1. i want her back
2. she says she still loves me and always will
3. she cherishes our friendship
4. we have spoken or seen each other a very lot since we have split
5. she still has pictures up of us in her house
6. but she doesnt want to get back together
7. she says to much water under the bridge
2007-03-28 18:12:47 · 10 answers · asked by chad h 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Have you ever seen the words that go something like this. If you love something set it free if it comes back to you its yours if it doesnt it never was. May just have to move on even though it will be hard.
2007-03-28 18:23:58 · answer #1 · answered by saturn 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im guessing you want her to be your "gf" again. right? well if thats the case. if you both are still hanging out "a very lot" (lol) thats GOOD. are you the only guy she hangs out with then? if you are the most preferred guy, meaning if out of any other guy she chooses to spend the most time with you thats good. WHY is it good? because she could still hope for you to make the RIGHT moves. Maybe she just wants you to not rush so much. Just be her friend. It hurts for now. But give her her space, and let her warm up to you as it was before you FIRST started dating.
Step 7. if there is a bridge. you gotta make her forget all the water that has come over it. right now some things youve done. bad im guessing, are outweighing the good. you need to pack on the goods, and push the bad out of her memory.
good luck. any questions ask.
2007-03-29 01:22:34 · answer #2 · answered by Jon S 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm not sure what your question is.... but if she does say that she still wants to be friends, you should go for it. You share a past, and it might be hard to be friends, but that is the number one scenario of how people would like their break up to go.. to split up and still remain a friendly relationship. So if you feel you are up to that, it would probably mean a lot to her, and you could still have her in your life as a friend, and find someone that would love you, the other way :)
2007-03-29 01:18:07 · answer #3 · answered by helloworld 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her that you want her back and tell her how much she means to you if she still doesn't come back then maybe it wasn't meant to be . You cannot be friends it will hurt too much its sounds like she cherished your relationship learned a lot from it but probably has outgrown you it can happen. but if its 10mths it may be time to move on
2007-03-29 01:18:07 · answer #4 · answered by maqwa2002 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you have answered your own question.
She cherishes your 'friendship' and there is 'too much water under the bridge'
She has finished with the relationship dude.
2007-03-29 01:16:14 · answer #5 · answered by Kylie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like my last relationship.
If she doesn't want to get back together, let her go. Don't keep asking her to move back in with you or be with you, it's probably hard enough on her as it is to tell you she doesn't want to be together, considering how long you've been together. Sometimes time just changes people and they have to move on.
2007-03-29 01:18:30 · answer #6 · answered by raindreamer 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
6 years is a long time, get back together. as long as it was a healthy relationship.
2007-03-29 01:20:02 · answer #7 · answered by CATWOMAN 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She wants to get married. A commitment is lacking here.
2007-03-29 01:16:59 · answer #8 · answered by Morningstar 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So what's the question?
2007-03-29 01:15:24 · answer #9 · answered by Speedy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you know the answer. tell her its killing you and you need all or nothing. you need to try it out.
2007-03-29 01:16:44 · answer #10 · answered by Nicky james 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋