he treats me bad he does not love me any more we have a son and he does not even plays or caries hem around i have a long time i do not go anywere with hem i don't see hem at home he comes home goes to sleep wakes up and leave that's our life he really treats me like trash we fight every day he is like a single man i really wnato leave but i don't have nowere to go i need help to know like what to do is there any places that can help me i have nothing it all if a live and nobrfegvhn mobody to help me pleasee what do i do?
i really apologyse for my writting if it's hard to understand this is not really my lenguage thanks for understanding
god bless
2007-03-28 18:18:14 · 10 answers · asked by sweet kiss 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Hi. This situation needs attention straight away for the sake of your child. Obviously you have tried to talk with your husband already? Domestic violence is never to be tolerated. If he is hitting you, you need to leave the house taking your child for their own safety. Depending upon where you live, there are places to go for help - like a women's shelter. I don't know where you live in order to help you specifically. Look up the shelters in your area and contact them and they will help you in this situation. Once removed, you may be able to have a new perspective on the situation and take steps to either leave your husband or counselling depending on what you want to do. I personally would not a give a second chance to a wife-beater. Good luck.
2007-03-28 18:26:34 · answer #1 · answered by kelstar 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all how old is your son? Is this your husbands first child? if your son is a new born your husband is probably feeling overwhelmed. Men get detached from the relationship after their child is born, especially the first child. Has your husband been like this before the birth? how about during the pregnancy? or before the conception? was this a planned pregnancy, or did it just happen? Have you talked to your husband and told him how you feel? most men are blind unless we as women let them know our feelings. If your relationship with your husband was bad before the conception and you feel there is nothing you can do to fix it, there are places to get help. There are shelters that will take you in, you just need to look at what your state offers. There are some shelters that only take in women with children. I hope this helps. I hope every thing works out for the best.
God Bless
2007-03-29 01:32:21 · answer #2 · answered by billiejule1981 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow!!! First let me start by saying I have a headache from trying to read your question. But thats alright cause if what you are saying is true then regardless of the typos you need to do something about this/these problems.
You need to check out this site first of all www.hookedonphonics.com You have got to learn to spell that way you can get a job..... Cause you are going to need one after you leave his sorry a.s.s.
Next wait till he is asleep and beat the living **** out of him before he knows what hit him. Then RUN. Trust me....this works. It will be a terrible blow to his enormous ego. But don't go back. Also make sure you leave your kid somewhere for the night.
2007-03-29 01:58:19 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds to me like you are in a very nasty marriage, first of all you need to contact a shelter for woman and children
explain your situation and see what they may be able to do.
This guys sounds like all he wanted was a slave and well the kid has come along so now he is mad that he has this kid to take care of.
JUST GET OUT! CALL THE POLICE IF HE IS ABUSING YOU OR NOT LETTING YOU LEAVE IT IS AGAINST THE LAW TO HOLD SOMEONE AGAINST THERE WILL.
MAY GOD BLESS YOU AND YOUR CHILD
GOOD LUCK AND BEST WISHES?
PRAY!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2007-03-29 01:31:41 · answer #4 · answered by Livinrawguy 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sad to hear your story. but my opinion is not to leave him, because now already you have a son right, so if you leave your hubby, if someday when your son asks wheres my father and what does he do, why he not living with us?? so many problems for that innocent kid. and also from his friends and all. so just think about your son , lust try to understand him and let him know how much you love him doing his needs
as this stage thats what i can say... so dont leave your home, pray for God and tell him everything then all will be ok.
Take Care dear
God bles u
2007-03-29 01:29:38 · answer #5 · answered by Dulshan A 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are places you can go if your being abused. Call the police and they will give you info on getting out of there. If no abuse find a support group to go to and get some kind of support. You should leave if you are not happy neither is your child. Look up abuse on Internet and you can find help.
2007-03-29 01:25:31 · answer #6 · answered by Gidget 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well I am not sure where you live but try to find a womens shelter and go there for a few days or a friends place to figure out what you want to do ..
2007-03-29 01:26:14 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
CONTACT THE COUNTY they have womens shelters so u can get on your feet again on your own good luck u don't need 2 live like that.
2007-03-29 01:28:43 · answer #8 · answered by crengle60 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweety,.... do you think thats love?
Love is when some one loves you NO MATTER WHAT HAPPENS.
You need to live your life with some who LOVES you. Love is a 2 way street.
Not 1 way
2007-03-29 01:49:20 · answer #9 · answered by Photographer 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dump his sorry butt!!!! He's a lazy bastard!!!
2007-03-29 01:21:35 · answer #10 · answered by Ballagirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋