me n my ex broke up ten months ago.after 4 year relationship...he called me back after finding out im not well.. 3 months ago...he doesnt call me often but occasionally chat online but he seems to use nice words to me...told me that he will come to see me...but when i ask him again he goes i dunno....i duuno what game he is playing with me..i reallly really love him alot...n the pain is not healing although its been 10 months...i cry everyday...n i dont know who to talk too...my friends are all to busy and i dunt want to bother anyone...i really duuno what to do....wht does he want
2007-03-28 21:16:18 · 18 answers · asked by Pain and Agony 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
he sometimes sms baby i have been thinking loads about you...i get really happy when i see th sms but later i hurts me because his not with me
2007-03-28 21:37:10 · update #1
He just wants to be friends. After 4 years of being together, you do not just stop caring. He is concerned about you. Accept his offer of friendship, and stop trying to make more of it than it was. If he wanted you back, he would do something about it. Make yourself happy. Move on. Find someone that will be there with you, instead of online, or on the phone. Much happiness!!
2007-03-28 21:28:15 · answer #1 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I understand where you are coming 4rm i am in the same situation , I broke up with my ex of 3 years 1 year ago and i still cry over him , we are now communicating after 1 year, any ways I think he still loves you but he's probably not sure how you feel , just let him know how you feel..... and keep this in mind...they say if you lost something you've got to let it go, but if it comes back then IT MEANS SO MUCH MORE, but if it doesn't at least you will know that it was something you had to go through to grow ...keep ur head up sweetie hope everything works out for you
2007-04-04 16:57:14 · answer #2 · answered by tasty 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you ever thought about asking him that? Nobody is going to be able to help you on this one but him. I know not the answer you were probably looking for, but i think its the only one. hey and don't feel like there is something wrong with you cuz you can't get over it. You all spent 4 years together and you still talk. Its only natural. I feel for you i really do. I hope that you can get this figured out and that maybe for your sake he isn't playing a game and maybe still loves you and after all of this time doesn't know how to tell you. Good Luck!
2007-03-29 04:21:48 · answer #3 · answered by Squeakers 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well you've been together for a long time....loving and caring feelings don't just evaporate because you are not together anymore....You have a history together and that cannot change, nobody can erase that.....So....i am sure he still loves you very much and cares for you.....and he will always do....even if he doesn't want to get back with you....But he was and he will always be a part of your life and so will you for him....
That is great eventhough you might want more.....You should cherish that......
2007-04-06 04:13:52 · answer #4 · answered by Tsigio 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He probably called just to make sure your okay..guys can be very weird also..but yeah,just to make sure you okay since he was with you for so long he must still care for you in someway..but when he says i dunno..that means he's just being immature. Let him go..i dont know how many times i've cried for a guy,and months later I meet a better one :) dont cry hun,try to hang out with positive friends and meet good ppl..and hopefully a better guy!
2007-03-29 04:21:16 · answer #5 · answered by yahooaddict 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't let him just keep stringing you along. Get on with your life, find someone new. Don't let him keep breaking your hearth. Ignore this on-line stuff for a while and see what if any thing happens. All of this must be great stuff for his ego. Stop letting him jerk you around. Time heals all wounds. Guarantee it.
2007-03-29 04:26:34 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
be careful when some one starts playing head games it is not a good sign. he is telling you things maybe to get your hopes up about him visiting and then delaying when all signs that he is playing you or wants to visit when he has the time and maybe have a little fun with you. forget him and find yourself another guy
2007-03-29 04:28:08 · answer #7 · answered by james s 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They first thing you need to understand is - You cannot trust him. He has let you down once, he'll do it again. The second thing is that he probably just wants to be friends, and if there's any chance, the third thing - get back in your pants because he probably isn't getting any, and yours was good.
2007-03-29 04:21:04 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he is just trying to be nice since you have not been feeling well. A long relationship makes deep feelings. He might care just not not bf/gf
2007-03-29 04:20:50 · answer #9 · answered by mundo808 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you just lonely? Don't push a relationship on someone who's not interested. You may lose him as a Friend. Good luck.
2007-04-06 02:51:38 · answer #10 · answered by sheree_98133 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋