I know it takes two to tango,
but it's not ALWAYS both parts fault if a relationship doesn't work out.
Why is it that some women and men tend to put all the blame on the other partner,for the reason wy they didn't work out?
What's wrong about being grown and the bigger person and just take the blame if you know YOU were the one who messed up?
What do you call this kinda situation?
Manipulation,Ego,Reversed-Pshycalogy?
2007-03-28 20:44:49 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
* It makes them feel better and helps them get over their partner *
2007-03-28 20:47:39 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Blame game is the easiest way to satisfy our ego by believing that we can never be wrong. When we point one finger to some one we forget that remaining three fingers are towards us. One who has more understanding knows that it is futile in engaging in blame game or even proving how wrong the other person was. By doing this you get nowhere but make your future life miserable. The best way to ignore and do as if nothing has happened. In this process one should also make a firm decision with a cool mind which of course is very hard but then peace is also does not come cheap.
2007-03-29 03:54:35 · answer #2 · answered by KVISHWAS 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Usually, it's not one person to blame. There is nothing wrong with pointing out the reasons why something didn't work out. It's accurate from the point of view of the speaker. It's the listeners responsibility to be supportive if they are a friend, but also to recognize that there are always two sides to every story.
2007-03-29 03:53:45 · answer #3 · answered by J F 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I say it's the coward way out. If you can own up to your own flaws or mistakes than you are a coward.
Also, this guy must be an idiot. Break-up 101 says for you to take all the blame when leaving a women to keep her from going completely postal on you.
2007-03-29 03:48:34 · answer #4 · answered by Ozzie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If a break up occurs, obviously both sides have decided to accept the ill fate of the relationship. Underline: both have stopped trying. So, in my opinion if a relationship falls apart both are at fault.
2007-03-29 04:03:48 · answer #5 · answered by sk|TTLes™ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would call that type of situation immature {of the accusing partner}. Some relationships simply aren't meant to be. NO one has to be @ fault. I'm w/ you. It's not cool to play the blame game...
2007-03-29 03:52:12 · answer #6 · answered by GoldE 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Yeah this is false pride, an offshoot of the super ego. Not admitting to problems you may have or may have created. Trying to make others think it was someone else's fault, in psychology this is the ego, false pride portion of it.
2007-03-29 03:51:03 · answer #7 · answered by Rock N' Roll Junkie 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I would call it denial. Each person thinks that they couldn't have anything to do with it going wrong. Some people know it's their fault, but would never admit to it. That's just human nature I guess.
2007-03-29 04:02:32 · answer #8 · answered by ~Crystal~ 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
People dont want to feel guilty, they will try to make themselves believe they did nothing wrong, because it will be easier for them to sleep at night thus blaming someone else
2007-03-29 03:48:16 · answer #9 · answered by shano 2006 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ego, insecurety?
2007-03-29 04:32:40 · answer #10 · answered by scott p 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋