ANy asian guys out there ever consider marrying a white girl?

Question

This may sound like a stupid question but some asian guys are very conservative. HAve any of you ever consider sealing the marriage with a white girl? In today/s society and growing interracial marriage, its becoming clear that the norm of traditional marriage are kinda outdated. I mean, its so hard to find the right one these days and if race is the only thing holding you back would you change your mind? From strict parents, i personally think that Asian guys should stop the tradition and start marrying white girls. I mean, I personally think white girls are attractive 80% of the time I see one compared to 20% of the time I see a non white girl asian. SO, maybe its time for me to change my perception

Answer 1

Actually, coming from an Asian family, maybe I can shed some light on this.

You have to consider, that a LARGE percentage of Asians (especially Chinese and Koreans) in the United States at the present either immigrated here, or are the children of parents who immigrated here (1st Generation Americans). As such, they hold very very true to their customs and it is generally frowned upon by traditional families in Asia to have your child marry someone of a different race.

Now, since most of the Asian residents in the US were once traditional families in Asia, they carry their traditions with them, and pass them on to their first generation children. So, Asians, at least right now, are more conservative about interracial marriage.

I'm thinking this will probably get phased out in the future as those 1st generation-ers have kids who have kids, at which point their old traditions are usually gone and they've pretty much fully assimilated American culture.

Just give it some time.

Answer 2

Though I married an asian woman, my brother and two close highschool buddies of mine (who are asian) married Caucasian women.

I think there are a lot of asian guy's who find white women attractive. When I was single I dated all types... I even dated a blond girl who was a captain in the National Guard served in the first Gulf War and who was also a nudist.

Answer 3

I am Asian and I date white women as and when I like. Also brown, yellow, what not. Who cares? If she is hot and I think she got a fine booty, I go for it. Why not? White men go after Asian women all the time. Luckily I am not born in the States. So many American born Asians look down on themselves and somehow think no girls will ever like them. Not even Asian girls. Perhaps the American media likes to poke fun of Asian men at the moment - think William Hung.

But hey, look up to yourself.... and pat yourself on the shoulder, just go for ANY girl you want, regardless of the colour. A person with BALLS (daring) is always respected and admired in any culture. And girls (of all races) dig that.
Go for it!

Answer 4

I personally would love to marry a white girl, I actually feel like I have more in common with Caucasians than Asians (I was born in the US). Unfortunately, I think most white women wouldn't ever consider dating an Asian guy as though it was a sin to be Asian.

Answer 5

well, there are some asians who want to marry white ladies. the thing is, prior to marriage, there should be time to know each others customs and traditions so that there would be harmony once they agreed to marry. i personally want to marry a white woman, provided i could find someone i feel am compatible with, and that there is an assurance of mutual love and affection.

Answer 6

This questions relates to me.

I'm a pure blooded asian male and dating a white g/f.

The ironic part.

She acts more asian than me and I act more white than she does.

Funny thing, I got her to like me by being rude.

She told me she liked anime, I told her it sucks and the fans are crazy nuts. She laughed and thought I said that to make her laugh....??? Ever since I couldn't get rid of her and we've been together ever since and I enjoy her alot. Before I met her I never considered a close relationship with anyone white. I lean more to being attracted to the asian, mediterannean, raven hair color medium complexion look.

Instead I fell for an auborn haired, fair skinned German. I have no regrets and adore her lots.

I don't think asian guys should not care who they date as long as the girl loves them, is devoted to them, is there for them and isn't a gold digger.

Answer 7

I'm half asian and I have no opposition in marrying any white girl..^_^

Answer 8

i will not marry a caucasian girl just because the society u ppl created...

is ok that a brainwashed asian girl dates a white guy but is wrong that an asian guy dates a white girl....

and u said GROWING INTERRACIAL RELATIONSHIP? HAHAHA THE ONLY INTERRACIAL RELATIONSHIP THAT IS GROWING IS BETWEEN BRAINWASHED PSEUDO ASIAN GIRLS AND WHITE GUYS...

Answer 9

Don't let society or your culture make your decisions. If you want a white girl, go for it.

Answer 10

if someone gives priority to their custom and values they will be conservative.if you don't so go ahead