Family & Relationships - 31 March 2007

I am no t suggest that if a wonderful woman is not a virgin that you should not marry her, but all other things being equal, wouldn't you rather she were? Give reasons why.

2007-03-31 20:13:55 · 27 answers · asked by michael H 4 in Marriage & Divorce

We have been together for 2 years and we fight and dislike each other 90% of the time. We are going to counseling and trying to make it work, even though we both feel like its hopeless, yet neither one of us will give up. Seriously it so bad that we can only tolerate maybe one day a week with each other. the rest of the time we hate each other. Yet as much as we break up, we always get back together. It makes me feel crazy, but then I wonder why he doesn't give up either. What is wrong with us, why can't we just let it go? Why do we put in so much effort?

Why are we driving each other nuts?

2007-03-31 20:10:37 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Should I leave or cheat on my husband or just get used to it? I don't know what to do...

2007-03-31 20:07:56 · 25 answers · asked by Mamma Mia 3 in Marriage & Divorce

Well i've liked this boy for awhile now and in the beginning it seemed like he liked me a lot too! so later on in the school year we were the same but you can tell when he likes other ppl more especially when he goes out with them! so i just thought whatever and tried to move on! well everytime we are togethter like at a party or anything he is always flirting with me and making moves! well then he goes out with another girl, or just always does that but never asks me out. well last night we were at a friends and earlier we had tlked about us two flirting and stuff since another girl wasn't coming like i was second choice or something. well when we were there we were hanging out and stuff but then it was me and him and another girl and guy in a room together and this boy came in with his phone trying to catch us doing stuff so he could take pixx.....weirdo! well the guy started doing stuff to me for the camers....i wanted to flirt back but i didnt want to seem easy to everyone else so

2007-03-31 20:05:19 · 4 answers · asked by BuddhaBuddy 1 in Singles & Dating

WHO CARES IF YOU BOTH GET ALONG !

2007-03-31 19:55:17 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

At what point do you no your in love?

2007-03-31 19:52:17 · 20 answers · asked by Missy14 1 in Singles & Dating

I am 14 and sometimes i find myself falling back in love with my ex-boyfriend. i set right by him in class. i can't get away from him.. i tryed with others but i still think of him(my ex).. what should i do you get him off my mind... PLZ HELP????

2007-03-31 19:49:11 · 15 answers · asked by Missy14 1 in Singles & Dating

We've been dating 5 months. It hasn't been the most stable relationship. It started out as friendship, I was getting over my ex-bf who i had been with 2 years and it was a rough time for me. I didn't feel comfortable at that time telling him about my previous bfs from 4 years before, i felt it wasnt the right time.

Well, then i found out i was pregnant with his child. I immediately told him anything i hadn't about my past, childhood, ex-bfs, everything. He can't get over the fact that i was with other guys, even though I'm 100% faithful to him now. I don't know how to make him see that was years ago and i'm ready to be serious and settle down with him.

Since I'm his first in every sense, he tries to get back at me for my past by making me jealous, staring at every girl he sees, etc. He also freaks out when any guy comes near me, even if its a crowded place and somebody brushes up against me, we end up fighting for an hour.

Is this a phase or will it always be like this?

2007-03-31 19:42:31 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-03-31 19:38:55 · 24 answers · asked by Chiro4Life 2 in Marriage & Divorce

after a guy gets sex from a girl that been holding out - do he lose all in interest in her? how she can stop that from happening and why does it happen? guys shouldn't do girls bad like this, it's not right....

2007-03-31 19:38:17 · 22 answers · asked by mariah2480 1 in Singles & Dating

Again! On this Y!A.

If I had a life...I wouln't be here.

2007-03-31 19:35:46 · 22 answers · asked by Joe B 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-03-31 19:29:44 · 25 answers · asked by mexjay 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-03-31 19:29:40 · 35 answers · asked by Angela M 1 in Marriage & Divorce

wat are some of the biggest turn ons that a girl can do to get ur attention?

2007-03-31 19:29:26 · 11 answers · asked by rOcKstAr18 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-31 19:25:10 · 21 answers · asked by SportsFan 3 in Family

2007-03-31 19:12:29 · 4 answers · asked by fadi s 1 in Marriage & Divorce

There's this girl whom I've been friends with for years... and I think she's liked me for a while now; but I've always remained neutral towards her because I didn't really like her that much, and I already have a girlfriend in a long-distance relationship.
Lately though, I've felt more and more attracted to her, and today I just made out with her for the first time.
She knows all about my girlfriend, and she hinted today that I should break up with my current girlfriend before we take it any further.
I like my long-dist. g/f more than I like her, but I don't think that I can keep up that relationship anymore (too far).

Going out with my friend would be fun, and I really want to, and I'm really physically attracted to her...

But breaking up with my long-d g/f would be really messy (promised marriage etc.), and I'm not even sure I want to...

2007-03-31 18:55:58 · 7 answers · asked by DragoonZero 1 in Singles & Dating

there's this girl at my church thats really hot.i've been checking her out for like a year. (she's the lead singer). i want to tell her how i feel (not ask her out) but i'm 12 and she's like 16,17. i'm 5'7 my voice has changed and i have facial hair so i could pass for like 14 but it would still be awkward telling her i like her since we don't know each other either. what do i do.

2007-03-31 18:48:28 · 10 answers · asked by lbj23d 2 in Singles & Dating

What are your opinions of Australia and her people.

2007-03-31 18:38:24 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I've been feeling a little depressed lately because my father and brother are leaving town and they are the only blood relatives I have here. I was having really low moment and wrote how I was feeling on my blog. My sister in law read it and showed my mother in law how called my husband and then every one was mad that I didn’t tell them how I was feeling and put it out there for the whole world to see. It was bad. I felt worse after writing it then before and that was not what I wanted I thought that I would feel better for getting it off my chest.
I must say this in my blog I wrote that I had no one to turn to and I was alone don’t know if that makes a difference but I thought I should be honest. So do you think that I was wrong in putting my feelings out like that or should I have kept it to my self.

2007-03-31 18:32:56 · 10 answers · asked by Aud 1 in Family

Okay I'm graduating high school this year in grade 12 and I'm thinking of asking a girl i really like to the prom. She's the same age is me, but the only thing is that she won't be graduating this year because she is grade. She's one grade back because when she moved to my country a dew years ago, they made her go back a grade, even though we are the same age. Do you think I would still be able to take somone to the prom who is not graduating or in the same grade??

2007-03-31 18:28:50 · 12 answers · asked by REDSOX847 2 in Singles & Dating

I just wrote about husband having a affair and my answers were awsome! Thanks for everyone who answered my 1st post. When my husband told me Friday 3/30/07 that he had a affair 2 years ago he went out Friday night and never came back until Sat morning when it was time for me to go to work. Then awhile ago when I got off after working 10 hours, he was putting his belt on and went back out again. I thought when two people love each other no mater what they try to work things out. Would you go out and stay if you told you spouse you loved them so much. It all started 3 weekends ago, I work everyother weekend so weekend 1 he went out and never came home until Sun, weekend 2 he went out of town to some drag race came home sat for 5 min left and I didn't see him until sun morning, he picked his son up was gone about 4 hrs, came back for 2 min and I didn't see my husband until Monday when it was time for me to go back to work. And now, Iam on this computer crying my eyes out. Should I give up

2007-03-31 18:25:38 · 19 answers · asked by madblackwoman 1 in Marriage & Divorce

and when you tell him and offer him some...a cookie...he didn't want any...like he was just being nosey or making conversation...Why do guys do that????


Oh, and was the fact he was putting lip chap on at the time symbolic...is the some type of oral fetish??? Or what?

2007-03-31 18:23:59 · 1 answers · asked by §♫♪‹(•¿•)›☼»-(¯`v´¯)-»\\ 6 in Other - Family & Relationships

I'm not much into church and I'm not into drinking. Where's the best place to meet girls. It seems to be much harder ever since I've graduated college.

2007-03-31 18:23:36 · 7 answers · asked by question man 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-31 18:23:35 · 3 answers · asked by fadi s 1 in Marriage & Divorce

me and him have been together for 3 and 1/2 years and it's been a really tough relationship. he has cheated on me twice while we were together and out of my kind heart, i had forgiven him. he had started being abusive towards me and the last time he hit me and pushed me down, i called the police. this was february 8. i pressed charges on him for domestic battery and i was fed up. after that, i started to forgive him, but i never dropped the charges. now we are not together and he is running aroud with other females. i am now 8 and 1/2 months pregnant with my first child and i am alone. after getting in a couple of other altercations, i had checked to see if he had that domestic battery charge on his record. but he doesn't yet. i dont want to be with him no more but just tonight he had a girl call my phone back to back calling me names and telling me that she is with him now and some more. what i am asking is is will he get what he deserves by going to jail or will he get away with this

2007-03-31 18:20:22 · 13 answers · asked by asdfjkl 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Honestly. I've been dating for a long time, and I still don't get it. How can you go on a date with a guy, have everything go super fantastic, he says he really likes you and he's going to call you in a couple of days, and then you just wait around on your butt with no phone calls. Why would you either lie about liking someone, or make them wait a whole week for your call? Men, why are you playing with my heart?

2007-03-31 18:12:04 · 4 answers · asked by rachelinjapan24 2 in Singles & Dating

I just found out from a "past" friend that this girl I really like just played me super bad. For the past two hours I have been the most angry at anyone other than my parents in my entire life. My feelings were toyed with and then discarded like I don't matter. Its funny because the girl never even told me how she felt... I had to wait and hear it from my so called friend, who went and talked to her even though I had asked him not to. He even went ahead and told her everything I had told him in confidence. Wow Im getting more mad as I write this lol. Anyways, so Ive been on the phone for the last two hours fuming to another friend. I log online when I get home and notice that she sent me an email... saying nothing about how she felt... nothing about needing to talk, just random stupid things. But then she sounded sad because she couldnt go into town tomorrow and she was pretty down, and I felt sad for her I wanted to go hug her. All I think about is her, and I need to stop. But how?

2007-03-31 18:10:06 · 7 answers · asked by teh_masta_of_all 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-31 18:06:15 · 16 answers · asked by bubblepower789 2 in Singles & Dating

they have been married not even a year and he wants a divorce so we can get married, he has already payed, filed and sent the papers but she cant be found and she wont sign!he is in the marines and he leaves for iraq in july! can someone please help qick?

2007-03-31 18:05:02 · 7 answers · asked by safewaychick 1 in Marriage & Divorce