This was our last conversation.. and since then.. He's GONE! (Plz READ)?

Question

I went back to my hometown. Met this guy and we liked each other a lot. he was sexy, cute and hot. we were so crazy about each other. We spent one night together, we kissed, hugged and got naked. But we didn't have sex. only fingering.
I'm 25 and he's 30.

After that we started fliting like crazy.

Then I left.. also left him my no.
We kept in touch and did text a lot.

He said he missed me, liked me a lot and that he had feelings for me.

Note: We are both taken! (I know this is so wrong.. but this isn't the question!)

Last saturday we texting and here it went:
Him: I miss you hun, I really do. all I say is true. I've been thinking about you a lot
Me: Yeah.. me too. I wanna hug you but I can't reach ya...
Him: Hun, I don't know why I like you so much.. I can't believe once again I'd be in love with someone else
Me: I'm really upset that I can't see you right now. It's killing me. Should I quit?

Me: We can’t do anything.. but at least we can see each other.. Now it seems torturing.
Him” I’m so sorry that I’ve made you upset thinking about me. I miss you a lot too. Mmuah!
Me: If I saw u now.. I’d bite ya.. u so naughty and that’s wahat I like the most about u.
Him: I want!!! Mmuah.. love you. Btw, I gotta work. Later.. honey. Mmuah!

Since then He never texting me nor reply my text.

What do you think is going on with him?

oops i missed somthing in the middle part
Me: I'm really upset that I can't see you right now. It's killing me. Should I quit?

Him: What kinda question is that? wat do we gonna do? what am i gonna do? i miss too a lot. but i give the right to choose what u wanna do with our affair. i really like u. mmuah!

Me: We can’t do anything.. but at least we can see each other.. Now it seems torturing.

Answer 1

Honey, I can tell you from experience, that whatever the reason he cut contact with you, it is better for both of you.
Living with a secret love will tear you apart. You had one night of petting and look at what it has brought you. Can you imagine what it would be like if there was something more?
I had more in a situation that involved spouses. Everyone got hurt, badly. It's easy to find that newness drawing us in bringing a feeling of love we thought we lost. I would throw away his number and forget about what happened, turn your attention to your relationship at hand rediscover what you lost there that caused you to feel like you did with this other person. If then you find that something permanently gone, you wont be involving others in the situation

Answer 2

Just give him time. He could be busy, run out of credit, misplaced his phone. There are many reasons why he may not reply. But if you are both with someone else then maybe you should talk to him about what you are going to do about leaving ur partners if you guys are that serious about each other. If not forget him for awhile and just concentrate on ur man. I mean he must be with you for a reason. So maybe reconnect with him..and as for the other guy i think this saying applies:
If you love someone set them free
If they come back they are yours
If not they werent meant to be

Answer 3

his wife or whoever he is with saw your texts and they had the greatest scandal ever. she told him to choose her or u, she had chosen her of course, then she ordered to delete your number and all texts and never contact u. maybe she also destroyed his sim card and ordered to make a new one, that way u won't be able to find out his new number and contact him. cos i am very sure nobody rememebrs by heart all those mobile numbers


by the way, try to call him. if his number says "number is not in use" or gives u busy tone all the time it means i am right. and if he licks up - well, u can ask what the hell was he thinking when he stopped sending u sms

Answer 4

both of you are in a relationship right now.aren't you happy with your present?
and he might just realized that he had done something wrong and don't want to end up hurting both of you that's why he stopped communicating with you.
if i were you, ill stop. if the two of you are meant for each other, no matter what happens, you'll end up with each other's arms...
unless.. you just wana be freaky crazie with him

Answer 5

Maybe his conscience got to him.

I hope that you realize that you are taking a chance on losing the person you are with. If you don't love him, it is selfish to keep him on the hook. Let him go find someone that truly loves him. How would you feel if he did that to you?

Answer 6

you really need to figure out how you feel about the guy you are with now. hou much do you love him?
also how are you going to make the distance work if you get with the other guy? absence does not make the heart grow fonder, it makes the heart go wander.
are you certain that he will dump his girlfriend for you if you decide to get together?
it sounds to me reading the resf of your post that he's happy back with his girlfriend now, and that you probably would make a mistake thinking about changing your life for him.

Answer 7

I suspect his significant other realized what was going on and said either or. You were eliminated. Do you think your significant other would have given you the same ultimatum or do you think he would have said so long.

Answer 8

Players only love you when their playing hun.

Answer 9

He miss placed his phone and cant find it.

Answer 10

maybe he is thinking about ur situation, it does sound confusing.