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I thought he was just talking s--t. That wasn't the case cause after our talk i checked the net? I still can't stop thinking about it though. I hate to admit it but he might have the upper hand in this one. I never had my Dad around when I was growing up and still don't know him or where he might be. I'm 24 and ever since I can remember my Mom always told jokes about how I was a mistake (dont even get the wrong idea my Mom is the MOST WONDERFUL WOMAN I'VE BEEN LUCKY TO CALL HER MOM!!!!!!!!!) That kind of humor is nomal for my family even now. (we're a bunck of s**t talkers!!) I never really though about it but now that i think back on my pst relationships I would do ANYTHING to make them happy or please them in any way. And I mean ANYTHING!! Live in my car, stop all conactwith all family take all kinds of abuse and there was never a andswer. See I've never been the type to let ANYONE mess with me or abuse me in any way why with them? Now I may have an andswer.

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Many fatherless women find themselves doing crazy things for a man's attention. Now that you have realized the problem, don't let them treat you like that ny more. You deserve the opportunity to make a better life for yourself.

Being a women does not make you less of a person. Get out there and take charge of your own destiny. Don't waste your life on these jerks. Good men that really care for you would not put you through that type of treatment. Love yourself. If you can't love yourself, then you will never allow anyone else to love you. Take care!!