They all know girls hate it
They are all photoshopped and edited
Thay wouldn't want us to be oogleing naked guys?
why do they?
It's just sick...especially if you have a girlfriend, it is so disrespectful! you should be happy with what you've got.
Don't tell me it is not impossible my BF has no porn, and i know that for a fact!
2007-03-28 21:33:03 · 22 answers · asked by 1.2..3...Boo 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Don't tell me "mastering" the art either...ya could just use ur imagination...and you would never get caught...
2007-03-28 21:34:02 · update #1
Most girls just try and make it seem that they are ok with it but trust me in reality it bothers 89% of them...and i'm not uptight i just think it is pathetic.
2007-03-28 21:40:44 · update #2
My BF does not have porn by choice i have never even said anything to him and i am not a prude, geez and ya all think i am uptight.
2007-03-28 21:44:37 · update #3
I am not jealous of the friggin' porn stars they look like freaking drag queens anyway, i'm not naieve but my BF is just a decent guy, and he trusts me. I make him happy so he does not take any interest in it!...quit hatin it's just a question!
2007-03-28 21:54:48 · update #4
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I am 25, male and I dont have porn. Actually I find porn to be a turn off. I think porn is NOT ok, its gross and degrading. Those female victims that are shown in porn make me sad. Boycott porn!
2007-03-28 22:46:52 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Men are very visual. I personally am totally against it. Pornography can become addictive and destroy what is or once was a great relationship.and sometimes lead to other things as well. I totally agree with you on it is disrespectfull to the other person. Do some research on pornography, you can find it under mental health.
Hopes this helps you and Good Luck !!
2007-03-29 04:51:21 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
I'm a woman and I don't have a problem with porn. Sure, it's fake, but that's what it is supposed to be! It's a fantasy. I don't find it disrespectful. I don't think of the women as victims and I don't believe that everyone who's ever veiwed pornography will become a crazed addict. That's just stupid.
Men and women masturbate. That's part of having a healthy sex life and often we like to use things to help us along. Some of us might veiw porn, use sex toys, read raunchy novels or invest in 'erotica' the fine art of pornography with a plot.
If porn is something that you are uncomfortable with, don't watch it, but you cannot demand that your boyfriend doesn't look at pornography. Just because you are dating him, doesn't mean that you are entitled to his sexuality, parts of it sure and only what he is willing to give, but his mastubatory fantasies? That's insane, controlling and reflects a very insecure woman with a very skewed veiw on sexuality. I wonder if you are a prude.
2007-03-29 04:41:26 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 2⤋
Why do girls think Pr0n isn't okay?
They know all guys love it...
It isn't sick at all. A guy who has porn to look at is less likely to go chasing random tail than one who doesn't. Be thankful that porn exists to help keep men under their wife/girlfriend's control.
Your BF has porn. Even if it is just the stuff in his head.
2007-03-29 04:47:24 · answer #4 · answered by Desperate Loser 5 · 0⤊ 2⤋
I've heard all the excuses from "I'm just getting ideas" to "I'm imagining it's us" all 100% lame. I know guys are visual, I think that's cool, that's the way they are. But come on! Porn? I think it just comes down to self-control and respect for your girlfriend/wife. Enjoy who you're with! If you guys gave say...a ring to your woman you wouldn't want her to go and admire other rings, would you? In a sense, that's what guys are doing when they look at porn. Your woman has given you herself...think about it! Good thing not all guys are like that! :)
2007-03-29 04:45:12 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 3⤋
All girls hate porn? Really? Are you sure about that? What about the women (friends and girlfriends) who I've watched porn with or who told me that they watch porn with their guys? What about the (straight) women who I've gone to strip clubs with?
You don't understand men. We can be "happy with what we've got" and still indulge our fantasies BY OURSELVES. For men, masturbation has NOTHING to do with our GFs or wives. It's a physical release of sexual tension. Sure, we get that release with our women but most men need that release more often than their women want to "help them" with it so we have to find other means.
Sexually, men are visual. We like to look at women, even images of women, that please us. It helps us get off. Women are a little different than that so I can see how some of you don't understand us men.
How do you know we'd mind you using porn for yourselves? We probably wouldn't want to talk about it, we'd just let you do your thing on your own, just like we do. I've had GFs who used porn (both alone and with me) and it didn't bother me, because I was doing the same thing myself.
You're BF doesn't have any porn? Really? Are you sure? So he NEVER looks any ANY type of pornographic image on the internet? You know, the type of thing that wouldn't leave any evidence for you to find?
By the way, you're violating his privacy if you're going through his things and snooping on his computer to find porn. Him being your BF does not give you total access to his life and property.
You're probably young. Most young girls don't understand pornography and men (when I was in HS I found one that did and it was awesome, but I digress) so I can see why you feel so strongly about this. I hope that you can begin to understand men as they are, not as you'd like them to be. If you're older then I don't really know what to say to you, except that you still don't understand male sexuality.
2007-03-29 04:46:31 · answer #6 · answered by lupin_1375 5 · 0⤊ 3⤋
Purplechic1982 hit the nail right on the head with her answer! Lighten up a little!
2007-03-29 04:42:04 · answer #7 · answered by FarOut 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
not all girls hate it. i know several that watch it more than me. i dont find it degrading to women and im not trying to pick up new tricks. its something a couple could enjoy together if you could pull your head out off your *** and not be jealous of the women on the tv.
2007-03-29 04:48:49 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
you and anyone else who thinks women don't like porn are so f*cking naive. i'm a women i love porn, because it gets me going. i'm very visual, and so are tons of other women. sex has nothing to do with love! unfortunatly so many women think this and i have never understood. Love is unconditional, liking someone for exactly who they are without expecting any thing in return, and is always positive. It is sad that so many poeple are so ignorant.
2007-03-29 04:41:46 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 3⤋
its not that friggin bad! Maybe u need 2 loosen up a bit & quit being so jealous!
2007-03-29 04:37:50 · answer #10 · answered by atlbrave10114 2 · 3⤊ 1⤋