I am friends with a guy. We have hooked up once (just touching and making out) and he wants to be friends with benefits. He also told me that he is working on getting in a relationship with someone else (a real one). I dont want to be a toy. I am looking to get in a relationship with someone else as well. is it wrong to hook up with him in the mean time? am i being used? we arent going to have sex...to young...but there wil be alot of touching......HELPPPPP
2007-03-31 20:49:43 · 7 answers · asked by mandy s 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
he is very nice to me and gives me compliments...i just dont want to be used
2007-03-31 20:50:57 · update #1
He's trying to use you and it will hurt a lot if you do it. Also, he can tell other people and you'll get a rep. Avoid him, wait for the right one.
2007-03-31 20:53:43 · answer #1 · answered by Katherine W 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No way! What is wrong with you? Don't do it. You already have doubts. This is not a good idea. I think you may lose your self-respect, or regret it in the end. In the long run I think you're going to regret it. I am only saying that because of the impression I get from your info you offered. To thine own self be true. You know what is right and what is wrong. Be good to yourself. You practically answered your own question. If you don't want to be a toy, then why would you put yourself in a position to be a toy??
2007-03-31 20:57:20 · answer #2 · answered by Carhop3000 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds to me you're simply a "spare tire" to this guy. A friend with benefits??? What kind of friend is this anyways? I suggest that you stopped meeting with this guy. I feel sorry for the girl he's interested in because he won't be faithful to her. Stay away from him, and I think this is the best for you. Good luck and best wishes.
2007-03-31 21:27:42 · answer #3 · answered by danielle s 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you ever heard the saying "wants his cake and eating it to"? Sounds like this young man is playing with your emotions and your body. You think he's not going to try to go for home base? Your age doesn't matter unless you are under the age of 12 and he is to. He says he wants another but thinks he can "play" with you? Unless you are sitting on your head I think you will be able to figure this one out.
2007-03-31 21:15:37 · answer #4 · answered by jimmer256 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
trust me. If you agree to this, you ARE being used. Basically, he's saying he wants you physically, but couldn't care les about your personality, etc. If you want a relationship with someone else, DO NOT GET WITH THIS GUY.
2007-03-31 20:54:25 · answer #5 · answered by Anaid 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
NO, dont do it, you arent an object to satisfy a man... he has his own hand for that. You are a human being with feelings and emotions, and you deserve to be treated with respect, dont forget that, and dont let him forget it either.
2007-03-31 21:23:43 · answer #6 · answered by Lauren J 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Please, no friends with benefits.
He wants to be with someone else.
Find some self respect.
2007-03-31 20:54:30 · answer #7 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋