we also have 7 yrs old dtr.this prob stared just 8-9 mnths back, god knows , she has no ans. . what is this
2007-03-31 21:57:01 · 16 answers · asked by skj 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Everyone (both men and women) go through such a phase in life atleast once. They dislike sex for a while. At times this phases could stretch a bit longer. Try to change things around you. Add some colours, some spice. Maybe that will help you out. She's just bored of sex. That doesn't mean that she doesn't love you.
All the best...
:-)
2007-04-01 09:07:32 · answer #1 · answered by plato's ghost 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Firstly, i would ask before having everybody tell you to kick your spouse to curb, what have you done to make it better for her.Plato is right, the same way men go thru certain phases, so do women. Our bodies are not machines that turn on and off just because you want it to and when you want it to. You kid is 7, maybe she yearns for another child. Fear is the main factor in behaviours as such. She could require something of which you have refused her. Talk to her. She loves you remember. Talk to her without demanding answers or dictating to her.A change of environment is good, away from other family members such as parents and in laws. She's your wife, not you secretary. Good luck.
2007-04-01 16:35:34 · answer #2 · answered by Ari-ah 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
man, your wife has lost interest in it, coz U seems to be cold brat for him or she is having flings with some one else in this open world when Indian society is seeing rapid changes. U better plug your loose knots or it will be over for ever. Wifey is a tricky & rickety natured species. Men should be extra careful before it is too late. Aplomb love, keen interest, showering love, money & caressings sincerely & affectionately add to the love danglings & help in keeping interest, otherwise you know the divorce rates are rapindly zooming believable proportions.
2007-04-01 06:18:40 · answer #3 · answered by sharmaz_translator 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Show are the latest Supreme court Judgement Case No.Appeal(civil) 151 of 2004 Samar Ghosh Vs Jaya Ghosh dated 26.3.07 relevant para : -(xii) Unilateral decision of refusal to have
intercourse for considerable period
without there being any physical
incapacity or valid reason may amount to
mental cruelty. Rest she will understand the implication of this judgement.
2007-04-01 08:37:58 · answer #4 · answered by vijay m Indian Lawyer 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you can't get her to talk or touch then I would tell her that you have needs and that part of marriage is to take care of each other's needs. If I was in this situation I would go to marriage counseling and then if that didn't work I would start looking for a girlfriend.
2007-04-01 05:55:53 · answer #5 · answered by Dud 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why don’t u speak and find out the reason of her behavior?
Maybe you have a sexual problems and your sexual life is without passion...?
U have to keep the passion between u and her; if it disappears u become just friends who have to do sex just as a responsibility, which is too bad and it separates u from each other.
Talk to her to start a new sexual life which brings ur relationship in to live. Ask her to start every thing from the beginning!
Good luck to u both.
2007-04-01 05:05:35 · answer #6 · answered by Panther 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ten years of marriage is good old to be a decade. You try to have changes in the modalities which make her uncomfortable. Everything will be comfortable, provided you take her also as equal partner in your repair & maintenance schedule.
2007-04-01 06:39:04 · answer #7 · answered by mkm 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dear skj,
Your wife is frigid! Kick it to the curb, nothing you can do about it (she'll play this as long as she want to and you are better off letting her go), It's her problem. You can try to get her help but she probably doesn't think anything of it (that is due to her being frigid), nothings wrong and that's a lack of trying on her part. I know you must care but she doesn't. Good luck!
2007-04-01 05:24:57 · answer #8 · answered by beamer 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Maybe she needs to be romanced a bit. The trouble with us girlies is we get a bit annoyed if the only time our guys are nice to us or even pay us any physical attention is when they want some. Take her out, buy her flowers and just generally woo her (DON'T do all that just because you want her to put out, do it because you love her and want her to feel special).
2007-04-01 05:37:03 · answer #9 · answered by g_i_r_l_g_a_m_b_i_t 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I agree with beckini.However I can ad my 2 cents worth and it doesn't mean you have to read it.
There is something deaper than you going on.Maybe she screwed your brother or is cheating on you and doesn't want to say.You could hire a PI and see.Or if you don't want to know the truth then don't because higins has supper waiting for magnum pi and he gets upset when he don't eat it to work a case.
2007-04-01 05:09:42 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋