Whats wrong with me? I don't think Ill be able to get over her...?

Question

I just found out from a "past" (as of about 2 hours ago) that this girl I really like just played me super bad. For the past two hours I have been the most angry at anyone other than my parents in my entire life. My feelings were toyed with and then discarded like I don't matter. Its funny because the girl never even told me how she felt... I had to wait and hear it from my so called friend, who went and talked to her even though I had asked him not to. He even went ahead and told her everything I had told him in confidence. Wow Im getting more mad as I write this lol. Anyways, so Ive been on the phone for the last two hours fuming to another friend. I log online when I get home and notice that she sent me an email... saying nothing about how she felt... nothing about needing to talk, just random stupid things. But then she said she was sad because she couldnt go into town tomorrow and she didnt end up going to the store she wanted today, and I felt sad for her I wanted to go hug her.

I know most will say, just keep your distance. But thats impossible. I see her everyday and nothing I can do will change that. Shes friends with my friends. She hangs out where I hang out. Shes best friends with my best friends girlfriend. I take the bus with her in the morning and neither of us know anyone else on it but each other...

Answer 1

Something similar happened to me once. I told this guy all about how I liked this girl, and he basically told her right in front of me a few minutes later even though I told him that I thought she had a boyfriend. Well, that didn't turn out well. I've since learned to watch what sensitive information I reveal to people.

Hmmm . . . if I were you, I would not associate with that guy who told your crush all your business anymore. Other than that, there isn't much you can do. Cheer up, and be confident! I promise you, these people will be shocked if you act like this doesn't matter! You'll be like . . . super cool! Now you know who you can't trust, and how to keep things like that to yourself in the future. Good night!