I had a 4 yr relationship with an individual I wanted to spend the rest of my life with, unfortunately, I decided to end the relationship because of alot of insensitivity on his part. now I maintain throughout our relationship, a close knit relationship with the father of my son, due to the fact that I relied heavily on him for childcare and babysitting, my lover and I decided to keep our relationship under wraps until he decided he couldn't take it anymore and decided I needed to make a choice....
now although my choice wasn't obvious to the naked eye, i chose him because i saw in him what I wanted to be with in the future. now as my lover began school, he no longer paid that much attention to me and wasn't calling or even calling on my birthday anymore, and I found out he has a female from school talking very provocatively on his myspace page, and when i confront him( after some sneaky investigating on my own) he called me "stupid" and childish.(even though the way i did it was wron
2007-03-28 20:51:16 · 7 answers · asked by mizzbee1975 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Sounds like you made the wrong choice. We all do it sometimes. Unfortunately, he has found someone else, and he just does not have the guts to be honest with you. Move on, this relationship has fizzled out. I know that it will be tough after 4 years, but you will find the right one for you. Don't sit back and let him keep you alone and wondering. Good Luck! I know how you feel, I just had to move on after a 12 year relationship. Its not easy but you will get though it.
2007-03-28 21:02:30 · answer #1 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl you dont deserve that, you can find someone that will treat you way better out there than him. Even though the way you went to find out was wrong, you still had every right to know. But if you wouldn't have been sneaky and found that then you would have never known, so I think you did the right thing. but I think you should move on and don't worry about him and better your life. I hope everything works out for the best for you.
2007-03-29 04:16:49 · answer #2 · answered by key to your answer 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So do you even know who the father of your child is? What do you want, an apology? You treated both of them badly. There are no free rides in life. Deal with it, or you will lose your son.
2007-03-29 03:55:12 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
love is eternal,something godly,but u think psuedo relationship a love,better go within only in the company of yr heart and hear its commands,it will definately come to yr rescue.
2007-03-29 04:00:10 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you need to let go of him there will be someone better out there go find out if there is!
2007-03-29 03:57:26 · answer #5 · answered by Archangel Michael 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stick to ONE guy!! Choose whom you want
2007-03-29 03:55:35 · answer #6 · answered by AdultMale 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dump them both.
2007-03-29 04:00:11 · answer #7 · answered by vampire_kitti 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋