My man and I have a great sex life but recently we've wanted to change things and try some roleplaying. He wants to take more control in bed and I want to please him but we don't really take it seriously and end up giggling. We saw this scene in the show Nip/Tuck where the doctor humiliated the woman by making her wear a paper bag over her head during sex, my man liked the idea of humiliation, we tried that but it was kind of stupid and it didn't make anything better. I want to please my man and try new things, any advice on new things we can try that involve humiliation? Thanks.
2007-03-28 18:09:54 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I'm happy with the way things are he wants to try new things the problem is that we never roleplayed before and need advice. This is roleplaying not real. I'll try anything once to pleasure my man.
2007-03-28 18:19:52 · update #1
Try having sex in front of a mirror so that you both can see.
Try roleplaying.
Try dressing up in stupid costumes.
2007-03-28 18:15:50 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i agree with the one lady. have him blind fold you so that way u cant really see anything for it to be amusing and he can dominate and be controlling. try hand cuffs too. if u make them tight enough there is no way you could laugh. you'll be going ow these hand cuffs are digging into my wrist. but you need to become comfortable with the idea of roleplaying b4 u do it.
another suggestion is to make it a surprise for him. if he doesnt know you're about to start a role playing thing then it will be less likely to be funny. here's an example. let's say he has day off of work and you have to work. bring some play clothes in your car so that you can change outfits after work. when u get home knock on the door with your special outfit on. like wear a school girl out fit and get into character that ur a scared lost school girl and u need some one to take you home. it will be a nice surprise for him and he'll feel more controlling putting a blind fold on his school girl gf.
2007-03-28 18:32:44 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let me get this straight...you have a great sex life...and you have fun and giggle together...but that isn't good enough for you so you want to try humiliation? I think humiliation would be one of the first steps toward divorce. Why ruin a good thing if you have one.
2007-03-28 18:14:56 · answer #3 · answered by Over The Rainbow 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you can handcuff and blind fold him to the bed, And sexually tease the crap out of him,
Like like down his neck and chest you know like your going to go their, And just barely touch it as you make your way down his body, Legs and back up And then just a little more tease on the joy stick, Instead of doing it the way he likes it play around do things you like. Then you can climb on top and ride girl ride. A robe tie works as well or two neck tie,s just use your imagination
2007-03-28 18:29:04 · answer #4 · answered by mystictoad 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
trying things that involve humiliation????
hmm, how bout telling you man you asked the mass population at Y!A how to jazz up your sex life-
im sure he'd be humiliated
2007-03-28 18:13:22 · answer #5 · answered by Dziner 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Humiliation in the bedroom? that is the story of my life!
2007-03-28 18:13:46 · answer #6 · answered by Rosanna 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how about you blind fold each other so that you cant see each others reactions but only feel what you are doing to each other.
2007-03-28 18:13:48 · answer #7 · answered by cantceeme 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋