud hurt u n u wud think he dint wanna go out with u at all.. but thts wasnt the case. . he dint wanna say a no adn disappoint you .. . so he lied .. thats fair enough .. its okay .. he went out having fun with his friends .. cool ! be happy for him .. yeah he cud have dun with de NOT LYING part of it .. but men are like that .. for them FORBIDDEN FRUIT is always the sweetest ! you know him better .. hope u understand. ! all the best !
and dont w8 for him to come tell u .. nor go confess .. let thngs go on ...
2007-03-25 00:11:18 · answer #1 · answered by tarantula_stings 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like hes doing things maybe you wouldn't approve of. Ask youself if he said he wanted to hag out with his friends that night and go bar hopping would you have said go ahead or given him a hard time. Guys and girls need there space even when theres love involved.. this seems pretty minor but now you have to deal with this because you were "both" being sneaky..
2007-03-25 07:06:06 · answer #2 · answered by gregory_usa83 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why you think that only he has done somthing that is hurting you? in return you also doing same with him. TRUST is the first step for a TRUE LOVE. Try to attract him the way he gradually leave such things you dont like. But remember it takes time. and for your present forget and forgive and let bygones be bygones.
2007-03-25 07:59:29 · answer #3 · answered by dev 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Grow up !!! tell the truth and quit snooping trust is not there and if you cant trust the person u r with stay single for a while till YOU figure it out !!!
2007-03-25 07:13:43 · answer #4 · answered by sentrysharpshooter 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this is what guys do, so either put up with it or get a new guy or b by yourslef for awhile...
thats all there is to it, bc you canot change people and they will not change just for you ....especially this one...
lookee here...he's a liar, cheat, disrespect and all ..is this the way you really want to live?
maybe not so much...
2007-03-25 07:05:43 · answer #5 · answered by Gary G 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds to me like, you need to find some hobbies to keep yourself occupied. Trust is a huge issue for you, the best way is to trust yourself first. Trust that you can depend on yourself to feel good.
2007-03-25 07:09:30 · answer #6 · answered by All That Glitters isn't Gold 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him seriously that he needs to be truthful to you here on...you both need to forgive each other since he lied to you and you also used his personal account..
Communication will only make things easier...
2007-03-25 07:05:01 · answer #7 · answered by chaminda l 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give him freedom to live his life he tinks that ur entering his privacy and he can't allow u in it as he to cares for u. LOVE HIM and DON'T DO ANYTHING KEEP THIS THING SECRET
2007-03-25 07:10:04 · answer #8 · answered by kats 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That sleazy what you did also,sounds like you two are a good match
2007-03-25 07:03:59 · answer #9 · answered by naseldrip 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's normal for man to have some fun
2007-03-25 07:03:30 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋