Family & Relationships - 28 March 2007

he treats me bad he does not love me any more we have a son and he does not even plays or caries hem around i have a long time i do not go anywere with hem i don't see hem at home he comes home goes to sleep wakes up and leave that's our life he really treats me like trash we fight every day he is like a single man i really wnato leave but i don't have nowere to go i need help to know like what to do is there any places that can help me i have nothing it all if a live and nobrfegvhn mobody to help me pleasee what do i do?

i really apologyse for my writting if it's hard to understand this is not really my lenguage thanks for understanding
god bless

2007-03-28 18:18:14 · 10 answers · asked by sweet kiss 4 in Marriage & Divorce

My wife is a nurse and has formed a friendship with a young M early 20's patient of hers. He's not in great health and I'm sure she cares for him in a maternal way and just wishes he gets better. My problem is where do you draw the line? They communicate outside of work by txt and cell. I feel that they should not be that comfy being buddies when she's off duty as this cuts into our family time. I can honestly say I think she's obsessed with this patient of hers and it's confusing me . Isn't there a sort of code of conduct between nurses and patients that shouldn't be crossed? I know this isn't romantic but it still bugs me. any thoughts because I'm confused? btw, he's married and my greatest argument is his wife and family should serve as his greatest support once he leaves the clinic each week.

2007-03-28 18:18:11 · 13 answers · asked by bulldeaux 1 in Marriage & Divorce

This may sound like a stupid question but some asian guys are very conservative. HAve any of you ever consider sealing the marriage with a white girl? In today/s society and growing interracial marriage, its becoming clear that the norm of traditional marriage are kinda outdated. I mean, its so hard to find the right one these days and if race is the only thing holding you back would you change your mind? From strict parents, i personally think that Asian guys should stop the tradition and start marrying white girls. I mean, I personally think white girls are attractive 80% of the time I see one compared to 20% of the time I see a non white girl asian. SO, maybe its time for me to change my perception

2007-03-28 18:18:10 · 10 answers · asked by Confused 1 in Singles & Dating

As for as i m concerned for me its difficult to forgo my own identity and change in to a new one by every one calling me by my husband's name instead of mine.

2007-03-28 18:18:05 · 8 answers · asked by nadia a 2 in Marriage & Divorce

My friends parents are in their 50's but a bit bad off.They're not physically/financially well off and things are getting worse.The Mom had a stroke and has broke an arm,leg and hip.The father is mentally ill.My friend is their only son and he is lost on what to do ,he hardly cares for himself well,what can I do to help him or point him in the right direction to get started?

2007-03-28 18:17:57 · 5 answers · asked by notebooky3 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-03-28 18:17:47 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

well i have a guy friend and he is the sweetest person to me in the world

Everytime he sees me he'll stop what he is doing and walk me to my class
he walks me half way too my house and he lives a diffrent direction....


he jokes around with me and we throw gummies at each other (kinda imature)but hey were teens

but were going to diffrent schools
or and the worst part is that this has been happening for 5 months and i still haven't got a hug from him...soo should i give him a hug or should i wait.......

Should i make a move or should i wait till he does....

HELP ME PLEASE.......

2007-03-28 18:16:31 · 10 answers · asked by :DDtortillas:DD 2 in Singles & Dating

I am really upset about this! I am 21 years old, and never had a boyfriend. I think I'm nice and pretty. What is wrong with me? Should I try pursuing guys?

2007-03-28 18:15:14 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-03-28 18:13:56 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-03-28 18:13:43 · 14 answers · asked by concern mommy 2 in Marriage & Divorce

1. i want her back
2. she says she still loves me and always will
3. she cherishes our friendship
4. we have spoken or seen each other a very lot since we have split
5. she still has pictures up of us in her house
6. but she doesnt want to get back together
7. she says to much water under the bridge

2007-03-28 18:12:47 · 10 answers · asked by chad h 1 in Singles & Dating

doing the dishes once a year doesnt count.
Marriage is a partnership Why dont men feel they are a partner?

2007-03-28 18:11:41 · 23 answers · asked by oceanqueen1 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-03-28 18:11:20 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

what is a good idea for a date with my girlfriend?

2007-03-28 18:10:56 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My man and I have a great sex life but recently we've wanted to change things and try some roleplaying. He wants to take more control in bed and I want to please him but we don't really take it seriously and end up giggling. We saw this scene in the show Nip/Tuck where the doctor humiliated the woman by making her wear a paper bag over her head during sex, my man liked the idea of humiliation, we tried that but it was kind of stupid and it didn't make anything better. I want to please my man and try new things, any advice on new things we can try that involve humiliation? Thanks.

2007-03-28 18:09:54 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm a single mom of one and I'm not really interested in dating right now since I'm into my baby. I'm curious if when I'm ready will men be interested? I'm super hot (salma hayek hot) and I make my own good income. I would not be interested in having more children since I'm happy with my one. But I thought it would be cool to meet someone and get married someday. What do you think?

2007-03-28 18:09:48 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

wat do u talk about once a friend introduces u to a girl and finishes off the usual things like "howz it going" "wats ur name" that kinda stuff......whats the best thing to keep a convo going...oh and the location is at clubs

2007-03-28 18:09:45 · 2 answers · asked by glen 1 in Singles & Dating

He blushes easy when he makes a mistake and when a girl asks him out....is he shy and sensitive, and does that mean he has a crush on the girl?

2007-03-28 18:08:29 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

About 2 years ago I called the Abuse Hotline because I believed my nephew was being neglected. The police went to the house and determined that the neglect wasn't bad enough to do anything. My family hasn't spoken to me since. Then my mom calls last week and acts like nothing happened. Afer 2 years I finally got used to being without them! I still believe I did the right thing. If my nephew is injured again, someone will take notice. So my mom has been calling and inviting me to lunch, but she hasn't apologised for treating me so badly and I still haven't heard from my brothers or sisters. I am very uncomfortable speaking to her. We have never had anything in common and it just seems weird.

Should I bring it up ask her why they didn't support my decision? I mostly want to know why shes calling now, 2 years later and rocking the boat. My life is good now without all the stupid drama and gossip.

2007-03-28 18:08:01 · 6 answers · asked by scrappyscrapper123 1 in Family

My one year anniversary is coming up and I want to give my boyfriend one of those dogtags that wud say "Jasmine&Chris", the date we first started going out, and a lil messge other than a simple "i love u". any ideas? =]

2007-03-28 18:07:03 · 5 answers · asked by Jasmine B 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Two good friends of mine have invited me to two separate proms this year. After the first Prom (for the school I attend), my date and his group are driving to Lake Travis for the weekend (about three or four hours away from where we live). After the second Prom (with a friend from a different school), my date's group is going to New Braunsfels for the weekend (a couple hours away, again).
My mom doesn't want me to attend the "after events" in either city because she doesn't feel comfortable about the distance, lack of supervision, and the fact that I won't know any of the people in either group except my dates. I would really like to go to both, and I'm curious about what to do. Date #1 is renting the house in Lake Travis with his own money, so it would only make sense that his date (me) should go with him.
Do I just accept my mom's answer or try to change her mind? Or should I just tell Date #1 I can't go?
p.s. I don't drink, so it's not like I'm being irresponsible the whole time

2007-03-28 18:06:52 · 9 answers · asked by Miss Taylor 3 in Singles & Dating

there use to be a time where i was really proud of my body and i wanted to show it off.
i ended up modelling in bikinis, some sets ended racier then i expected. i ended up with very little clothing in others. i felt sexy at the time..
now i look back and i am totally ashamed and embarressed. i think it was so slutty of me to ever think this was approprieate. i cant help to judge myself and i cant seem to forgive myself. if i cant get over this, how would anyone else. i look myself in the mirror and feel like trash. i have heard important people.. such as my boyfriends family talk about girls doing slutty s/hit, i can assure you that they have MEAN s/hit to say... not even knowing that i did that s/hit. they would disown me, i feel like everyone would. its just not an acceptable thing to do. please help me i am feeling so bad.

2007-03-28 18:05:45 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-03-28 18:05:14 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I am graduating from high school this June. My mom is throwing me the best graduation party. She bought my class ring, my prom dress, everything I ever needed to get through high school.

There were quite a few times I almost gave up and dropped out of school but it was her that talked me out of it. She told me stuff like "i know you can do it, i believe in you". She has always been there for me.

She always did everything she could to make sure I was happy. Her and my dad got divorced in the middle of my Junior year. No matter how hurt or depressed she was because of her divorce, she was always there for me.

I need a nice song to dedicate to her at my graduation party. A song that just says thank you for always being there for me when i needed her and supporting me to get where i am now. She's my hero.

A song I like is Somebody's Hero by Jamie O'Neal but she already knows that song so I am looking for something similar or just any song that says what I am trying to say.

2007-03-28 18:05:05 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

My aunt died a little more tan a month ago. I know that seems stupid but she was a really big part of my life and i just can't seem to get over it. I lived with her for about seven months and I used to go over to her house every weekend. She had cancer a few different times. I was there just a few days before she died. she was so close to death. I am only 12 and have had more than 7 relitives die that i remember. She hid her pain and even though she could barley move her leg because of the fluid on it she still did everything with me. O yeah her left hand and whole arm was the same way. I odn't know what to do she just was so special to me and I don't want to earse the memories of happiness just the ones like seeing her dead. I know that can never really happen so just give any advice you can anyways please help.

2007-03-28 18:04:47 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

i remember some of it...
i remember being with my mom in a cab,she was babysitting these two chinese girls and my mom had to go home to get *something* and all of a sudden i was in this weird kinda house and there were two men, one looked kinda young but the other was probaly around his 40s but he looked kinda familiar in a way and i remember asking him if he would let me go home when we were *done* and he said no, then i asked him if he would kill me and he said no. then one of the guys made me put the thing in my mouth and the other just had sex with me. i remember getting out of the house some how and i ran into this office like place and was yelling for help and telling them that the other girls were in the house...the last thing i remember is my dad saying that he wondered how i felt cause i looked really bad...i know i have had bad dreams about school and my brother being eaten by a shark but this was really [not scary] but weird. im 13 and not even having sex.can anyone relate?

2007-03-28 18:04:40 · 3 answers · asked by ♥ :) ♥ 3 in Family

I think you are not going to find her temporary, because your fd quite angry with you at this moment,you should wait her cool down then go to find talk what you want to do with her.

2007-03-28 18:03:58 · 9 answers · asked by Tess 3 in Friends

okay this girrl put up some racial slurs... on a post and she thinks that....

Cameron: yes kim whydid you say all that?
generationkim: Because Theyr'e fun words.
Cameron: i do not find them fun
Cameron: i find them quite offencive
generationkim: why?
Cameron: because, they conject and idea of you hating me
Cameron: and not caring how i or others feel
Cameron: do you not care?
generationkim: I don't care . I wasn't calling anyone any of them.
generationkim: They're just words.
Cameron: so you basically just said youdont care how i feel
generationkim: Not on this subject no, because I'd say it again. I'd never call you any of them, but I'd say them in front of you.
generationkim: because they're not racial slurs coming from me.
Cameron: yeah they are
Cameron: they are coming from you but not directed towards me you mean?
generationkim: Yeah, They're not directed towards anyone.


what do you think of this? or tell her at "generationkim@yahoo.com" i.m her or email

2007-03-28 18:02:10 · 1 answers · asked by blindedbullet 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

You two were very close (not sexually however) and then he suddenly broke up with you with no solid reason; then after a month or so of not talking he decided he missed talked to you and wanted to be friends. You thought you were over him/moved on but now you don't know anymore and you can't get your feelings for him/memories out of your head. He is throwing you in circles again. He'll talk to you online but sometimes he will have a complete 360 and not even say hi at school. What is up?

2007-03-28 18:01:57 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i've lived with my boyfriend for 5 years and i've put on 50Ibs. Honestly, i feel for the guy. I know i need to do something about it. i guess i want to know how other guys would feel so that i can know what's going on in his mind about me now. i get secretly jealous when he looks at other girls on the net or walking by. Can love look past my weight or will this genuinely effect our relationship? Looking for brutal honesty here from you guys.. not brutal jokes. Thanks in advance.

2007-03-28 18:01:13 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships