Standing up for those you love?

Question

I know this is a very pathetic topic. But I'll go for it anyway. I'm an introvert, always have been, always will be. I'm not really shy or anything but just quiet. Now whenever I have a girlfriend there's somebody who doesn't have respect for one of us, or our relationship. I try to ignore most situations like today I was hugging her while we were in burger king and she told me some guy was trying to talk to her from the drive up window. That pissed me off badly because I'm standing right there with her. so I look over the counter and stare at the guy directly in the eyes and he decides to look away. Then there are some people that just get rude with her at her job. Sometimes I don't notice because she knows a lot of people and I think that at times they are just playing, but then theres times I get mad anyway, but end up not saying anything because I was distracted, then I get mad at myself. Does anybody have any advice on how to read the situations and what I should say/do in them?

Answer 1

No your doing fine really, I mean there isn't much more you can do then be willing to look all these guys in the eye... o yea kuddos on showing that guy that he's just a horney little boy.... but this stuff tests a relationship and its all about being strong enough to ignore most of it.... of course there is a breaking point and the only way you'll know that is by talking to her. If she is comfrotable with the way your handling then don't change a thing shes a big girl, now if she is needing you to be a little be more... confrontational just keep that mean eye in your back packet for those that can't take the hint of what your there for, if not then just go up and talk to them like there friends and make them feel even weirder.... people espacially little boys are not going to fight you for a lady they just meet and are trying to test her layiability (new word! I love the english languange!) .... so trust the love buddy. Another thing to be worried about my fellow introvert is that some ladies your just not going to be comfrontable with because there extroverts and like some flirtin, attention, and socializing in shallow, meanless ways... nothing you can do to change them or the people around them... just something to look out for.