there use to be a time where i was really proud of my body and i wanted to show it off.
i ended up modelling in bikinis, some sets ended racier then i expected. i ended up with very little clothing in others. i felt sexy at the time..
now i look back and i am totally ashamed and embarressed. i think it was so slutty of me to ever think this was approprieate. i cant help to judge myself and i cant seem to forgive myself. if i cant get over this, how would anyone else. i look myself in the mirror and feel like trash. i have heard important people.. such as my boyfriends family talk about girls doing slutty s/hit, i can assure you that they have MEAN s/hit to say... not even knowing that i did that s/hit. they would disown me, i feel like everyone would. its just not an acceptable thing to do. please help me i am feeling so bad.
2007-03-28 18:05:45 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
You are no different than anyone else on the planet. We have all done things we wish we didn't do. Things we cannot ever go back in time and change. The more we dwell on these things, the more our imagination tends to magnify them in our minds. Accept the fact that you are human, as such, you are worthy of love and respect from others and from yourself.
If what you did earlier, offends you now, learn from the error of your ways and then just choose to forget it and start telling yourself you are a wonderful person. We only have this one life to live, sometimes the road we travel is full of twists and dead ends and we all need to accept the wrong choices we have made as a normal process of learning and development of the person we will eventually turn out to be.
Just as a caterpillar goes to sleep in a cocoon, not realizing the transformation that will occur when it awakens in the spring. Stop dwelling on your past and start looking to the future.
2007-04-01 10:38:23 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't be so hard on yourself, we all make faults in our lives. You have to accept them as a learned lesson and move on with your life.
I'm sure, that there's more on you than just your body - concentrate on your qualities, are you a caring person, do you have humor, some extra-ordinary skills? Concentrate on your positive attributes - those pictures didn't changed the person you are, they just changed, how you view yourself. People who like you, will like you for what and who you are, nevermind those pictures.
Try to live without regrets. The things you experienced, good and bad, made you the person you're today.
Counseling would be maybe a good idea, but always keep in mind, that there are people out there, who did wayyyyy worse stuff than you did.
If a friend of mine would tell me, that she did those pictures earlier, I wouldn't mind, and it wouldn't change my view on her.
2007-03-29 04:20:13 · answer #2 · answered by Chevrolet*Blazer*Girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well the best thing is if you believe in god go to your church or priest or whatever and ask for forgiveness. then go to a doctor and get on depression meds for abit and see if that helps and then talk to theripist. it all will help and it will make you feel lots better and become yourself. we all make mistakes and Lord knows i am not perfect and neither is everyone else. take care
2007-04-05 22:02:43 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
SIMPLY BURRY THE PAST AND MARCH AHEAD FOR A NEW LIFE AND CAREER.
2007-04-05 12:16:31 · answer #4 · answered by NQS 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋