Family & Relationships - 31 March 2007

There's this guy i work with and it's a long story but I like him, and it really irritates me that I think he's been playing me for a while. Everyone says he is just very shy so a while back I told him that if he ever wanted to go do something together we should. He never picked up on that chance. I don't know what he thinks or feels. It hurts me to have to see him every day.

So the other day I asked him, "Didn't you say you were thinking of quitting this job? When are you going to leave, really?"

Guys, what impression would you have if a girl said this to you and how would you react? I know it sounds like a silly question, but I am interested in your thoughts. Would you stop speaking to the girl?

2007-03-31 23:05:30 · 19 answers · asked by Jebbie 7 in Singles & Dating

I really need help, the love of my life and i aren't allowed to talk. Is there a spell tht can help us change our parents minds or a spell tht can help us be together please help me.

2007-03-31 22:59:55 · 5 answers · asked by lovesangel 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I have to take care together with my mother about our old grandmother which is extremelly mean and unpleasant person. She makes us problems and we have to keep our mouth closed and to bear such rude behaviour.
What would you do if you were in our shoes?

2007-03-31 22:59:08 · 9 answers · asked by Suchness 5 in Family

has anyone ever found temseves with a problem where no matter how supportive family and friends are you know in your head that your on your own and noone can help and then no matter how hard you try you just cant see the answer you know its there but you just cant see it

2007-03-31 22:51:46 · 18 answers · asked by bundy ball bag 1 in Friends

Hi I'm 19 turning twenty in June. I already care For my 1mounth old neice called Dimond and my 6 year old twin brother and sister called Peter and Ruby.(Ruby is the mother of Diomond)

I had to look after them after owe mother and farther died and we don't have any living reletives!!!!

My problem was that I found out I am pregnant and I didn't know wan't to do but I do now I am keeping the baby, MY BABY!!!!!!!!!Max said that he would marry me if I chose to keep the baby and if I don't he will still marry me!!!Oh I will be I could mother since I'm keeping the baby. Also I'm will love the baby with all my heart(well what ever is left)!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Hi I'm 19 turning twenty in june. I already care For my 1mounth old neice called Dimond and my 6 year old twin brother and sister called Peter and Ruby. I chose to look after them after owe mother and farther died and we don't have any living reletives.

So my question how is should I marry Max or not?Since when I told him he asked.

2007-03-31 22:39:12 · 13 answers · asked by Paula 1 in Weddings

i slept with someone famous last a year and a couple of months ago and we kept in touch and we always emailed eachother all this time untill valentines day he emailed me to wish me a happy valentines day so i replied but i never heard from him since i also emailed twice after valentines but he never replied to my emails...im really shocked and surprised because all this time he was telling me that he has feelings for me and he was always trying to fly me to the usa to see him but then all of a sudden i dont hear from him anymore...i dont know what to do...plz some one help me

2007-03-31 22:32:12 · 22 answers · asked by betty b 1 in Singles & Dating

Someone has told me that Holland has raised its minimum age for marriage to 21 recently. I find this very hard to believe since the minimum age for everything else in Holland is a lot lower.

Can someone clarify this for me please?

2007-03-31 22:05:43 · 6 answers · asked by robin_baker_uk 3 in Marriage & Divorce

we also have 7 yrs old dtr.this prob stared just 8-9 mnths back, god knows , she has no ans. . what is this

2007-03-31 21:57:01 · 16 answers · asked by skj 1 in Marriage & Divorce

say we talk and see each other all the time, how would i go about asking her out?

2007-03-31 21:54:36 · 15 answers · asked by waddle02 2 in Singles & Dating

what is fans

2007-03-31 21:51:51 · 13 answers · asked by UNIVERSALCIRCLES 2 in Friends

Can someone tell me the hourly fee for a lawyer in New Delhi, India for handling a divorce? What should be the total cost from start to end - such as a case that takes 2.5 years - typical. Thank you

2007-03-31 21:49:59 · 6 answers · asked by Tooling~guy 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I was at the grocery store yesterday waiting in line when this girl started flirting with me. I'm sure they do it just to tick me off. What's something good to say to make them knock it off?

2007-03-31 21:48:42 · 18 answers · asked by Desperate Loser 5 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-31 21:40:02 · 16 answers · asked by victor98_2001 4 in Singles & Dating

I saw his myspace account in the history of our computer and it said browse. I clicked cuz I'm like why is he browsing myspace? When I did it was logged in. I saw he had been browsing girls and adding attractive ones. His sent messages were empty. So I confronted him and he said he has always done this for no reason. That he doesn't talk to anyone and just does it without thinking. Its something he's always done and isn't gonna stop doing it. He has never given me any reason not to trust him in the 9 months I've known him and treats me SO good. Like a princess. He deals with my personal problems and is more than there for me. I just don't understand why he would be doing this "for no reason" especially when he asks me to marry him everyday. He knows I'm in love with him too I just want to say 'yes' when we can actually afford to get married.

2007-03-31 21:39:17 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-03-31 21:35:05 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

what i really want to know is that is it just me or is it common to get rejected? i mean maybe its the way they dance nowadays. grinding is common and girls usually don't want to grind with guys that they don't know. or maybe my appearance? I'm pretty short about 5 '5" and somewhat chubby 160lbs. I wouldn't say that i'm ugly though, about average looking.

2007-03-31 21:30:43 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

would you agree if your girlfriend older than you ?

2007-03-31 21:16:03 · 8 answers · asked by Karthik 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-31 21:07:18 · 13 answers · asked by valleygirl 1 in Singles & Dating

I dated a guy for 18 months, and ended it more than six months ago. He hasn't taken it well, and he seems to be getting worse lately. I wrote him recently to tell him I don't want to be in contact with him anymore. He's been writing me anonymously to harass me, written a friend's wife and claimed I had sex with her husband, shown up at a group I normally attend, and has posed as his own mother on her email to see what I'd say to her. I filed a harassment incident report with the police, and today I called his mother and told him he's been posing as her on her email. (He said a friend has her password and it must be the friend who's doing all this, and I think she believes him.) While I'm hopeful that she will tell him to knock it off, will this cause him to escalate the harassment? Or, since she now knows that something is up, will he stop on his own? Any suggestions for what I should do next?

2007-03-31 21:06:38 · 3 answers · asked by Katherine W 7 in Singles & Dating

When he gets drunk he gets aggressive. He always lies about htings that I find out about later on and he is constantly telling me how much its hima nd I and we are going to conquer the world. I talked to his ex girlfriend and she says it was the same with her....Is it healthy for me to want to stay with him? Even if he has aggressive outbursts when he drinks? I love him a lot I really do. And when we're not fighting and getting a long he treats me like a queen. Is this healthy for me?

2007-03-31 21:02:43 · 6 answers · asked by Kris 4 in Singles & Dating

Theres this girl that i like and she is totaly HOTT, but i don't know if she likes me back. So, how do u know if a girl likes you? And if you know, how do I tell hr I like her?

PLEASE HELP!!!

2007-03-31 21:01:24 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i want to know wat kinds of things girls do that get guys' attention. things that would turn them on...things like that.

2007-03-31 20:57:28 · 27 answers · asked by rOcKstAr18 1 in Singles & Dating

my husband and i are divorcing on tuesday. Should i initiate sex for the last time? is this a good idea to begin with?

2007-03-31 20:56:26 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

he walks past and winks and smiles and then he tells me he is sure that he has seen me before. wherever i am thats where he seems to be. On my break, or he'll tell me when he is leaving and says goodbye.I think he is obsessed and he freaks me out.He like way older too but i'm and adult. what do you think?

2007-03-31 20:50:49 · 8 answers · asked by debra 2 in Singles & Dating

I am friends with a guy. We have hooked up once (just touching and making out) and he wants to be friends with benefits. He also told me that he is working on getting in a relationship with someone else (a real one). I dont want to be a toy. I am looking to get in a relationship with someone else as well. is it wrong to hook up with him in the mean time? am i being used? we arent going to have sex...to young...but there wil be alot of touching......HELPPPPP

2007-03-31 20:49:43 · 7 answers · asked by mandy s 1 in Friends

If you are getting freedom, it doesnt mean divorce r dont in hell? wut do u all think ?

2007-03-31 20:48:56 · 17 answers · asked by jam99_2u 3 in Marriage & Divorce

I have a best friend of the opposite sex. We have been friends for 11 years. Both of our families are very close and we all interact all the time. My parents consider him to be their son, they know he is not trying to get with me or my sister. His son is my godson. We hang out all the time and we talk about everything. Thats not the problem, the problem is that people that we date can't handle our friendship. We both make it a habit to tell people that we have a friend that is of the opposite sex and we are very close but not close like that. We give them the opportunity to walk away before getting close to us. I don't think that I am wrong for telling people about him because my best friend has been there for me all the time and I can't see myself messing up my friendship with him because of someone else insecurities. My question is why do people believe that people of the opposite sex can not be close unless they have had a romantic relationship before or they are messing around now?

2007-03-31 20:44:57 · 9 answers · asked by CuriousStacy 4 in Friends

Most of you know my husband built a Stone pizza oven,and I must say it's perfect because it added 40k to house and only time and a little money was required!

No husband however has gone over to the dark side, no not my a$$( he can go their anytime) and torn up our rug in the living room and started to prep for hard wood floors!
He got the wood and started to lay it all around living room!
Now for center he has made 32 white squares 2ft. by 2 ft. out of a wood called alder,And 32 from a wood called mahogany!
Now he started to do this before got married at my request for hard wood floods in living room so I really can't BIT*H about it, and was doing it for over a 6 weeks before we got married.
We this afternoon as I got home our rug was all torn up and in driveway! and husband started to lay floor down with these square wood pieces he was varnishing in garage for 2 months! He laid them and it look like a really big chess board!
I screamed, but was impressed at the same time!

2007-03-31 20:41:55 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

i m married since last 5 years life has become impossible between me and my wife no hope at all.. things got really nasty and all my property almost in her name .. can someone help me out what to do or any legal trick.. as i need to get married to another woman whom i love the most on this earth.. but same time my wife isnt accepting divorce which might make things difficult and how long can a divorce case take in india

2007-03-31 20:38:02 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Ok this girl likes me but i completely ignored her last semester. The reason i ignored her because she's fat, lazy(I always caught her putting her heads down in the chair) and I don't think she's smart(the best quality I like). So what is she expecting? Until now she's hoping to attract my attention which is not going to happen.

2007-03-31 20:35:54 · 12 answers · asked by E.S ZEBULUN 2 in Singles & Dating